2013 state of asian men study 2013 亚洲男性状况调查 (malaysia, china, singapore)...

2013 State of Asian Men Study

2013亚洲男性状况调查(Malaysia, China, Singapore)马拉西亚，中国，新加坡

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Male Roles (% Top 3)男性角色（前 3 位百分比）

Husband/boyfriend

Father

Wage earner

Colleague/Boss

Son

Friend

Taking care of myself

Loyal citizen

Community Leader

64%

60%

42%

22%

20%

18%

18%

17%

4%

59%

53%

46%

25%

14%

22%

23%

11%

4%

68%

75%

35%

18%

27%

15%

9%

29%

4%

65%

47%

48%

25%

17%

18%

24%

9%

5%

Singapore ChinaMalaysia Countries Combined综合国家马来西亚中国新加坡

丈夫／男友父亲

赚钱者同事／老板

儿子朋友

照顾自己忠实地公民

社团领袖Q. In which three of the following roles do you spend most of your time?

Men Only 仅男性

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Male Roles – Change Vs. Father’s Generation (% More - % Less)男性角色－相对父辈的变化（％增长－％减少）

Husband/boyfriend

Taking care of myself

Wage earner

Father

Colleague/Boss

Friend

Son

Loyal citizen

Community Leader

36%

32%

30%

28%

27%

21%

20%

15%

-3%

38%

34%

37%

33%

35%

23%

18%

12%

-7%

29%

26%

21%

32%

19%

20%

23%

10%

-3%

43%

36%

34%

17%

30%

20%

20%

24%

2%


丈夫／男友

同事／老板父亲

赚钱者照顾自己

忠实地公民儿子

社团领袖

朋友

Q. Compared to your father at this time of his life, would you say you personally focus on each of these more, the same, or less than he did?

LESS 减少 MORE增加

Men Only仅男性

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Male Priority in Life 男性在生活中的轻重缓急

Better health

Better finances

More time with family

Better social relationships

More time at work

35%

33%

22%

6%

3%

26%

37%

27%

8%

2%

46%

27%

16%

5%

5%

33%

35%

24%

6%

2%

Singapore ChinaMalaysia Countries Combined

更多工作时间

综合国家马来西亚中国新加坡

更健康

更好的财务状况

更多时间与家人共渡

更好的社会关系

Q. If you could have only one of the following, which would you choose?

Men Only仅男性

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Balancing Family and Career - % Top 2 Box (Malaysia ONLY)家庭与事业的平衡－％最高 2 个选项（马来西亚）

The corporate world should be doing more to accommodate working dads

Men face the same tough decisions as women do about how to balance career and family

It was so much easier back in the day when men went to work and women took care of the kids

and the home

Employers assume men will be there, while women with children can put in less time

because of their families

If one parent needs to stay at home with the children, it should be the one who has the lower

salary

If one parent needs to stay at home with the children, it should be the mother

93%

88%

76%

69%

68%

65%

88%

79%

60%

62%

70%

60%

Female Male男性女性

企业应该为在职父亲考虑更多

男性与女性在家庭与事业的平衡问题上同样难以决定

以前那样男性外出工作，女性照顾家庭和小孩的日子相对简单多了，

雇主认为男人就该工作更久，因为女人照顾家庭孩子可以少工作点时间

如果需要一方在家带孩子，就得是赚钱少的一方

如果双亲有一方需在家带孩子，必须是母亲

Q. How strongly do you agree or disagree with the following statements?

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Balancing Family and Career - % Top 2 Box (China ONLY)家庭与事业的平衡－％最高 2 个选项（中国）






and the home



salary

95%

93%

83%

75%

75%

71%

88%

91%

78%

61%

62%

78%

Female Male






男性女性



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Balancing Family and Career - % Top 2 Box (Singapore ONLY)家庭与事业的平衡－％最高 2 个选项（新加坡）




and the home




salary


91%

90%

80%

79%

69%

60%

92%

72%

69%

65%

74%

60%

Female Male





男性女性




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Balancing Family and Career - % Top 2 Box (Countries Combined)家庭与事业的平衡－％最高 2 个选项（综合国家）




and the home




salary


92%

91%

77%

77%

69%

67%

90%

80%

63%

69%

74%

61%

Female Male






男性女性



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Household Responsibilities (Countries Combined)家庭职责（综合国家）

Excludes N/A ResponsesQ. In your household, who is primarily responsible for each of the following household responsibilities?

