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May 12, 2013 - Mothers Day
Cc Bn thn mn,
Trc ht xin Happy Mothers Day n tt c cc B M nh. Hn hoan
chc mng cc B khng ch mt ngy ca M, m sut c nm, c cuc
i cn li lun lun c thm m tnh M Con-Con M!
Sau y duyenky xin gii thiu vi cc Bn mt cu chuyn mi, mt
kha cnh mi, c th cc Bn cha nghe cha bit, nhng n vn l cu
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chuyn ca ngi M, cu chuyn lin h gia ngi M v chin tranh,
kha cnh ny th li qu c, rt xa xa ri.
V nhc n chin tranh th chng ta cng va mi k nim ngy30.4.1975 cch y hai tun l vi bao nhiu k nim k cho nhau, cho
mi ngi nghe v bit v nhng kh au bun tang thng, tic nui,
nt, mt mtv cn bit bao h ly c th chng ta cha nghe, cha
bit na. Duyenky cng vy, gn bn chc nm sau bin c Ma Xun
1975 mi c bit trong x hi cn lu li mt h ly l lng na cng
tht n au, v lm ngc nhin, bng hong khi c xong ni
dung:Lng khng chng Vit Nam. Ri khng bit mai sau
chng ta c cn nghe bit n cu chuynl lng no khc do
bin c 30.4.1975 li na hay khng nh?!
Xin mi cc Bn cng c v chia s:
Lng khng chng Vit Nam ln bo M
H tng l nhng c gi tr, hy sinh c tui thanh xun cho chin tranh,
ri khi t nc thng nht, ch nui mt c vng ln nht l c c nhng
a con cho ring mnh.
30 nm trc, ti Li, mt ngi lng nh min bc Vit Nam, Nguyn
Th Nhan, mt cu thanh nin xung phong, cng quyt nh bt ng ca
c, lm o ngc mi nguyn tc v kt hn trong truyn thng v
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gp phn lm thay i suy ngh cho hng nghn c gi khc trn khp
t nc.
Hin ti, lng Li tng b tn ph nng n trong chin tranh khc xart nhiu. Sng sm, dn lng chm ri vc cuc ra ng, bc qua mt
nhm nh nhng a tr ang chi a bn b ca chng. Bn tr, v c
b m chng, cha tng c bit mt ng, cha mnh, nhng khng phi
v s c lit ca chin tranh, m l bi chnh b v m ca h quyt
nh s khng bao gi kt hn.
Cu chuyn v nhng ngi ph n c bit ny bt u t gia chin
tranh chng M, khi h, cng nh rt nhiu ngi sinh ra v ln ln
trong giai on , hy sinh nhng nm thng p nht ca tui thanh
xun cho cuc khng chin chng M.
thi im m phn ln ph n Vit Nam kt hn tui 16, th vicvn cn c thn cho ti khi 20 tui thng khin cc c gi b coi l
qu la l th. Ha bnh lp li, nhng ngi n ng cn sng st sau
chin tranh c xu hng chn nhng c gi tr di 20 lm v, khin
hng nghn ph n ri vo cnh c n l bng.
Khng ging nhng th h i trc, lun chn cch sng mt mnh khib ri vo hon cnh , cc c gi ngi lng nh ny tm cch t
quyt nh vn mnh ca chnh mnh.H tm kim hnh phc cho bn
thn bng cch ngh mt ngi n ng, ngi m sut i cn
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li hs khng bao gi gp li, cho h mt a con.Vi dn lng,
vic "xin con"ny ph v nhng nguyn tc truyn thng, khin cc
c gi tr phi i mt vi s phn bit i x v chu ng nhng kh
khn khi phi nui con mt mnh.
"Vic kh bt thng v rt ng quan tm", Harriet Phinney, tr l
gio s nhn chng hc ti i hc Seattle, M, ni. Theo b, trc
chin tranh, vic c gng c mt a con ngoi gi th"cha tng tn
ti" Vit Nam.
l sn phm ca nhng b m dng cm, b Phinney, ngi ang
vit mt cun sch v chuyn "xin con" Vit Nam, cho bit.
Mt s b m n thn lng Li sn sng chia s cu chuyn ca bn
thn, mc d khng cho bit tn ngi gip h c con.
B Nguyn Th Nhan, 58 tui, l mt trong nhng ngi ph n u tin
Li quyt nh "xin con". Trong nhng nm chin tranh, b Nhan
ng u mt trung i n thanh nin xung phong. Mc d cha tng
tham gia bt c cuc chin no, nhng nh kh nng lnh o tt, b vn
c nhn mt hun chng chin u. Ha bnh lp li, b tm ti mt
ngi n ng, v c c mt cu con trai.
Nhng nm u, cuc sng ca hai m con rt kh khn. Bt chp
nhng c gng khng ngng ca b, hai ngi vn chng n. May
mn l sau ny, dn lng quyt nh b qua nhng nh kin v sng
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ci m hn. Thm ch, nhng ngi ph n nh b Nhan cn ngy cng
nhiu thm. Mt trong s l b Nguyn Th Lu, 63 tui. Khi cn tr,
b tng em lng yu mt binh s, nhng ng tic, ng hy sinh trong
mt trn chin hi nm 1972.
"Chin tranh kt thc th ti 26 tui", b Lu k li.
"Hi y, 26 tui l qu gi kt hn. Ti th khng mun phi ly mt
ngi n ng qu gi v xu tnh. V li, cng chng c mt chng
trai c thn no chu n vi ti."
Tuy vy, b Lu vn lun kht khao c c mt a con. "Ti s phi
cht mtmnh", b ni: "Ti mun ai da vo khi gi c. Ti
mun mt a con ca ring mnh."
