星期五 friday, september 27, 2019 chinese evangelical church ... · seeking god’s will...

工作之樂 #2JOY @ Work – Called To Work

孔雷漢卿Elaine Kung

AT&T Director (retired)Called To Work Founder, Co-Chair

Liberty Corner Presbyterian Church Elder

星期五 Friday, September 27, 2019 Chinese Evangelical Church of San Diego

聖地雅歌華人傳道會

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Fellowship Hall

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XqAvhR1F92M&t=8s

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主題• 融合信仰於工作的技巧

• 依據聖經的職業操手

• 尋找進升機會

• 如何處理工作與信仰間的冲突


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Jesus & Paul modeled Workplace (Work/Life) Ministry

• Of 132 public appearances in N.T.:122 in the marketplace

• Of 52 parables Jesus told: 45 had a workplace context

• Of 40 miracles in the book of Acts: 39 were in the marketplace

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✓ Your work is more than a paycheck: Job vs. Ministry

工作不只是为了薪水：工作 vs. 事工✓ Theology of Work: Work as Worship 工作活出敬拜

Bridge the Sacred and Secular DivideGlorify God at Work vs. Secret Agent

Encourage employees/employers 鼓励Equip leaders/influencers 装备Expand workplace ministry networks 扩展

✓ Receive God’s blessings, be a blessing to others接受祝福, 成為祝福

✓ Thank God it’s Monday! 感謝神星期一又到了!

✓ Take Jesus to Work – empty seat for Jesus at work

带神到工作中，让神出现介入

✓ S.H.I.N.E. for Jesus brightly – salt and light 为耶稣闪耀发光 - 盐和光你們的光也當這樣照在人前，叫他們看見你們的好行為，便將榮耀歸給你們在天上的父。馬太福音 5:16

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如何更享受工作 “7-Eleven”

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職場使命

馬太福音 6:33

你們要先求他的國和他的義，這些東西都要加給你們了。

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Elaine: Light 闪耀的光芒

生命的经文: 馬太福音5:16

你們的光也當這樣照在人前，

叫他們看見你們的好行為，便將榮耀歸給你們在天上的父。

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• 人心裡的謀算很多，唯有耶和華的計畫能實現。箴19:21

• 耶穌說：「你們要謹慎，遠離一切貪心，因為人的生命並不在於家道豐富。」路12:15


Let go, Let God 放手讓神Chinese, Purpose

Do your best, commit to God for the rest

Seeking God’s Will 尋求神旨意1. God’s Word神的話: Understand what the Bible says

2. God’s Spirit神的靈: Experience Holy Spirit’s confirmation through Prayers

3. God’s People神的子民: Seek advice from people who love you/love God

4. God’s Circumstances神的環境: How the events and timing are orchestrated to open and close doors, common sense

5. God’s Sovereignty神的主權: Walk with the Lord, Trust and Obey, Surrender to God’s leading

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5C (Alpha Guide)

Commanding Scripture (2 Timothy 3:16, Psalm 119:105, 130-133)

Compelling Spirit (Acts 13:1-3, Philippians 2:13)

Counsel of Saints (Proverbs 12:15, Proverbs 20:18)

Common Sense (2 Timothy 2:7)

Circumstantial Signs (Romans 8:28, Proverbs 16:9, Psalm 37:5)

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Respond to God as we are Called To Work: J.O.Y. @ work

回應神對我工作的呼召: 喜樂 @ 工作

Experience Jesus’ presence in work challenges: Christ @ work

在工作挑戰中經歷耶穌: 基督 @ 工作

Abundant growth in AQ & EQ: Sunday blessings to Monday blues

智商與情商的豐富增長: 週日祝福 vs. 週一憂鬱

Live a missional lifestyle through all life stages: Purpose driven

擁有使命感的生活方式: 標杆人生

R.E.A.L. JOY @ Work 享受職場使命人生

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▪如何將信仰融入職場: 工作佔據了我們每天大部分的時間與精力▪過一個有使命, 喜樂, 綜合的生命: 全職事奉神的满足人生和一生▪讓信仰生活化: 讓神的話語生命化, 享受工作之樂,做鹽和光▪回應神對我們在工作的呼召: 讓耶穌介入工作, 工作不單為收入▪提高情商并建立積極正面的人際關係: 與難以相處的人打交道，處理辦公室政治和變得自信，解決茅盾衝突，將敵人轉變為朋友▪在職場中接受神的祝福, 成為他人的祝福

