Peaceful Healing Dialogue
(Earn your PHD in Communication)
v Always R -‐ E -‐ S -‐ P -‐ E -‐ C -‐ T each other.
v Always B E T R U T H F U L , even when it hurts.
v Always include S E L F -‐ R E F L E C T I O N = “Owning my own stuff.”
v Always give the other person HON E S T R I G O R O U S F E E D B A C K .
v Offer S O L U T I O N S on how to make things better.
v Keep each other I N T E R C O N N E C T E D not disconnected.
v Offer the other a chance to ADDR E S S T H E I S S U E S that have caused the disconnect.
v E X T E N D A B R I D G E back to one another.
v Be E T H I C A L , T R A N S P A R E N T , and V U L N E R A B L E .
v Give each other a way to S A Y “ N O ” to any part of the relationship.
v R E N E G O T I A T E or R E S H U F F L E the old system and “UPDATE THE F ILES . ”
v Be K I N D and C OM P A S S I O N A T E even when both partners do not agree.
v G E N T L Y S H A R E with o ne another that the relationship is not working.
v Both partners must want to work on: I N T E R C O N N E C T I O N , R E C O N N E C T I O N , and
U N I T Y , knowing that these could lead to …
P eaceful H ealing Delight or …
Peaceful H ealing Departure or possibly even …
P eaceful H ealing D ivorce
“Relationships begin to weaken, then fail when we stop doing the things that it took to get them in the first place.”
