1UNIT 10: Relationship and dating

2

1 Vocabularycould not take care of them тэднийг асран халамжилж чадаагүй

dream of finding each other нэг нэгнээ олохыг мөрөөдөх

adopt үрчилж авах

have in common нийтлэг зүйлстэй байх

adult live /adult lives/ насанд хүрсэн амьдрал

be related холбоотой байх

even though гэсэн хэдий ч

in the same business   нэг төрлийн бизнесст

make furniture тавилга хийх

sell furniture тавилга зарах

interview for jobs ажилд орох ярилцлага өгөх

decide to take a position   ажилд орохоор шийдэх

a man who looks like him  түүнтэй адилхан залуу

introduced himself өөрийгөө танилцуулсан

talk to a customer харилцагчтай ярилцах

talked for hours олон цаг ярьсан

3

1 Vocabularylive in the same city нэг хотод амьдрах

childhood хүүхэд нас

attend schools in the same district нэг дүүрэгт сургуульд сурах

cross paths  зам гарах

without meeting уулзалгүйгээр

have never expected to гэж хэзээ ч бодож байгаагүй

have a romantic relationship романтик хайр дурлалтай байхa need for human beings хүн төрөлхтний хэрэгцээ

demanding lives ачаалалтай амьдрал

special someone хайртай хүн

two decade 20 жил

a convenient method  тохиромжтой арга хэрэгсэл

internet dating интернэт болзоо

allowed millions of people олон сая хүнд боломж олгосон

make new friends шинэ найзуудтай болох

successful business venture амжилттай бизнессийн талбар

4

1 VocabularyInternet provider Интернэт нийлүүлэгч

their own internet dating sites өөрийн гэсэн интернэт болзооны сайтуудтай

such as тухайлбал

basically  ер нь бол

either friendship or dating нөхөрлөх болон болзох аль аль нь

meet in person биеэр уулзах

advantages of –ын даваа талууд

excellent way маш зөв арга

socially shy ичимхий, хүнтэй ярихаас ичдэг

make contact холбоо тогтоох

on a virtual basis цахим ертөнц дээр

get comfortable with a stranger танихгүй хүнтэй арай нэг эвээ олох

encouraged to meet уулзах зориг орох

more likely to find олох хандлагатай

increase your chance боломжийг нэмэх

5

1 Vocabularystumble upon the right partner тохирох хостойгоо учрах

cost effective хямд төсөр

lasting relationship тогтвортой харилцаа холбоо

let you spend  чи зарцуулна

disadvantages of -ын сул талууд

misleading хуурамч, төөрөгдөлд оруулсан

the risk of being exposed тохиромжгүй хүнтэй сүй тавих

augment their profile танилцуулгаа дөвийлгөж хийх

just to get your attention ердөө чиний анхаарлыг татахын тулд

end up wasting many hours цагийн гарз л болох

flirt with -тай4 сээтэгнэх

with no real results ямар ч бодит үр дүн үгүй

fall in love дурлах

we broke up бид салсан

get on well with each other нэг нэгэнтэйгээ сайн таарах

6

2 Gram

mar

Past Perfect Continuous TenseТөгс өнгөрсөнд үргэлжлэн байсан цаг

Usages Structure Key words Examples

1 duration of an action started in the past and finished before another past action (сан4 байсан)

2 action started in the past and lasted for some time in the past; its result was visible in the past (сан4 байсан)

S + had been + Ving + O + Mwhen afterbeforeby the time until

for, since, How long…(?)

all morning, all day, all year

He had been waiting long before the taxi arrived.

S + hadn’t been + Ving + O + M

He hadn’t been waiting long before the taxi arrived.

Had + S + been Ving + O + M?

Had he been waiting long before the taxi arrived? -No, he hadn’t. -Yes, he had.

7

Examples I had already fallen asleep before ten o'clock. 10-н цагаас өмнө би унтчихсан байсан.

I had met him before you introduced us. Чамайг танилцуулахаас өмнө би түүнтэй танилцчихсан байсан.

Mary looked nervous. Because she had lost her passport. Мэри түгшсэн харагдаж байлаа. Учир нь тэр пасспортоо гээчихсэн байсан.

He had been an executive for 3 years before he resigned. Тэр халагдахаасаа өмнө 3-н жил гүйцэтгэх захирлаар ажилласан байсан.

He had finished his job when we arrived. Биднийг очиход тэр ажлаа дуусчихсан байсан.

When I arrived at he party they had already met each other. Намайг үдэшлэг дээр очиход тэд аль хэдийнэ бие биентэйгээ танилцчихсан байсан.

After they had prayed, they had dinner. Тэд мөргөлөө хийчихээд оройн хоолоо идэв.

Susan had told everything to my friends before I came. Намайг очихоос өмнө Сюзан миний найзуудад бүгдийг хэлчихсэн байсан.

By the time the police arrived, the fight had finished. Цагдаагийханыг очих үед зодоон дуусчихсан байсан.

Kate had never played the drums until last night. Өчигдөр оройг хүртэл Кэйт бөмбөр дарж үзээгүй байсан.

I had done my Homework by 6 pm, yesterday. Өчигдөр 6-н цагийн үед би даалгавраа хийчихсэн байсан.

She had just left the office when the boss arrived. Даргыг ирэх үед тэр дөнгөж оффисоос гарсан байсан.

We had been friends for many years before she broke my trust. Тэр миний итгэлийг алдахаас өмнө бид олон жил найзууд байсан.

They were in shock because they had never seen like that thing before. Тэд өмнө нь тийм зүйл харж байгаагүй учраас шоконд орсон байсан.

I fed the cat after mom and dad had left. Би аав ээжийг явсны дараа муураа хооллосон.

