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nd Sunday of Easter (Divine Mercy

Pastor 主任司鐸 Fr. Bruce-John Hamilton

Assistant 助理司鐸 Fr. James Kairu

Chinese Mass 中文彌撒司鐸

Fr. Anthony Ho

Parish Office Administrator Helen Estrellado

Parish Office Hrs 堂區辦事處時間 Tue—Fri 8:30am to 12:00 pm

1:00 to 4:00 pm Closed for Lunch at 12:00 – 1:00 pm

Corpus Christi Elementary School 6344 Nanaimo Street Vancouver, BC V5P 4K6 Phone: 604-321-1117 Fax: 604-321-1410 Email: office@cchristi.ca Website: www.corpuschristi-school.ca Principal: Ms. Rosa Natola

Sunday Mass 主日彌撒 Saturday Vigil 週六:

5:00 pm (English 英) Sunday 週日: 8:00 am (English 英) 10:00 am (English 英) 12:00 pm (English 英) 3:00 pm (Cantonese)

Weekday Mass 平日彌撒 Mon.—Fri. 週一至五 8:00 am Wednesday 9:05 am (School Mass when in session) Friday 7:00 pm Saturdays & Holidays 9:00 am

Reconciliation 修和聖事

Saturday 9:30 am – 10:15 am 4:00 pm – 4:45 pm Monday—Friday 7:45 am —7:55 am Friday 6:15pm —6:40 pm Sunday (In Cantonese) 2:30—2:55 pm

Liturgy of the Hours/Devotions

Office of Readings Daily 7:00 am Saturdays/Holidays 8:00 am Lauds Daily 7:40 am Saturdays/Holidays 8:40 am Sunday 7:30 am Holy Rosary, after weekday Mass Divine Mercy Devotion Fridays 6:35 pm Our Lady of Perpetual Help Saturday 9:30 am

Our Mission: To witness God’s love by service and make disciples of Jesus Christ.

Our Vision: Corpus Christi Parish will create an environment and culture that support all parishioners in embracing Stewardship as a way of life throughout their lives.

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October 20, 2019 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

November 11, 2018 Thirty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time

PARISH MINISTRIES/GROUPS

Adoration Chapel Jarka Fusekova/Araceli Hinz Baptism Preparation Class Jackson Fong/Adelia Yiu/

Anita Gill/Scholastica Au Bible Study Fr. Bruce-John Hamilton (Scripture Study) Joyce Fung (Tuesday Morning Group) Joseph Chiu (Chinese) Catering Theresa Stewart Catholic Women’s League Leni Fong, President Chinese Community Frank Chan Choir Sat. 5pm & Sun. 8am Dominica Chan Sun. 10am Dorathy Li Sun 12pm Cristy Luettschwager Chinese 3pm Vincent Lau Church Care Helen Estrellado Altar Linens Agnes Lo Church Flowers Monica Lau Church Cleaning Cristy Luettschwager Church Gardens Adele Almoite Couples for Christ Neil & Cristy Loresco Russell & Theresa Zablan Richman & Nina Therese Manalili Eucharistic Ministry Bill Lam, Coordinator Knights of Columbus David Robinson, Grand Knight Legion of Mary Vickie Cornwall, President Project Advance Jackson Fong/Simon Yeung RCIA Fr. Bruce-John Hamilton (English) Joseph Chiu (Cantonese) Readers Irene Goh-Ko, Coordinator Safe Environment Ruby Socorro Arico Seniors’ Ministry Jackson Fong/Theresa Stewart Senior Management Team Fr. Bruce-John Hamilton/Fr. James Kairu/

Jackson Fong/David Robinson/Rick Lam/ Veronica Yam/Helen Estrellado

Ushers Rick Lam, Coordinator Welcoming Ministry Connie Robinson, Coordinator Youth Ministry Fr. James Kairu, Director Altar Servers Fr. James Kairu Junior Youth Melchor Berceles/Lois Umali Parish Religious Education Program (PREP) Veronica Yam, Coordinator Queen of Angels Vivien Leung, Coordinator