Doing the bills/managing the finances

Mowing the lawn

Doing yard work/working in the garden (other than mowing the lawn)

Taking out the garbage/rubbish

Grocery shopping

Vacuuming

Doing the dishes

Cleaning the bathroom

Mopping the kitchen floor

Dusting

Doing the laundry

Cooking

69%

54%

52%

49%

42%

35%

32%

31%

28%

27%

23%

21%

18%

16%

21%

24%

41%

35%

39%

39%

42%

42%

50%

51%

14%

30%

26%

27%

17%

30%

29%

31%

30%

30%

27%

28%

Man PartnerSomeone else男人伴侣其他人

付账单／管钱

割草修整后院／园艺

处理垃圾购买杂货

吸尘洗碗

清洁厕所擦厨房地板

除灰洗衣烧饭

Doing the bills/managing the finances

Mowing the lawn

Doing yard work/working in the garden (other than mowing the lawn)

Taking out the garbage/rubbish

Grocery shopping

Vacuuming

Doing the dishes

Cleaning the bathroom

Mopping the kitchen floor

Dusting

Doing the laundry

Cooking

24%

39%

39%

29%

12%

17%

15%

16%

13%

13%

8%

12%

60%

24%

29%

41%

72%

54%

60%

55%

57%

58%

69%

60%

16%

37%

32%

30%

15%

29%

24%

29%

30%

29%

23%

28%

Partner WomanSomeone else伴侣女人其他人

付账单／管钱割草

烧饭洗衣除灰

擦厨房地板清洁厕所

洗碗吸尘

处理垃圾购买杂货

修整后院／园艺

Man’s Take…男人 Woman’s Take…女人

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Man’s Take on Household Responsibilities (Malaysia Only)男性在家庭中的职责（马来西亚）


0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

Laundry 洗衣Cleaning bathroom 清洁

厕所Mopping kitchen floor 清

洁厨房地板Vacuuming 洗尘

Dusting 除尘

Yard work 后院工作

Grocery shopping 购买杂物

Trash 垃圾

Cooking 烧饭

Bills/finances 账单／财务

Mowing law 割草 n

Doing dishes 洗碗Mean: 35%

Mean: 39%

MAN

BOTH MAN AND PARTNER

PARTNER伴侣

SOMEONE ELSE其他人

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Man’s Take on Household Responsibilities (China Only)男性在家庭中的职责（中国）


10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

Laundry 洗衣

Cleaning bathroom 清洁厕所

Mopping kitchen floor 清洁厨房地板

Vacuuming

Dusting


Grocery shopping 购买杂货

Trash 垃圾

Cooking 烧饭

Bills/finances 账单／财务

Mowing lawn 割草


Mean: 41%

MAN男人

BOTH MAN AND PARTNER男人及伴侣

PARTNER伴侣


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Man’s Take on Household Responsibilities (Singapore Only)男性在家庭中的职责（新加坡）


10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

Laundry 洗衣Cleaning bathroom

Mopping kitchen floor 擦厨房地板

Vacuuming 洗尘Dusting 除灰


Grocery shopping 购买杂货

Trash 垃圾

Cooking 烧饭

Bills/finances 账单／财务Mowing lawn 割草


Mean: 35%

MAN男人


PARTNER伴侣


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Man’s Take on Household Responsibilities (Countries Combined)男性在家庭中的职责（综合国家）


10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

Laundry

Cleaning bathroom 清洁厕所

Mopping kitchen floor 清洁厨房地板

Vacuuming 洗尘Dusting 除尘


Grocery shopping 购买杂物

Trash 垃圾

Cooking 烧饭

Bills/finances 账单／财务Mowing lawn 割草

Doing dishes

Mean: 35%

Mean: 39%

MAN男人


PARTNER伴侣


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Woman’s Take on Household Responsibilities (Malaysia Only)女性在家务中扮演的角色（马来西亚）


0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

洗衣服

打扫卫生间拖地板洗尘擦灰

收拾院子

购物

倒垃圾

烧饭账单支付 / 财务管理

清整草坪

洗餐具Mean: 51%

Mean: 17%

伴侣

女性

其他人

女性及其伴侣

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Woman’s Take on Household Responsibilities (China Only)女性在家务中扮演的角色（中国）