C.A.L.L.E.D. to Work! 職場使命• Created to work with strengths and satisfaction

被創造出來工作的優勢和滿足人生

• Available to help others succeed with contributions

帮助他人成功

• Lead with passion and people/networking skills

热情与能力来领导

• Learn to grow in WHAT (aptitude, hard skills) 学习成长and HOW (attitude, soft skills)

• Encourage with financial benefits 财务效益来鼓励

• Delight in seeking God through career growth

乐于在工作成长中寻求神


H.E.A.R.T.S.

• 無論做甚麼，都要從心裡做，像是給主做的，不是給人做的- 歌羅西書 3:23

• Whatever you do, work at it with all your H.E.A.R.T.S., as working for the Lord, not for human masters. - Colossians 3:23


神是大老板 - 工作是祝福God is my CEO – Work is a Blessing

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your H.E.A.R.T.S.,as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” Colossians 3:23

•Humility 謙卑 vs. “secret agent” 臥底特工•EQ 情商 build up, enthusiastic & positive 熱情•Available to help/lead others succeed 協助他人成功•Reflect & leverage your talents/strengths 利用你的才華•Teachable & do your best to glorify God @ work 受教•Share & pray for the work and people 為工作和人祈禱


靈: 豐盛人生• 保持心靈更新而變化

– 「所以, 我們不喪膽. 外體雖然毀壞, 內心卻一天新似一天」(林後四 16)

– 避免所謂「四化」:老化, 僵化, 退化和腐化，不要忘記不斷

更新而變化• 用更多時間作有系統的研經, 禱告

• 與主同行, 信靠服從, 豐盛人生– 有寶貝在這瓦器裡, 在基督裡我們就是新造的人, 並且

為主而活, 常活在主的愛中, 生命便充滿活潑的盼望

– 活在基督裡: 有主同在, 便是天堂約翰福音 15:5-8

• 常常喜樂, 不住禱告, 凡事謝恩– 這是喜樂平安的祕訣, 也是享受生活, 每天活得精彩的方法

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工作之樂, 家庭之樂J.O.Y. @ Work & Home!主為先 Jesus first

他為從 Others second

你為末 You last

靠神事半功倍 >> 靠人事倍功半By God’s grace: Half the effort

Double the result

By our own ability: Double the effort

Half the result


Every profession is a minister. Every field is a ministry.… including our work and home!

“4H” 生命改变, 生活转型Life Application/Transformation


1. Understanding in our Head 知识2. Convicted in our Heart 感受3. Putting into practice with our

Hands 应用4. Making the change as a Habit 习惯

in our daily life!


Start Doing Stop Doing

Do More Do Less

應用: 配對鼓勵Application: Paired Buddy Encouragement

Email: [email protected] WeChat: ElaineLuiKung Facebook: Elaine Kung

1. Empty chair for Jesus @ work2. 5 mins prayer before work3. Prayer partner @ work

1. Gossip2. Complain3. Unbiblical attitude & action

1. Pray for managers, coworkers2. Meditate God’s word for wisdom3. SELF CARE, manage life/time

1. Slack off @ work2. Overcommit without boundary3. Workaholic

開始做停止做

做更多做更少

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主題• 融合信仰於工作的技巧

• 依據聖經的職業操手

• 尋找進升機會

• 如何處理工作與信仰間的冲突


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Elaine的三個職業模式

• I

• T

• Pi

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Job Move Considerations• Transferrable Skills• New Skills• Risk Management