BAPTISM The Baptism Preparation Classes for parents are held every 1st (Part 1) and 3rd (Part 2) Saturdays of the month, 10:30 am to 12 noon, except during the months of July and August. Parents must attend both sessions. Call the Parish Office to pre-register for the class. Baptism celebrations are held every 1st and 3rd Sundays of the month following the 12:00 noon Mass. HOLY MATRIMONY We welcome your wedding celebration at Corpus Christi Church. To arrange the date and begin your preparations, please contact the Parish Office or either one of our priests at least 6 months prior to the proposed wedding date. ANOINTING OF THE SICK If your loved one, relative or friend would like to arrange for a priest for the administration of the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick or to visit the sick in a hospital, please phone the Parish Office. Or you may contact the hospital chaplain:

VGH: 604-877-5918 (Pager) Fr. Jude Iloghalu (Mon., Tue., Fri., Sat. and Sun.) (604-230-7217) Fr. Miguel Segura Blay, Fr. Gilbert Nunez, Fr. Luis Martin Brain Delgado (Wed. and Thurs.) MOUNT ST. JOSEPH HOSPITAL: Fr. Martin Tuyen Nguyen, OP (Chaplain) 604-876-7826 BURNABY HOSPITAL: St. Theresa’s Parish (Chaplain) 604-298-6800 ST. PAUL’S HOSPITAL: Fr. Victor Fernandes, OCD 604-806-7290

WELCOME TO NEW PARISHIONERS AND VISITORS: To register, please complete a Registration Form available at the Welcoming Booth in the church vestibule or at the Parish Office or download from the parish website, www.ccparish.ca. Envelopes are assigned to those who request for them.

Eucharistic Emmaus Adoration Chapel

To worship at Corpus Christi’s Adoration Chapel, please come to the parish office to obtain a code for the door lock. Eucharistic Adoration in the Church, every Friday, from 5:45 to 6:45 pm. Holy Hour is at 6:00 pm

想在聖體小堂朝拜耶穌聖體，請親臨堂區辦事處，領取門鎖密碼 聖堂明供聖體時間是每星期五下午 5:45 至 6:45 聖時：下午 6:00

Saturday, October 19 Vigil Mass 5:00 PM for Ivan “Nino” Kos, RIP

Sunday, October 20 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

8:00 AM for Rosario Ciolli, RIP

10:00 AM for All Parishioners, Living & Deceased

12:00 PM for Evelyn Chang, RIP

3:00 PM for All Sick People

Monday, October 21

8:00 AM for Theresa Leong, RIP

Tuesday, October 22

8:00 AM for Au Family, Thanksgivinf

Wednesday, October 23

8:00 AM for Alfred Mar, RIP

9:05 AM SCHOOL MASS

Thursday, October 24

8:00 AM for William Earl Campbell, RIP

Friday, October 25

8:00 AM for Liljana Obradovic, RIP

7:00 PM for Thelma Varcoe, RIP

Saturday, October 26

9:00 AM for Rosalinda Roque, RIP

Vigil Mass

5:00 PM for Chang & Tong Families, Thanksgiving

Sunday, October 27 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time

8:00 AM for Deceased Members of Tolentino Family

10:00 AM for All Parishioners, Living & Deceased

12:00 PM for Jun & Myrna Evangelista, RIP

3:00 PM for Stephen & Rita Sze, Thanksgiving

Flu Shot Clinic

This is the last reminder about the Flu Shot Clinic on Sunday, October 27 from 9:00 am to 2:45 pm at the school gym. In order for the pharmacy to accurately prepare the number of vaccines to have on hand, please sign up at the sign-up sheets placed in the church vestibule. Last day to sign up will be on Thursday, October 24.

Fr. Hamilton’s 60th Birthday Dinner Fundraiser

• Tickets to Fr. Hamilton’s Birthday Dinner Fundraiser are still available after all Masses this weekend and at the parish office Tickets are at $160 each and $110 will go

back to you as tax receipt. Only 61 tickets left!!!

Proceeds of the fundraiser will go towards our Capital Campaign for the New Elementary School and Parish Centre Project.