0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

洗衣服

打算卫生间擦地板洗尘擦灰

打扫院子

购物

倒垃圾

做饭支付账单 / 管理账户

清整草坪

洗餐具Mean: 61%

Mean: 25%

伴侣

女性

其他人

女性及其伴侣

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Woman’s Take on Household Responsibilities (Singapore Only)女性在家务中扮演的角色（新加坡）


0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

购物

打扫卫生间拖地板洗尘

擦灰

打扫院子

购物

倒垃圾

做饭支付账单

清整草地

洗餐具Mean: 48%

Mean: 17%

伴侣

女性

其他人

女性及其伴侣

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Woman’s Take on Household Responsibilities (Countries Combined)女性在家务中扮演的角色（综合）


0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

洗衣服

打算卫生间拖地板洗尘擦灰

打算院子

购物

倒垃圾

做饭支付账单

清整草地

洗餐具Mean: 53%

Mean: 20%

伴侣

女性

其他人

女性及其伴侣

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照顾孩子（综合）


68%

66%

56%

51%

46%

46%

36%

30%

29%

28%

20%

20%

13%

25%

25%

39%

42%

47%

46%

57%

62%

64%

62%

72%

71%

71%

7%

9%

6%

7%

7%

8%

7%

7%

7%

10%

8%

9%

16%

Man PartnerSomeone else

送孩子参加课外活动

教导孩子和孩子玩耍带孩子去医院

48%

47%

29%

26%

21%

20%

19%

16%

19%

14%

13%

15%

11%

45%

44%

66%

68%

75%

74%

76%

78%

75%

79%

82%

78%

76%

7%

9%

5%

6%

4%

7%

5%

5%

6%

6%

5%

7%

13%

Partner WomanSomeone else

送孩子参加课外活动送孩子上学教导孩子

带孩子去医院辅导功课为孩子办生日派对睡前准备睡前为孩子讲故事准备上学孩子生病时照顾孩子换尿布为孩子做午餐

和孩子玩耍

男性承担部分… 女性承担部分……

送孩子上学

辅导功课

为孩子办生日派对睡前准备睡前为孩子讲故事准备上学

孩子生病时照顾孩子换尿布为孩子做午餐

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照顾孩子 ( 马来西亚 )


64%

60%

60%

59%

50%

46%

34%

34%

30%

26%

24%

22%

9%

31%

36%

38%

30%

46%

49%

61%

63%

65%

67%

69%

75%

77%

6%

5%

3%

11%

4%

5%

5%

2%

5%

7%

7%

3%

14%


开车送孩子参加课外活动教导孩子陪孩子玩耍开车送孩子上学辅导功课陪孩子去医院为孩子办生日派对为孩子读睡前故事准备睡觉接送孩子上学放学换尿布带孩子看医生为孩子做饭

34%

31%

26%

34%

13%

17%

18%

15%

11%

11%

13%

9%

5%

54%

61%

66%

51%

78%

76%

77%

78%

81%

80%

80%

86%

78%

12%

8%

8%

15%

9%

7%

6%

7%

8%

9%

7%

5%

17%


男性承担部分… 女性承担部分…

开车送孩子参加课外活动教导孩子陪孩子玩耍

开车送孩子上学辅导功课陪孩子去医院

为孩子办生日派对

为孩子读睡前故事准备睡觉接送孩子上学放学换尿布带孩子看医生为孩子做饭

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照顾孩子 ( 中国 )


68%

67%

53%

51%

48%

46%

42%

36%

33%

24%

24%

18%

16%

24%

26%

41%

42%

43%

45%

52%

57%

57%

69%

68%

69%

76%

8%

7%

6%

6%

9%

8%

6%

7%

10%

7%

8%

13%

7%


59%

58%

25%

30%

28%

30%

25%

21%

20%

20%

23%

18%

18%

40%

40%

73%

68%

70%

68%

72%

77%

78%

77%

75%

72%

75%

1%

2%

2%

2%

2%

2%

2%

2%

2%

3%

3%

10%

6%



开车送孩子参加课外活动教导孩子陪孩子玩耍

开车送孩子上学辅导功课陪孩子去医院

为孩子办生日派对

为孩子读睡前故事准备睡觉接送孩子上学放学换尿布带孩子看医生为孩子做饭

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照顾孩子 ( 新加坡 )