When Sheena finally rang Robbie, he had already fallen asleep. Эцэст нь Шийнаг залгатал Робби унтчихсан байсан.

I had just sat down to have lunch when the phone rang. Утас дуугарахад би үдийн хоолоо идэхээр дөнгөж суугаад байсан.

2 Gramm

ar

8

3 Reading

Reading 1: Brothers’ reunion

Mark and Peter were brothers. Their parents could not take care of them. One family adopted Mark, and another family adopted Peter.

Mark and Peter had been dreaming of finding each other since 2005. When they finally met, they were surprised by how much they had in common.

For most of their adult lives, their jobs had been related, even though they had not been working in the same business. Mark had been making furniture, and Peter had been selling furniture. Mark had been interviewing for jobs in furniture stores and decided to take a position at Peter’s store.

Peter was talking to a customer when he saw a man who looked like him walk into the store. Peter asked him what he was doing and introduced himself.

That first day, Peter and Mark talked for hours. They found out that they had not been living in the same city, but they had attended schools in the same district for most of their childhood. They had been crossing paths for many years without ever meeting. They had never expected to have so much in common.

9

3 Reading

Reading 2 : Online dating

Everybody wants to have a romantic relationship, it is a need for human beings, but with today’s busy schedules and demanding lives, finding that special someone is not always easy. Since almost two decades, a convenient method called internet dating has allowed millions of people worldwide to meet and make new friends. Internet dating has become one of the biggest and most successful business ventures on the World Wide Web. There are hundreds of Internet dating sites on the net, and most large Internet providers, such as Yahoo! and Hotmail, have their own Internet dating sites.Basically, Internet dating is a way to meet people for either friendship or dating without actually having to meet them in person first.Advantages of online datingOnline dating is an excellent way for socially shy people to make contact. Once you get comfortable with a stranger on a virtual basis, you may be encouraged to meet them in person. If you are on the right dating site, you are more likely to find people looking for the same things as you and it increases your chances of stumbling upon the right partner. There have been many success stories where two people that met online enjoy a lasting relationship. Internet dating is a cost effective way of meeting new people, letting you spend only when you decide to meet your date in person.Disadvantages of internet datingWhile internet dating is very convenient, it can also be misleading. When you are not personally meeting a person, the risk of being exposed is higher as people often augment their profile just to get your attention. If you are not careful, you may end up wasting many hours of your time with no real results.

10

4 SpeakingConversation

We are not seeing each other anymore

Ryan: Hi, Mike. Haven't seen you for a while? How is Cathy?Mike: We're not seeing each other any more.Ryan: What happened? Did you break up?Mike: Yeah. I got sick and tired of her nagging all the time.Ryan: Oh, I'm sorry. Maybe, you were just emotional at that moment. Do you think you guys can

get back together?Mike: I don't know. There's plenty of fish out there in the sea.Ryan: Oh, you're such a dog!

Бид уулзахаа больсоон

Райан: Сайн уу, Mайк. Ойрд уулзсангүй шүү? Кэти сайн уу?Майк: Бид уулзахаа больсоон.Райан: Юу болоо вэ? Та нар салчихсан юм уу?Майк: Тэгсээн. Түүний байнгын үглэж яншихаас би бүр залхаж гүйцсэн.Райан: Өө, харамсалтай юм болжээ. Магадгүй чи тэр үед сэтгэл хөөрлөөр хандсан байх.

Эвлэрье гэж чи одоо бодож байна уу?Майк: Мэдэхгүйээ. Далайд зөндөө л олон загас байна шүү дээ.Райан: Чи яасан үл бүтэх этгээд вэ!

11

4 Speaking

Questions Answer the following questions

1. Have you ever been on a blind date? /сохор болзоонд явах/2. Have you ever had a crush on someone? /хэн нэгэнд дурлах/3. What age do you think is best for getting married? /гэрлэх/4. Would you marry someone from another country?5. At what age do you think that dating should begin?6. Do you believe in love at first sight? /анхны харцаар дурлах/7. When you look at a woman/man, what is the first thing you notice?

/ажиглах/8. How old were you the first time you thought you were in love? /дурлах/9. Do you think that physical attributes1 are more important to maintain a

successful relationship2?  /гадаад гоо сайхан/1 /хосууд хоорондоо сайхан харилцаатай байх/

12

Translation

Translation

1. Чамд хайртай хүн бий юу?2. Миний үерхдэг залуу бид 2-т ижил зүйл их бий. /have a lot in common/

3. Чамайг ирэхээс өмнө бид 3 цаг цэвэрлэгээ хийгээд байсан.4. Өчигдөр намайг ирэхэд та их хүлээсэн байсан уу?5. Түүнтэй танилцахаас өмнө би түүнтэй уулзъя гэж олон жил мөрөөдөж байлаа.6. Петр түүнээс юу хийж байгааг асуусан.7. Тэр Петртэй их адилхан харагдсан.8. Онлайн болзооны давуу талууд юу вэ?9. Интернэт болзоо бол өнөөгийн завгүй амьдралд маш зөв арга хэрэгсэл юм.10. Интернэт болзоо нь давуу талуудтай ч бас хуурамч байж болох юм.11. Захирлыг ирэхэд бүгд ирчихсэн байсан.12. Та тэтгэвэрт гарахаасаа өмнө хичнээн жил улсад ажилласан бэ? /before you were

retired/13. Интернэт болзоо нь хүнтэй үг ярихаас ичдэг хүмүүст тохиромжтой.14. Та Интернэт болзооны талаар юу гэж боддог вэ?15. Та ер нь олон улсын найзуудтай болоход Интернэт болзоог ашиглаж үзсэн үү?

13