黎务谦牧师 rev. lai moo him : 亲子的目标 the goal in parenting

Focus on the Family Malaysia

马来西亚爱家协会

Focus on the Family Malaysia is a non-profit

organization set up with a clear vision – to strengthen

families.

We are committed to strengthening the family unit so

as to encourage and promote an enriched family life

for all.

Who we are

马来西亚爱家协会是一个非营利机构以一个清晰的异象所设立 - 巩固家庭。我们全力巩固所有家庭单位并鼓励和促进丰富的家庭生活。

我们乃是

帖撒罗尼迦前书

1 Thessalonians

2:11-12

亲子的目标

The Goal

in Parenting

“For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father

deals with his own children, encouraging, comforting and

urging you to live lives worthy of God who calls you into his

kingdom and glory...”

1 Thessalonians 2:11-12

亲子的目标 The Goal in Parenting

你们也晓得我们怎样劝勉你们，安慰你们，嘱咐你们各人，好像父亲待自己的儿女一样。

要叫你们行事对得起那召你们进衪国得衪荣耀的神。

帖撒罗尼迦前书 2:11-12


1. 亲子的主要目标是什么？

使他们

“....... 行事为人对得起神 ......”

儿女都是福

也是神所赐的礼物

1. What is the chief objective of parenting?

That they may

“... Live lives worthy of God ...”

Children are a blessing

and a gift from the Lord


以色列啊，你要听。耶和华我们神是独一的主。

你要尽心，尽性，尽力爱耶和华你的神。

我今日所吩咐你的话都要记在心上，也要殷勤教训你的儿女。无论你坐在家里，行在路上，躺下，起来，都要谈论。

申命记 6:4-7

“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the

Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and

with all your strength. These commandments that I give you

today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your

children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you

walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up...”

Deuteronomy 6: 4-7


“And now a word to you parents; Don’t keep on scolding and

nagging your children, making them angry and resentful.

Rather, bring them up with the loving discipline the Lord

himself approves, with suggestions and godly advise.”

Ephesians 6:4

They will live a full and healthy and meaningful life

你们作父亲的，不要惹儿女的气，只要照着主的

教训和警戒，养育他们。

以弗所书 6:4

他们就会过着一个充实，健康和有意义的生命。


2. How do we go about it? (The Process)

Encourage our children with :-

Our presence

Our touch

2. 我们应该怎么做？ (过程)

鼓励我们的儿女:-

我们的同在

我们的接触


你今天拥抱过你的孩子吗？


Encourage our children with :-

God’s Word

“In everything you do, put God first, and He will direct

you and crown your efforts with success...”

Proverbs 3:6 (LB)

Our words

Need to comfort our children

鼓励我们的儿女，以:-

神的话语

在你一切所行的事上，都要认定衪，衪必指引你的路。

箴言 3:6

我们的言语

必须劝慰我们的儿女


“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus

Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all

comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles so that we

can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we

ourselves have received from God...”

2 Corinthians 1:3-4

愿颂赞归与我们的主耶稣基督的父神，就是发慈悲的父，赐各样安慰的神。

我们在一切患难中，衪就安慰我们，叫我们能用神所赐的安慰，去安慰那遭各样患难的人。歌林多后书 1:3-4

黎务谦牧师 rev. lai moo him : 亲子的目标 the goal in parenting

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