73%

72%

57%

50%

38%

34%

33%

31%

23%

23%

19%

13%

10%

17%

19%

37%

41%

51%

55%

58%

60%

63%

67%

67%

72%

68%

10%

8%

7%

9%

12%

10%

8%

10%

14%

10%

14%

14%

22%

Man PartnerSomeone else开车送孩子参加课外活动

教导孩子陪孩子玩耍开车送孩子上学辅导功课陪孩子去医院为孩子办生日派对为孩子读睡前故事准备睡觉接送孩子上学放学换尿布带孩子看医生为孩子做饭

47%

48%

26%

20%

14%

17%

16%

11%

9%

14%

13%

7%

7%

41%

43%

69%

70%

75%

77%

72%

80%

80%

78%

79%

86%

81%

12%

9%

6%

10%

10%

6%

12%

9%

11%

8%

8%

7%

12%

Partner WomanSomeone else开车送孩子参加课外活动

教导孩子陪孩子玩耍开车送孩子上学辅导功课陪孩子去医院为孩子办生日派对为孩子读睡前故事准备睡觉接送孩子上学放学换尿布带孩子看医生为孩子做饭


22

男性承担的孩子照顾的部分（马来西亚）

Excludes N/A ResponsesQ. And in your household, who is primarily responsible for each of the following childcare responsibilities?

0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

教导孩子辅导功课

送孩子参加课外活动和孩子玩耍

送孩子上学

上床前的准备临睡前为孩子讲故事

看医生

为上学做准备换尿布策划生日派对

生病时的照料准备午餐

Mean: 54%

Mean: 40%

男性

男性及其伴侣伴侣

其他人

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男性在照料孩子中扮演的角色 ( 中国 )


10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

教导孩子辅导孩子功课


陪孩子玩耍

送孩子上学

上床前的准备为孩子讲故事

看医生

送孩子上学

换尿布

准备生日派对

照顾生病的孩子做午饭

Mean: 51%

Mean: 41%

男性


其他人

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男性在照料孩子中扮演的角色 ( 新加坡 )


0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

教导孩子

辅导功课

送孩子去课外活动

和孩子玩耍

送孩子上学

上床准备为孩子讲故事看医生

上学准备换尿布策划生日

照顾生病孩子做午餐

Mean: 52%

Mean: 37%

男性


其他人

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男性在照料孩子中扮演的角色 ( 综合 )


0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

教导孩子辅导功课


陪孩子玩耍

送孩子上学

准备上床睡前讲故事

看医生

准备上学

换尿布

生日策划照顾病儿做午餐

Mean: 53%

Mean: 39%

男性


他人

策划生日，看医生，临睡前为孩子讲故事，准备上学 ,辅导功课，换尿布，做午饭，孩子生病时照顾孩子

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女性在照料孩子中扮演的角色 ( 马来西亚 )

Q. And in your household, who is primarily responsible for each of the following childcare responsibilities?

0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

教导孩子送孩子参加课外活动

送孩子上学

和孩子玩耍Mean: 73%

Mean: 18%

伴侣

女性及其伴侣女性

他人

Birthday parties, Doctors visits, Bedtime story, Homework, Changing diapers, Bedtime routine, Getting ready for

school, Taking care when sick, Lunches, Playing with kids生日会，看医生，催眠故事，家庭作业，换尿布，就寝时间，上学前的准备，生病照顾，午餐，和孩子互动。

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Woman’s Take on Childcare Responsibilities (China Only)妇女承担抚养子女的责任（中国）


10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

Disciplining训练

Driving to extracurricu-lars

开车去课外活动Driving to school

开车上学

Mean: 68%

Mean: 29%

PARTNER配偶

BOTH WOMAN AND PARTNER妇女和配偶

WOMAN妇女

SOMEONE ELSE其他


school, Taking care when sick, Lunches生日会，看医生，催眠故事，家庭作业，换尿布，就寝时间，上学前的准备，生病照顾，午餐，和孩子互动。

28

Woman’s Take on Childcare Responsibilities (Singapore Only)妇女承担抚养子女的责任（新加坡）


0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

Disciplining训练


开车参加课外活动Driving to school

开车上学

Playing with kids和孩子互动 Mean:

72%

Mean: 19%

PARTNER配偶


WOMAN妇女

SOMEONE ELSE其他


school, Taking care when sick, Lunches生日会，看医生，催眠故事，家庭作业，换尿布，就寝时间，上学前的准备，生病照顾，午餐，和孩子互动。

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Woman’s Take on Childcare Responsibilities (Countries Combined)妇女承担抚养子女的责任（各国）