箴言 3:5-6

你要專心仰賴耶和華，不可倚靠自己的聰明，在你一切所行的事上都要認定他，他必指引你的路。


1. Know Your 5Ps

• Purpose, Principle, Passion, People, Performance

2. Know Yourself

• Strengths Finder, Personal Brand, SWOT

3. Know Others

• Networking, Mentoring, Relationship, Team Building

4. Let Others Know You

• Journey Map

• Informational Interviews

• 360o Leadership

• Recommendations, References

5. Milestone Investments and Celebrations

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Career Development 5 Steps

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12 Qualities Employers Look For

Strong work ethic

Well rounded personality

Desire to contribute

Volunteer (extra-curricular)

Basic math skills

Literate (reading, writing)

Positive attitude

Enthusiasm

Willingness to learn, Curiosity

Self-starter, Motivated

Proactive Problem Solver

Works well in teams

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People

Influence

Passion

Principle

PurposeVision

Performance

你的人生目標?What is your PURPOSE in life?

你的原則?What guides your Principles?

你的熱情?What is your Passion to invest in?

如何和他人互動? How do you interact with People?

如何提供表現? How do you excel in your Performance?

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INTERNAL

EXTERNAL

Discover & Influence with 5P

發現,實現人生目的, 5P 影響力

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• Contribution

• Commitment

• Aptitude, Attitude

• “Hard Skills”• Communication

• Relationship

• Leadership

• “Soft Skills” EQ

People• Motivation

• Interests

• Give Back

• Invest Time, Talent, Treasure

Passion

• Values

• Wisdom

• Choices

• Decisions

Principle

• Foundation

• Empower

• Encourage

• Energize

Purpose

Performance

貢獻、委身資質、態度, 品牌“硬實力”

Discover & Influence with 5P

發現,實現人生目的, 5P 影響力

交流、信任人際關係領導力“軟實力”情商

動機興趣回饋投入時間、才能和資源

信心智慧品格、價值觀選擇、決定

基礎授權鼓勵激勵

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INTERNAL

EXTERNAL

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Integrity

Excellence

Relationship

Influence

Serve

BALANCE

Calling

7 Faith Pillars of Excellence @ Life

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5P Inf luence Sunsh ine 2017 a lum ’s stor y

BEFORE

Sunshine in July 2017

AFTER

Sunshine ‘17 to NOW PROCESS

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教會事工長老, Stephen Minister

儿童/青少年老師

大學錄取面試官Cornell, Princeton

非營利: 董事, 講員AFC使者, DTS 神學院CEO Global, NHC, TCP Theology of Work, Lausanne GWFCIE 中工會 STEM

事業

平衡 vs. 綜合人生

CAREERCALLING

COMMUNITY

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群體

呼召 33年工程師產品市场主管

家庭33年婚姻

2个成年子女,媳妇

25年母亲同住

23年:“Called To Work 職場使命” 創辦人, 主席, 講員

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目的: 传福音,全人的门徒训练

綜合人生

生活技能

交友婚姻

亲子教养

人际关系, 领导软实力

学业职场事業

呼召

群體

Leadership領導力 (12 words)

Ability to Influence

Others to be their best

For the greater good

能夠影響他人

成為他們的最佳

為大體的好處



1. The Way To Success

2. A Life of Excellence

3. Servant Leadership

4. Effective Communication

5. Dealing with Adversity

6. Managing Conflict

7. Emotional Intelligence

8. Cultural Intelligence and Global Mindset

9. Career Development, Networking, Mentoring

10. Life/Time Management

CEO Global Leadership ProgramLQ: IQEQHQAQCQSQ XQ

SQ: Spiritual Quotient

XQ: Transformational Quotient

Learning agility IQ: fast learner, problem solver

Influence EQ: share vision, align, motivate

Self-aware HQ: strength (S.O.A.R.), weakness, S.W.O.T.