• Join the celebration and please consider making a donation. It is the goal of the Capital Campaign Committee to raise $60,000 for Fr. Hamilton’s Birthday Fundraiser. The 1st $10,000 will be matched by a very generous parishioner!

October 20, 2019 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS

Email Fraud Warning

The Archdiocese has received multiple reports from parishioners and priests who have fallen victim to a recent Internet email phishing scam. Imposters, posing as priests and using email addresses that are similar to those of our priests, have been emailing people asking for personal donations, gift cards, and other forms of financial assistance. Never respond to emails requesting Google Play cards, iTunes cards, or any other form of personal financial assistance, even if it appears to be from a priest, deacon, religious, parish staff or Archbishop Miller. If you have any doubt, please contact the sender by other means to verify any requests. See the B.C. Catholic story at www.bccatholic.ca/phishing...

Marian Devotions for Peace & Justice in Hong Kong

Join us to ask for the intercession of the Holy Mother of God and Ever-Virgin Mary that the Lord would pour his grace and peace upon Hong Kong and grant its people his justice and mercy. We shall pray one of the most ancient services in the Church (Byzantine Tradition): the Akathist to the Most Holy Theotokos, written by St. Roman the Sweet-Singer. “To Thee, the Champion Leader, we Thy servants dedicate a feast of victory and of thanksgiving as ones rescued out of sufferings, O Theotokos: but as Thou art one with might which is invincible, from all dangers that can be do Thou deliver us, that we may cry to Thee: Rejoice, O Unwedded Bride!” Thursday, October 24, 7 pm - 8 pm at Eastern Catholic Church in Richmond.

All Saints' Day Mass

Join Gardens of Gethsemani for the 2nd day of the Hallowtide Triduum – for our All Saints’ Day Mass at 6:30 pm in our Evangelist Chapel on Friday, November 1. Mass will be celebrated by Archbishop Miller.

All Souls' Day Mass

Join Gardens of Gethsemani for the 3rd day of the Hallowtide Triduum, as we celebrate All Souls’ Day Mass in the Evangelist chapel at the Gardens of Gethsemani at 6:30 pm, Saturday, November 2.

Pro-Life Mass and Prayer Vigil

One of the fundamental answers to abortion is prayer. Please join your voice with ours as we pray on the first Saturday of each month at a different parish for a new culture of life. Mass will be Saturday, November 2, 8:30 am at St. Francis Xavier Church in Vancouver. For upcoming dates, visit www.rcav.org/pro-life-mass-and-prayer-vigil

A Celebration of Christian Unity

You are invited to a celebration of Christian Unity in Commemoration of the 20th Anniversary of the Joint Declaration on the Doctrine of Justification. This ecumenical prayer service is with Bishop Gregory Mohr of the British Columbia Synod of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in Canada and Archbishop J. Michael Miller, CSB, of the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Vancouver. Sunday, November 3, at 3 pm at St. Clare's Church in Coquitlam. Light refreshments will follow.

2nd Annual Memorial Mass

We cordially invite you and your families to Kearney Burnaby Chapel’s Memorial Mass. Please join the team of Kearney Burnaby Chapel in honouring our loved ones who have passed on this year at this special Mass, that will be celebrated at Our Lady of Sorrows Church: 525 Slocan Street, Vancouver, on Wednesday, November 6, 2019 at 6:30p.m. OR St. Helen’s Church: 3860 Triumph Street, Burnaby, on Tuesday, November 19, 2019 at 7:00 p.m. Please RSVP to our office: 604-299-6889 or email us at burnaby@kearneyfs.com, as we will be offering refreshments in the Parish hall.

Fourth Annual Ordinandi Dinner

Join Archbishop Miller and members of the Catholic faithful as we gather together in support of Deacon Felix Min who is soon “to be ordained” (“ordinandi”) to the priesthood. Join us Tuesday, November 19, at the Italian Cultural Centre, 3075 Slocan Street, Vancouver. Doors open at 5:30 pm, dinner begins promptly at 6:30 pm Cost: $50 ($25 for students). Option to sponsor a priest or seminarian. To register, or for more information, please visit www.vocationsvancouver.ca.