0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%0%

10%

20%

30%

40%

50%

60%

70%

80%

90%

100%

Disciplining训练


开车参加课外活动Driving to school开车上学

Playing with kids和孩子互动

Mean: 70%

Mean: 23%

PARTNER配偶


WOMAN妇女

SOMEONE ELSE其他

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Grading of Men – Household Responsibilities (Countries Combined)男人的分级 – 家庭责任（各国）

A: Always on top of it, and do

a great job

B: Mostly on top of it, and do a

decent job

C: Help out, but not so good at

this type of thing

D: Pitch in occasionally

F: Almost never pitch in

22%

46%

25%

5% 4%

24%

54%

17%

5%0%

15%

40%

25%

17%

3%

Malaysia China Singapore

遥遥领先，总能做的很出色完成的还不错可以帮忙，但是不善于做此类事情偶尔参与几乎不参与

Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing household responsibilities?

How Men Grade Themselves男人如何对自己进行分级马来西亚 – 中国 – 新加坡

31

Grading of Women – Household Responsibilities (Countries Combined)女人的分级 – 家庭责任（各国）


a great job


decent job


this type of thing



32%

52%

12%

4%0%

38%

59%

2% 0% 0%

24%

63%

7% 5%1%

Malaysia China Singapore


马来西亚 – – 中国新加坡

Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing household responsibilities?

How Women Grade Themselves女人如何对自己分级

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Grading of Men – Childcare Responsibilities (Malaysia Only)男人的分级 – 抚养子女责任（马来西亚）


a great job


decent job


this type of thing



18%

51%

27%

2% 3%

21%

37%

24%

15%

2%

How men grade themselvesHow women grade their partners


男人怎样对自己进行分级女人怎样对配偶进行分级

Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?Q. And how would you grade your spouse-significant other in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?

33

Grading of Men – Childcare Responsibilities (China Only)男人的分级 – 抚养子女责任（中国）


a great job


decent job


this type of thing



17%

58%

23%

2% 0%

26%

40%

24%

10%

1%





34

Grading of Men – Childcare Responsibilities (Singapore Only)男人的分级 – 抚养子女责任（新加坡）


a great job


decent job


this type of thing



13%

49%

32%

7%0%

17%

41%

24%

15%

3%


遥遥领先，总能做的很出色可以帮忙，但是不善于做此类事情偶尔参与几乎不参与



完成的还不错

35

Grading of Men – Childcare Responsibilities (Countries Combined)男人的分级 – 抚养子女责任（各国）


a great job


decent job


this type of thing



16%

53%

27%

3% 1%

22%

39%

24%

13%

2%





36

Grading of Women – Childcare Responsibilities (Malaysia Only)女人的分级 – 抚养子女责任（马来西亚）


a great job


decent job


this type of thing



38%

54%

8%

0% 0%

40%

48%

8%4%

0%

How women grade themselvesHow men grade their partners




37

Grading of Women – Childcare Responsibilities (China Only)女人的分级 – 抚养子女责任（中国）


a great job


decent job


this type of thing



38%

54%

6%1% 0%

34%

55%

8%3%

0%





38

Grading of Women – Childcare Responsibilities (Singapore Only)


a great job


decent job


this type of thing



28%

66%

3% 3%0%

34%

41%

20%

5%0%



39

Grading of Women – Childcare Responsibilities (Countries Combined)


a great job


decent job


this type of thing



36%

57%

6%1% 0%

36%

49%

11%

3%0%


遥遥领先，总能做的很出色


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Personal Responsibility Breakdown – Mean (Countries Combined)个人责任分解 --- 平均值（联合国家）

Household

Childcare

Financial

54%

51%

73%

69%

75%

54%

Female Male

家庭

儿童

金融

Q. About what percent of the household responsibilities would you say you personally handle?Q. And about what percent of the financial responsibilities would you say you personally handle?Q. About what percent of the childcare responsibilities would you say you personally handle?

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Who Enforces the Routines (Countries Combined)谁施行日常生活（联合国家）

My spouse/significant other

Me

My mother

My mother in law

The helper/nanny/maid

Someone else

73%

51%

8%

4%

2%

0%

33%

90%

4%

5%

1%

0%

Female Male

我的配偶 / 重要他人

我

我的母亲

我的婆婆

助手 /保姆 / 女佣

其他人

Note: Respondents could select multiple options for this questionQ. When it comes to enforcing the routines (i.e. bedtime, table manners, homework, eating schedule) who takes care of this most of the time?