B Lu k, la chn y tng vp phi s phn i mnh m ca c gia
nh, bi khng ai mun c con gi ca h phi chu ng s d bu v
nh kin ca xm lng. Nhng ri, nh s kin tr ca bn thn, cui
cng c nguyn ca b cng tr thnh s thc. B Lu chuyn ti sng
ra lng, ni sau ny tr thnh nh ca rt nhiu nhng ngi m n
thn.
"Ti cm thy d chu khi c sng vi nhng ngi ph n c cng
cnh ng", b ni.
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Bn ngoi ngi lng, rt nhiu ph n trn khp t nc Vit Nam cng
c la chn tng t. Con s cc b m n thn, c bit l nhng
ngi tng tham gia cch mng, khin Hi Ph n, c quan gim st
cc chng trnh cho n gii ca chnh ph Vit Nam, khng th khng
quan tm.
"Rt nhiu ph n hin dng tui thanh xun ca h cho chin tranh,
v chng ti hiu vic nhn thc nhng hy sinh ca h cho t nc l
rt quan trng", b Tran Thi Ngoi, ngi ng u Hi Ph n, huyn
Sc Sn, H Ni, ni.
Bi vy, ti nm 1986, chnh ph Vit Nam thng qua b lut Hn
nhn v Gia nh, trong ln u tin cng nhn mi quan h hp php
ca cc b m n thn v con ca h. y ging nh mt s thnh
cng cho nhng ngi ph n lng Li, cng nh nhng ngi nh h
mi ni trn t nc.
Hin ti, nhng ngi ang sng ti cng ng cc b m n thn
lng Li bin cc tp lu trc kia tr thnh nhng mi m thc s.
Con ci h gi ln, hng thng u gi tin v phng dng nhng
ngi m gi bng ng lng t i h kim c trn thnh ph. Khng
ai trong s nhng ngi ph n y ngh h l ngi tin phong cho
mt tro lu mi, ch n gin l h ang i tm hnh phc cho bn thn
mnh.
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"Ti khng ngh mnh tng l ngi i truyn cm hng", mt ph n
giu tn, ni. "Ti ch i theo la chn ca ring mnh, l c l mt
ngi m. V khng ai c th thay i quyt nh ca ti."
Ngi lng ca nhng b m n thn Vit Nam
B Nguyn Th Nhan v chu trai.
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Bc nh b Nhan trong cn nh ti lng Li.
Mt ngha trang c a phng.
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Nhng a tr cng vui chi trn con ng chnh trong ngi
lng.
B Nhan v chu trai, Thao, 2 tui, trc khu vn ca gia
nh.
Qunh Hoa (nh:New York Times)
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Cc Bn i,
c xong cu chuyn ny cc Bn thy th no? C thng cm khng? Cc Bn
ngh sao v vic lm ca h? Ngh sao v tro lu ny? Tuy nhin cho d cc Bn
ngh g, ng cm hay c a h ln bn cn o c, vn ha, nhn bn hay
khng, chng ta cng phi nhn nhn rng chin tranh li cho cc ph n tr
ny khng ch nhng kh au mt mt, m cn ni ti phn hn duyn khng th
trnh phi khng? Hon cnh ca h ng thng qu, v h tht can m,
cng quyt. Dm vt ln trn tt c, dm thot ra ngoi vng l gio ca gia
nh, lng xm, x hi cng tn gio. Dm thch chnh bn thn dt khot
thc hin c mun ca mnh l xin mt a con, ch xin con thi, hu c todng hnh hi con tr bng chnh mu m ca mnh. mun ca h c
thc hin thnh cng v h cng thu ht c nhiu ngi thot ra khi hon
cnh c n bc phn v chin tranh, v thi cuc nh h, hu cng c lm M,
cng c m con nng niu, b m bng chnh dng sa ngt ngo ca h v i
ru con vi i tay kh cn xng xu tng gh cht bng sng , tng vch
rng x ni vt Trng Sn nhng vn m p du dng ca h.
Ha bnh hay chin tranh th kht khao c lm M ca bt c ngi ph n no
cng l chnh ng v phi c tn trng. Nhng c mun v vic lm ca cc
B M ny tht sng to v cng qu to bo. Tuy c th gii quyt ngay c
nhng h ly do chin tranh li cho h, v c nhiu ngi cm khch nhng
ring duyenky, vn cm thy c mt iu g ln cn, bt n y. Vng, c l
l mi bn tm khng nh nu tro lu ny lan truyn nhanh trong x hi vc mi ngi, c bit cc Bn tr hng ng vi bt c l do no th sao nhi?
Khng bit cc nh X Hi, lnh o cc Tn Gio v c cc nh Gio dc na c
quan tm n hin tng ny cha? c bit nhng a tr khng cha v nh m,
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chng cng khng cn bit cha ca mnh l ai, nhng h vn l mt thc ti v
ang hin din v ang tng trng bn cnh mi ngi!? iu quan trng na l
chc chn phong tro ny s nh hng, lm xo trn nhng khi nim cn bn v
Gia nh hnh phc, v ngi cha, ngi m v ngi con, v c v mt HnNhn ng n c trong cc x hi ca loi ngi t bao i nay phi khng?
Cho nn c l y cng l mt mi lo mi song song vi cao tro ng tnh luyn
i cho x hi v cc bc ph huynh na.
Phn chng ta, c vnh d, cng khai lm M cch hon thin nht. Vy hy
cm t Tri t v sng xng ng vi thin chc, hy hnh phc vi hin ti d
hng ngy chng ta vn c th nhn nhng au kh t chng, t con chu mang
ti, nhng khng sao, v chng ta mi mi vn l M m!
Mt ln na, Happy Mothers Day!
Thn mn,
Duyenky
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