Tough resilience AQ: grit, fail forward, conflict resolution

Effective communication: understanding, active listening, 7C

Noble character CQ: integrity, values, time/life management

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Core Leadership: L.I.S.T.E.N. Quotient

学习敏捷性智商: 快速学习者, 问题解决者

影响情商: 分享愿景, 调整, 激励

自我意识, 谦卑: 優勢, 弱点

韧性逆境: 勇气, 失败前进, 解决冲突

有效沟通: 理解、主动倾听

高尚的品格 : 诚信, 正直价值观

S.O.A.R. Story Telling Strengths, Weaknesses

What

How


• IQ• EQ• AQ• CQ

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2. Know Yourself


3. Know Others



• Journey Map


• 360o Leadership



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Understand Your Strengths

• Myers Briggs

• DISC

• Strengths Finder


Enthusiasm for my work

Love of people

Always working to find new ways

Intelligence drives my decision making

No is not in my vocabulary

Endless commitment to mentoring


Personal Brand 個人品牌

In my DNA, how God created and gifted me: What, How• Passionate, Purpose Driven, Visionary Leadership 熱情、目標驅動、愿景式領導• Execution with Excellence for Complex Programs 複雜問題的出色執行力• Analytics, Automation, Process, Marketing, Customer Service

分析、自動、過程、市場、服務• Deep Business & Technology, US & Global 商業技術、深入經歷、全美全球• Strengths Finder: ABCDR 成就、信仰、連通、培養、責任

[Achiever, Belief, Connectedness, Developer, Responsibility]

工作热情热爱他人不断创新明智决断从不说不不断指导

AT&T VP’s Surprise 來自VP的驚喜

@ Elaine’s Retirement Party Electric personality 強烈個性

Live authentically 真實生活

Always persevere 永遠堅持

Irreplaceable 不可替代

Never to be forgotten 不被遺忘

Eternally optimistic 永恆樂觀

Kinetic force of nature 天然動力

Uniquely spiritual 獨特屬靈

Natural leader 天生領導

Grew through adversity 逆境生長

AT&T Headquarter Dallas, TX – Nov. 27, 2017


SWOT Analysis on How: Self & 360o View

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Strengths優勢

Threats威脅

Weaknesses弱勢

Opportunities機遇

• Strategic and proactive thought

leadership戰略、主動思考、領導力

• Execution with excellence卓越執行力

• Passionate dedication with integrity

熱情、投入、正直

• Natural networking & coaching

社交和教導

• Too quick to bring complex situation

to resolution 急於解決複雜問題

• More self-awareness of audience

聽眾自我意識

• Intense and driven 激烈、努力

• Need more 360o leadership

需更多領導力

• Leadership style 領導力類型

• Communication/listening skills

交流和傾聽

• Inspiring team building vs. micro-

managing 激發 vs. 微觀管理

• Technical & sales experience

技術和銷售

• Demanding 苛刻

• Perfectionist 完美主義

• Multi-tasking on multiple priorities

多任務

• Needs more selective prioritization

選擇優先權

Overdoingvs.

Balance

矫枉过正 vs. 平衡

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Personal BrandBrilliant cake bakerObedientNever give upNo non-sense organizerInsightfulEnthusiastic


S.W.O.T. Analysis

• Passionate for learning• Take initiatives in projects• Excel at process innovation• Conscientious and attentive• Great sense of time management

• Reserved• Delegation• Directing style (Bossy)• Engaging in conversation• Meticulous in every aspects

• Refrain from criticizing• Lack of self confidence• Overthink or over exert myself• Expect high standards from others• Spend more time than necessary on

certain tasks

• Coaching style• Offer more compliments • Practice softening my style• Seek/acknowledge others opinions• Find areas to give up control

Strengths Weaknesses

Opportunities Threats

S WO T


S.O.A.R.Strength: Execute complex projects with excellence, with team collaboration and tight time management.

Situation Took over a complex auditing project without proper hand-off

ObstacleCompleted in 14 business days, instead of the usual 2 months

ActionPulled a cross functional team together, worked diligently with a focused effort

ResultFinished in 10 business days, 4 days ahead of schedule


1. Know Your 5Ps


2. Know Yourself


3. Know Others



• Journey Map


• 360o Leadership



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箴言 15:22 不先商議，所謀無效；謀士眾多，所謀乃成。

Locate, land, succeed, transition, recover in your career: Relationship comes first!