42

Who Enforces the Routines (Malaysia Only)谁施行日常生活（仅马来西亚）


Me

My mother


My mother in law

Someone else

74%

52%

8%

4%

3%

0%

37%

90%

3%

0%

2%

0%

Female Male


我

我的母亲


我的婆婆

其他人Note: Respondents could select multiple options for this questionQ. When it comes to enforcing the routines (i.e. bedtime, table manners, homework, eating schedule) who takes care of this most of the time?

43

Who Enforces the Routines (China Only)谁施行日常生活（仅中国）


Me

My mother

My mother in law


Someone else

74%

56%

10%

5%

1%

0%

32%

93%

4%

6%

1%

0%

Female Male


我

我的母亲


我的婆婆

其他人


44

Who Enforces the Routines (Singapore Only)谁施行日常生活（仅新加坡）


Me

My mother

My mother in law


Someone else

73%

41%

6%

3%

1%

0%

30%

85%

4%

8%

1%

0%

Female Male


我

我的母亲

我的婆婆


其他人


45

Who Enforces the Rules (Countries Combined)谁施行规则（联合国家）

Me


My mother

My mother in law


Someone else

68%

61%

4%

4%

1%

0%

83%

43%

3%

4%

0%

0%

Female Male

我


我的母亲

我的婆婆


其他人

Note: Respondents could select multiple options for this questionQ. When it comes to enforcing the rules of the household with your children (i.e. discipline) who takes care of this most of the time?

46

Who Makes Major Decisions about Activities and Schooling (Countries Combined)对于活动及学校教育谁作决定（联合国家）

Me


My mother in law

My mother

Someone else


76%

59%

3%

3%

0%

0%

83%

51%

3%

2%

1%

0%

Female Male

我


我的婆婆

我的母亲

其他人


Note: Respondents could select multiple options for this questionQ. When it comes to major decisions regarding your children (education, activities, etc.) who takes care of this most of the time?

47

Who Makes Major Decisions about Activities and Schooling (Malaysia Only)对于活动及学校教育谁作决定（仅马来西亚）

Me


My mother

My mother in law


Someone else

74%

55%

4%

1%

0%

0%

73%

58%

1%

1%

0%

2%

Female Male

我


我的母亲

我的婆婆


其他人


48

Who Makes Major Decisions about Activities and Schooling (China Only)对于活动及学校教育谁作决定（仅中国）

Me


My mother in law

My mother


Someone else

86%

56%

4%

3%

0%

0%

89%

54%

3%

1%

0%

0%

Female Male

我


我的母亲

我的婆婆


其他人


49

Who Makes Major Decisions about Activities and Schooling (Singapore Only)对于活动及学校教育谁作决定（仅新加坡）


Me

My mother in law

My mother

Someone else


69%

61%

3%

1%

1%

0%

37%

85%

4%

3%

0%

0%

Female Male


我

我的婆婆

我的母亲


其他人


50

Time - % Top 2 Box (Malaysia ONLY)次数 -% 前 2名（仅马来西亚）

If I could afford it, my spouse/significant other would stay home with my family full time

I don’t have enough time to spend with myself (“me” time)

I don’t have enough time to spend with my children

I don’t have enough time to spend with my spouse/significant other

87%

67%

62%

61%

58%

74%

47%

62%

Female Male

我没有足够的时间花在我的配偶 / 重要他人身上


若我能负担的起，我的配偶 / 重要他人与我的家庭整天呆在家

我没有足够的时间花在我自己身上（私人专属时间）

我没有足够时间花在我孩子身上

51






71%

63%

60%

59%

40%

61%

37%

43%

Female Male





Time - % Top 2 Box (China ONLY)次数 -% 前 2名（仅中国）

52


Time - % Top 2 Box (Singapore ONLY)次数 -% 前 2名（仅新加坡）





75%

66%

66%

66%

63%

52%

66%

70%

Female Male





53


时间分配 - % 前两名（不同国家整合在一起）





77%

65%

62%

61%

51%

67%

44%

54%


如果经济上允许的话，我的另一半愿意全职在家。

“ ”我没有足够的自我时间。

我没有足够的时间和我的孩子们相处。

我没有足够的时间和我的另一半相处。

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男性的抚养方式（ % 前两名）

My parenting style is very different from my father’s

81%

89%

72%

84%


我的抚养方式和我的父辈截然不同。

Q. And how strongly do you agree or disagree with the following statements?

只限男性

55

现代社会对男性的定义（仅限马来西亚）

Financial support for familyHis knowledge / intelligenceHis ability to make decisions

