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Tuesday, October 8, 2013 The Herald

Tomorrows

HoroscopeBy Bernice Bede Osol

Dear Annie: When ourdaughter was a child, shehad emotional issues and ex-tensive anger managementproblems. With tremendousconcern and love,we got her pro-

fessional supportand therapy, andultimately, ourdaughter learnedthe skills to controlherself. What wedid not do was tellextended familymembers of theseprivate problems.We had seen theirextreme intoler-ance for any kindof mental healthissues and did not want ourdaughter to suffer prejudicefrom her own family.

In college, the troublingincidents started again. Be-

cause of our daughters refus-al to let us have access to hermedical information, we hadno real idea of what was hap-pening. The next few yearsincluded troubling breakupswith both friends and boy-friends, extreme weight lossand talk of suicide.

Our daughter is now 32and recently married. Shesuddenly and inexplicablyhas cut us off. When we tryto communicate with her, shebecomes hysterical with rage.We have learned she has beensaying horrible things aboutus to the same extended fam-ily members we tried to pro-tect her from in childhood. Weare devastated. One relativeactually told my husband thatwe must have done somethingterrible to our daughter for herto treat us this way.

These family membersnow have a special, almostfrenzied new importance toour daughter. They judge usconstantly. To be accused ofsuch mistreatment is insultingand painful. Please print thisso these family members willstop jumping to conclusions. Reading This Can Help

Dear Reading: Most likely,the only thing that will changetheir perspective is to be on thereceiving end of your daugh-

ters erratic behavior. Despiteall the therapy she had whenyounger, her problems haventdisappeared. She has simplychosen to deal with them in

her own way, which currentlyprecludes a loving relation-ship with you. We hope thatwill change. While you cannotcontrol what the relatives think,

please take comfortin knowing you han-

dled your daughtersissues in a way thatprotected and helpedher. That is whatgood parents do.

Dear Annie:Like many people,I suffer from theeffects of multiplesclerosis. To lookat us, you wouldntknow anything iswrong. But the painI suffer from daily is

sometimes unbearable. Howshould I reply to inconsider-ate people who make com-ments like, Come on, hurryup or What is wrong with

you? I wish people wouldthink before they open theirmouths. They do not know thestruggles I face.

There is treatment for MS,but no cure. I maintain myregimen of daily injections,but most of the time I cannotcontrol its rampage. Maybethis letter will bring aware-ness to people not to judge onoutward appearances. Suf-fering in Michigan

Dear Suffering: We hopeso, but unless you are willingto tell these impatient peoplewhat the problem is, they willcontinue to behave rudely to-ward you. Please, folks, thepeople around you may becoping with terrible difcul-ties that are not visible. Bekind.

Dear Annie: I loved theletter from the Lady Doctor,who was so thrilled with herMD degree that she wantedeveryone to address her mailto Dr. Jane Doe and Mr. JohnDoe.

My wife and I met ingrad school. She went on toget a Ph.D. Her mother is soproud that she addresses all ofmy wifes letters to Dr. JaneDoe. However, she is also atraditionalist, so when shewrites to both of us, she ad-dresses her letters to Mr. and

Mrs. John Doe. My wife willquickly tell anyone who asksthat she is at least as proud ofher Mrs. degree as she is ofher Ph.D. Mr. John Doe

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WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 9, 2013Revisit old plans, ideas and

friendships in the year ahead. Checkout whats available, but dont be too

eager to take on too much. Backaway from pushy people and engagewith those looking for positive,meticulously planned change. Babysteps will lead to success and greatersecurity.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Youshould stick close to home todaybecause a delay or problem whiletraveling will stifle success. Goover your professional options andconsider what you need to do to stayon the right road.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) --Widen and deepen your knowledge,interests and friendships. Makeunexpected changes at home thatallow you to take on creative tasksthat will add to your comfort andenhance your future plans.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Stick to the truth whendiscussing personal matters withfriends, relatives or anyone whowill be affected by your decisions.A change of attitude will lead to

personal freedom.CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan.19) -- Youve got all the right movesand the expertise to help you getyour way. Persistence will pay off,although it wont please everyone.Do your best and dont look back.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19)-- Work will offer an interesting turn ofevents. Options will increase, and thechance to engage in something thatwill expand your skills should be taken.

PISCES (Feb. 20-March20) -- Keep a clear head and aset destination in mind. Dont besidetracked by someone playing withyour emotions. Finish what you start.Your reputation will be dependent onyour actions.

ARIES (March 21-April 19)-- Travel mentally or physically, andyou will learn something new. Achange of attitude will help you revisitpast experiences and help you avoidmaking a mistake.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20)

-- Keep your temper under controland your stubbornness tuckedaway somewhere safe. Parity willbe required if you want to keep rela-tionships moving along without a hitch.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20) --Your contribution to a cause will raiseyour profile. Someone will offer youwhat appears to be an opportunity.Before making a leap of faith, find outwhats really in it for you.

CANCER (June 21-July 22)-- Put your happiness first. Leantoward activities and events thatcapture your attention. What youshare with interesting acquaintanceswill change the way you do things inthe future.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) --Welcome change with open arms,but first obtain the blessing of thoseaffected by the choices you make.Love and romance will ease stressand lead to a brighter future.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- Getthings out in the open, where you can

filter through all your options and thesuggestions you receive. Emotionalmanipulation could be a problem ifyou dont seek outside input.

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