Good connections with:1. face to face

2. eye to eye

3. hand to hand

4. one on one

•Meet/Build personal relationship that lasts for a life time: Help others, Seek advice

•Plan to meet 1 person a month: Take the Online connection to Offline relationship

•Think of 2 questions to ask, be prepared to listen

•Follow up thank you note

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NetworkingArt of getting Advice and Counsel

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N.E.T.W.O.R.K.I.N.G.: Before, During, After

Names, facts, stories to remember 記住名字和故事

Enthusiastic attitude building your Brand, perception 熱情的態度

Teachable heart in Mentoring Relationships, actions 受教之心

Winning with encouragement, Common Ground win win, CCP clear concise prescriptive communication 簡單有效地交流

Open mind, offer to give not just receive 開放的心，給予

Relate to others, regular follow up/progress or as needed與他人建立聯繫并及時跟進

Kind and considerate of boundary熱心、善解人意

Impression-making experience and story動人的經歷和故事

Noble character, integrity高貴的品格、正直

Go the extra mile, get prepared before the meeting多做一些準備

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Develop a Network of C.R.I.M.P.S.


M.E.N.T.O.R. Best PracticesWhat it takes to commit to successful MENTOR experience

Model after good examples in our network of C.R.I.M.P.S.

(Connector, Realist, Industry insider, Mentor, Partner, Sponsor)

Encourage growth in “Strengths Finder”

Nurture on areas of development

Talent match to the business need and opportunity

Observe confidentiality/honesty and build trust

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1. Know Your 5Ps


2. Know Yourself


3. Know Others



• Journey Map


• 360o Leadership and Feedback



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• Journey Map

• Summary of Experiences

• SWOT: Strengths (SOAR), Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats

• What Others Say: Recommendations, References

• Career Interests

• Personal Interests

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Let Others Know You Samples

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1. Know Your 5Ps


2. Know Yourself


3. Know Others



• Journey Map


• 360o Leadership and Feedback



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• Typical 30 minutes weekly or biweekly

• Accomplishment since last meeting– CCP Clear, Concise, Prescriptive (call to action)

– Seek feedback, clarify what support is needed

– Walking solution, proactive in problem discovery/solving

– Not task completion, need to show Impacts w/ numbers

• Current priority and time allocation– Align expectation, avoid surprises

– Above the line vs. below the line

• Future Career Development– Career goal in 3 to 5 years

– What it takes to move to the next level/role

– Training, hard/soft skill development51

1on1 with Direct Management

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Salvation testimonies to share with others at work 得救見證分享

Understanding God's plan for us at work 明白神對我們工作的計畫

Compassion and empathy for coworkers/bosses 對同事和老闆的同理心

Christ-centered commitment and lifestyle at work 以基督的心為心

Encouraging attitudes, words and actions 鼓勵的態度、言行

Strength from God thru daily devotion/continual prayer 來自神的力量, 靈修,祈禱

Servant heart leadership at work 誠信的僕人心態的領袖

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True S.U.C.C.E.S.S. @ Work

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Discover 5P for your career/life journey 發現您職業/人生之旅的5Pwork is more than a paycheck, thank God it's Monday!

Review the strengths, personal brand and personalities to

build better team and leadership influence 審查優勢Integrate your 5P across personal, family, work,

community life - how to balance vs. converge 平衡vs.綜合View others better than yourself, others-centered

leadership style - Servant Leader of Integrity 誠信的僕人領袖Excellence in offering yourself as living sacrifice and

Experience true S.U.C.C.E.S.S. 奉獻自己作為活祭53

Be Kingdom-minded, how God calls us, equips us to D.R.I.V.E. and impact those around us,

at work, home, church, community, living a more integrated and satisfying life – Whole self.

在不同人生階段中, 兼顧家庭、工作及教會事奉, 成為”全職事奉” 神的满足人生和一生

D.R.I.V.E. 标杆人生

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