His personal valuesBeing a “gentleman” / good manners

Career successKeeping his word

Emotional support for familyParenting abilities

His life experiencesPhysical strengthHandyman skills

How much money he makesPower in the workplace

Comfort with his feminine sideNavigational skillsHis attractiveness

Attractiveness of his significant otherThe car he drives

Ability to bond over sportsNumber of sexual conquests

What he eats

74%74%74%73%

69%69%69%

63%60%59%

50%46%

45%41%

33%33%

28%26%26%25%

16%16%

79%76%

74%71%73%

68%60%

65%56%

53%56%

52%48%

43%22%

34%35%

20%26%

22%14%

21%

Female Male男性女性对家庭的经济支持他的知识和智慧

他的个人价值“ ”做一个绅士和良好的教养

事业的成功信守诺言给家庭的精神支持抚养能力

他的人生经历强健的体魄动手能力

赚钱的能力工作的魄力

体贴探索能力

个人魅力对另一半的吸引力

开的车运动能力

性的征服力吃的食物

Q. Which of the following would say are the primary things that define men today?

他做决定的能力

56

现代社会对男性的定义（仅限中国）

His knowledge / intelligenceCareer success

Keeping his wordHis ability to make decisions

His personal valuesEmotional support for familyFinancial support for family

Being a “gentleman” / good mannersHis life experiences

How much money he makesHis attractivenessPhysical strength

Power in the workplaceComfort with his feminine side

Navigational skillsHandyman skills

Attractiveness of his significant otherNumber of sexual conquests

Parenting abilitiesAbility to bond over sports

What he eatsThe car he drives

68%62%62%

60%54%

51%47%

42%40%

38%38%

35%33%33%

30%23%

21%19%

17%15%

13%13%

70%60%

65%67%

58%66%

58%52%

40%40%40%

46%34%

41%31%

24%23%

20%21%20%21%

13%

Female Male

信守诺言做决定的能力

个人价值对家庭的精神支持

对家庭的经济支持“ ”做绅士和有良好的教养

人生经历赚钱能力个人魅力

强健的体魄工作上的魄力体贴探索能力

动手能力对另一半的吸引力性征服力抚养能力运动能力吃的食物开的车


他的知识和智慧事业成功

57

现代社会对男性的定义（仅限新加坡）

His ability to make decisionsHis knowledge / intelligence

His personal valuesFinancial support for family

His life experiencesBeing a “gentleman” / good manners

Career successEmotional support for family

Keeping his wordParenting abilities

How much money he makesHandyman skills

Physical strengthPower in the workplace

Navigational skillsComfort with his feminine side

His attractivenessThe car he drives

Ability to bond over sportsAttractiveness of his significant other

What he eatsNumber of sexual conquests

67%65%64%64%

62%60%

57%57%

55%46%

41%40%

36%33%

26%24%

22%20%

19%18%

13%12%

67%62%

61%70%

48%58%

56%63%

59%50%

41%48%49%

28%29%

20%21%

18%14%

12%14%

9%

Female Male


58

对男性的定义（综合不同国家）

His knowledge / intelligenceHis ability to make decisions

His personal valuesCareer success

Keeping his wordFinancial support for family

Being a “gentleman” / good mannersEmotional support for family

His life experiencesHow much money he makes

Parenting abilitiesPhysical strengthHandyman skills

Power in the workplaceComfort with his feminine side

Navigational skillsHis attractiveness

Attractiveness of his significant otherAbility to bond over sports

The car he drivesNumber of sexual conquests

What he eats

69%67%

64%63%62%62%

57%57%

54%41%41%40%

36%36%

30%29%29%

22%20%19%

16%14%

70%70%

64%61%62%

69%61%

65%47%

43%42%

50%42%

35%28%

32%32%

19%19%19%

14%19%



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性别分工 - % 排名前 2 （仅限马来西亚）

88%

84%

76%

67%

66%

65%

63%

62%

59%

55%

54%

52%

47%

38%

79%

81%

80%

78%

62%

65%

59%

60%

66%

46%

47%

39%

37%

39%

Female Male男性女性人们总是说女性获得有多辛苦，但是男性同样也活的很辛苦。现在男女平等。总而言之，没有哪一方比另一方更好。

性别不像过去那样可以影响一个人传统的性别行为对孩子并不重要，如果男孩想要穿粉色等让孩子区分性别很重要，如男孩玩运动，女孩应该穿什么男性女性不需要再遵循传统性别分工

