孤⾝身不孤獨 Alone but not Lonely

Jan. 2015

在團契⽣生活中熱絡交通，也怡然享受獨處

Review1.以利亞的孤獨

2.施洗約翰的孤獨

3.⽣生命陷阱＆應對模式

4.⽣生命陷阱簡介

5.謙虛坦誠

6.脆弱的⼒力量

詩篇68:5-6神在他的聖所作孤兒的⽗父，作寡婦的伸

冤者。神叫孤獨的有家，使被囚的

出來享福；惟有悖逆的住在乾燥之

地。

活在愛中的祕訣

發展健全的真我Nurturing a healthy true self.

刻意經營友情Intentionally strengthening friendship.

有效處理差異與衝突Managing differences and conflicts.

「如果你要⾛走得快，就⾃自⼰己⾛走。如果要⾛走得遠，就⼀一起⾛走。」

~⾮非洲諺語 “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.”

~African Proverb

• Friends for a Reason!

• Friends for a Season!

• Friends for a Lifetime

People come into your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.!

⼈人們⾛走進你的⽣生活，或者是為了⼀一個原因，或者只停留⼀一段時間，或者會與你⼀一⽣生相伴。⼀一旦辨明是哪⼀一種，你就知道可以如何與他們相處。

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They are there for the reason you need them to be.!

有的⼈人出現在你的⽣生活中是有原因的，通常他們滿⾜足了你的某個需要：幫你度過了難關；給予你指引和⽀支持；在物質上、情感上、或屬靈上幫助你。因為你有需要，所以他們在這。

Then without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. Sometimes they die. What we must realize is that our need has been met. Our desire fulfilled, their work is done. Your need has been answered, and now it is time to move on.!

然後在你毫無過錯或毫無準備的時間，這⼈人會說了或者做了什麼，終⽌止這份友誼。有時他們直接⾛走開，有時他們執意要求你奮起，有時是他們去世了。我們必須了解到，⾃自⼰己的需要獲得滿⾜足了，願望實現了，他們的任務完成了。你的需要得到了回應，是時候該繼續前進。

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.!

有些⼈人在你的⽣生命中只停留⼀一段時間，那是因為你到了某個階段：要分享、要成⻑⾧長、或要學習。他們讓你經歷平安，或讓你歡笑。他們可能教會你做⼀一些以前從没做過的事情。他們通常帶給你難以置信的喜樂。要相信！這是真的！不過只維持了⼀一段時間。

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.!

⼀一⽣生相伴的情誼將令你終⽣生受益，要⽤用⼼心建造，為了能有堅固的感情根基。你要接受這課題，愛這個⼈人，並將你學到的應⽤用到⽣生命中的其他關係和領域中。有⼈人說愛情是盲⺫⽬目的，但是友誼卻能醍醐灌頂。

傳道書 4:9-12

兩個⼈人總⽐比⼀一個⼈人好，因為⼆二⼈人勞碌同得美好的果效。若是跌倒，這⼈人可以扶起他的同伴；若是孤⾝身跌倒，沒有別⼈人扶起他來，這⼈人就有禍了。再者，⼆二⼈人同睡就都暖和，⼀一⼈人獨睡怎能暖和呢？有⼈人攻勝孤⾝身⼀一⼈人，若有⼆二⼈人便能敵擋他；三股合成的繩⼦子不容易折斷。

Reason, Season, Lifetime Friends

你想到哪些友誼？

耶穌的友誼

⾺馬可3:13-15 耶穌上了⼭山，隨⾃自⼰己的意思叫⼈人來；他們便來到他那裡。他就設⽴立⼗十⼆二個⼈人，要他們常和⾃自⼰己同在，也要差他們去傳道，並給他們權柄趕⻤⿁鬼。

⾺馬可 6:31 他就說：你們來，同我暗暗的到曠野地⽅方去歇⼀一歇。這是因為來往的⼈人多，他們連吃飯也沒有⼯工夫。

• 耶穌的核⼼心團隊

1.⼗十⼆二使徒

2.彼得、雅各、約翰⼥女孩死⽽而復活、登⼭山變像、客⻄西⾺馬尼園禱告

「⼀一⽣生相伴的友誼」可能為數不多，但卻是每個⼈人必備的⽣生存包

• 寫下⺫⽬目前你可以經營「⼀一⽣生相伴的朋友」，並且花時間想⼀一想可以怎麼做？

在團契⽣生活中熱絡交通，也怡然享受獨處

我值得被愛。 我是有⽤用的。