كلام في النفس
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يحوي هذا الكتاب في طياته مقالات عديدة تم نشرها في صفحة بنفس الاسم على موقع فيسبوك . بدأت فكرة الصفحة إثر حوار طويل دار بيني وبين أحد أقربائي على مدى أسابيع ، وكنت أحاول إقناع الطرف الآخر بجميع الطرق العقلانية الممكنة بوجهة نظري ، وكنت أسوق الحجج والبراهين القاطعة ، ولكني لم إجد إلا صدوداً وتشبثاً غريباً . كان السؤال الذي يراودني دوما هو : لماذا ؟ بدأت بالقراءة عن الإقناع أولا ، ثم قادني الأمر إلى الولوج إلى علوم جديدة بالنسبة لي تحاول أن تسبر إلى أعماق النفس البشرية للتعرف على دوافعها وكيفية التأثير فيها . التحقت بمادة في علم النفس الاجتماعي ، ثم تبع ذلك قراءات مختلفة ، ثم انجذبت بعد ذلك إلى علم الاجتماع ، حيث باشرت قراءات ممنهجة لأفهم أبعاد ذلك العلم . بالرغم من بُعْد هذه العلوم عن تخصصي الرئيسي ، كانت للدراسة والقراءة عظيم الأثر في توسيع مداركي وإرشادي إلى الكثير من خبايا النفوس ودوافعها ، وكنت أتمنى أن أوصل ما تعلمته بصورة سهلة وسلسلة إلى عوام القراء ، فباشرت كتابة مقالات تحوي الكثير مما تعلمته وبدأت أولا في نشرها على صفحتي الخاصة ، ثم ألح علي البعض أن أخصص لها صفحة منفصلة ، فكانت صفحة "كلام في النفس" . ثم ألح علي البعض أن أجمع المقالات في كتاب لينتشر بين قطاعات أوسع من القراء . انتهجت في المقالات أسلوبا علميا واضحا يَبِينُ عن الكلام المرسل والانطباعات الشخصية ، وينحى إلى تأصيل الأمور من خلال نظريات علمية قوية . بجانب المرجعية العلمية للمقالات ، فإنها غالبا ما تحتوي على قصص حقيقية أو مواقف حياتية من شأنها إيضاح العلاقة بين النظريات والحياة العملية . في نفس الوقت سعيت لربط هذه النظريات بالمفاهيم الشرعية والاستدلال بالآيات القرآنية والأحاديث النبوية ما استطعت إلى ذلك سبيلا . بالرغم من أن أغلب المقالات تقوم بذاتها إلا أن هناك خطوط عريضة ومواضيع محددة في المقالات منها الإقناع ، والثواب والعواقب (خاصة فيما يخص الصغار) ، واختلاف وجهات النظر ، والعلاقات بين المجموعات ، إلى غير ذلك من المواضيع .TRANSCRIPT
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