男性在社会中不再处于主导地位传统男性行为在当今社会不再受欢迎

男性的阳刚气比过去少了很多男性要有绅士风度

过去认为什么才是男性的想法已不被社会认可男性不应表现出软弱

“ ”我觉得现在没有很多男性话题可做“ ”男性不再是男性


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性别分工 -%排名前 2 （仅限中国）

92%

88%

85%

79%

75%

74%

70%

70%

62%

61%

57%

56%

53%

40%

91%

90%

79%

80%

57%

74%

65%

61%

75%

64%

48%

49%

53%

41%


61


性别分工 -%排名前 2 （仅限新加坡）

87%

79%

79%

70%

68%

67%

64%

63%

59%

53%

53%

51%

51%

42%

75%

85%

81%

74%

63%

65%

60%

69%

50%

39%

44%

43%

44%

40%


62


性别分工 -%排名前 2 （综合国家）

89%

81%

81%

73%

67%

66%

65%

64%

60%

58%

56%

55%

54%

40%

82%

84%

82%

68%

63%

67%

67%

74%

45%

54%

47%

46%

47%

40%


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男性的焦虑（排名前 2 ）

Taking care of my parents

Balancing the demands of work and family

Being a committed parent

Keeping my physique in shape

Being a progressive-minded parent

Being a good spouse

Fulfilling household responsibilities

Making an impact in my community

Looking stylish and well-groomed

Navigating the rules of dating

58%

56%

56%

54%

52%

52%

49%

43%

37%

37%

71%

69%

70%

61%

68%

67%

66%

48%

42%

42%

41%

40%

38%

42%

34%

26%

27%

35%

32%

25%

62%

60%

60%

60%

55%

61%

53%

43%

37%

44%

Singapore ChinaMalaysia Countries Combined 照顾父母

平衡工作和家庭成为一个信守诺言的父亲

保持体形成为具有积极思想的父亲成为好的另一半

分担家务在我的交际圈里产生影响力

外表得体时髦

通晓约会的准则

Q. To what extent, if at all, do the following make you feel anxious?

Men Only 仅限男性


64

男性焦虑和父辈的对比（多 %- 少 % ）

Balancing the demands of work and family

Being a committed parent

Taking care of my parents


Being a good spouse

Fulfilling household responsibilities

Keeping my physique in shape

Making an impact in my community

Looking stylish and well-groomed

Navigating the rules of dating

13%

11%

10%

7%

5%

2%

-6%

-14%

-18%

-23%

33%

36%

32%

34%

30%

27%

12%

1%

1%

-3%

-16%

-24%

-16%

-34%

-25%

-29%

-23%

-34%

-39%

-51%

22%

20%

14%

19%

8%

9%

-8%

-12%

-18%

-14%

Singapore ChinaMalaysia Countries Combined

Q. How much more or less anxious, if at all, do you think you are about each of the following than your father’s generation when they were your age?

Men Only

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仅限男性


平衡工作和家庭需要

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Q. Compared to your father’s generation, do you feel men today are more or less of each of the following, or about the same?

男性的变化（综合国家）

Fashionable

Tuned in to their kids

Able to express emotions

Tuned in to women

Well rounded

Good parent

Self-centered

Sexist

51%

33%

32%

28%

23%

13%

8%

-19%

60%

33%

40%

23%

24%

19%

10%

-21%

Female Male女性

时尚度

和孩子的互动

表达情感

关心女性

全面性

好的父亲

自我中心性别歧视

LESS MORE

男性

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Q. Compared to your father’s generation, do you feel each of the following are easier or harder for men today, or about the same?

男性的生活变得更为艰难（综合国家）

Courtship/dating

Life in general


Being a good father

Being a good husband

Succeeding professionally

Living up to society’s expectations

-15%

-26%

-29%

-39%

-39%

-42%

-44%

-1%

-18%

-20%

-29%

-32%

-24%

-40%

Female Male

总体生活

成为有积极思想的父母

成为模范爸爸

成为模范丈夫

职业成功

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