Stewardship Reflections

“…proclaim the word, be persistent whether it is

convenient or inconvenient...” (2 Timothy 4:2)

It is not always convenient to be a good steward, especially when all the temptations of our busy and materialistic world get in the way. Now add our own

pride and ego into the equation and living a stewardship lifestyle may be downright

uncomfortable! Remember, God didn’t call us to be comfortable. He called us to be faithful.

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29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

I hope that parishioners will consider prayerfully, and seriously consider, supporting the Fundraiser for the New

School and Parish Center that will be celebrated near my 60th birthday. This is such a huge event in the life of our parish.

Once construction begins people will be amazed (for a lack of better words) at the size of this new facility that will

educate your children for generations to come, both for those who attend the school and those who attend our PREP. Our

new parish all will also be a wonderful place to gather as a parish family. This building is costing 24.5 million dollars and

we are 7 million short. I firmly believe that we can, here at Corpus Christi, manage this debt, but it will take a stewardship

mentality and commitment to meet this challenge. Prayerfully consider buying a ticket and coming out to the dinner.

Tickets are on sale after the Masses, or you can also purchase tickets through the parish office.

I believe it to be very important to reiterate my note about the reception of the Holy Eucharist. We, as Catholics,

must take the utmost care in the way in which we receive Our Lord Jesus Christ in the Eucharist. Only practicing

Catholics may receive the Eucharist, which means Catholics who attend Mass faithfully each Sunday and who are free of

mortal sin. Once you are at the Communion, or Altar, Rail you either kneel or stand. The Norm of the Church is too

receive Holy Communion on the tongue, but the Church permits Holy Communion to be received on the hand. If a person

is standing or kneeling and they receive Holy Communion on the hand they must, not should, but must, put Communion

into their mouths, either before they get up from the Rail, or before they turn and walk back to their pews. There is no

reason or excuse for walking away from the Rail with the sacred host in your hand - no excuse. As Jesus in the Blessed

Sacrament is so central to our belief, I will continue to remind, teach and exhort for the proper reception of the Eucharist. I

am mentioning this because in the past couple of months I am hearing that people are receiving who should not be

receiving. I am also seeing too many people either walk away with the Sacred Host in their hand then putting the host into

their mouths, or getting up from the rail and putting the host in their mouths, or while walking away. There is no (zero,

nada), reason for this, so please receive with the utmost reverence and love for Jesus Christ in the Holy Eucharist.

As I mentioned last week, it is so important for us who are children of God, to give thanks to God for his

countless blessings. After receiving Holy Communion be intentional (consciously and in a focused way), and make that

time one of thanksgiving to Jesus for the incredible gift that you have just received. There are vocal prayers that you could

pray, or just pray from your heart, thanking the King for being in your heart, soul and body.

It is good to see many parishioners wearing their Name Tags every Sunday! I think, and hope that it makes the

parish a “little smaller” in the sense that we can at least know each other’s first names now. I know it helps me, but I hope

that it helps you as well? There are still many parishioners who do not have Name Tags. I would encourage you to get one

and begin wearing it. For those who do wear one, kindly ensure that you name is facing outwards, the “cards” easily flip

to the backside which is blank.

Remember to Vote tomorrow, it is really important that we exercise our democratic right to vote. If you do not

vote you have no right to complain about the state of our nation. Vote for the candidate that you believe will protect

proper values, respecting life from conception till natural death, and marriage as between a man and a woman.

Remember this present government refused to give any organization summer job grant money unless it agreed

with pro-abortion (pro-death) policies. It is arrogant and disgusting that our Prime Minister would do this AND to

be clear this is not a political statement, it is a moral statement, no more and no less. I would say it not matter who

is in government.

United under the power of the Rosary

Fr. Hamilton

本堂神父的話

常年期第 29 主日

我希望每一位教友，都考慮多祈祷，認真考慮，去支持，我們為新學校和新堂區中心而祝我 60 歲生日

的籌款晚宴。新學校，新堂區中心，的籌款是一件很大的事情。當建築開始的时候，我們會驚喜於新設

施的巨大。這設施將教育我們一代又一代的子女；那些在學校就讀，或就讀兒童道理班的孩子們。一個

新的堂區中心，都是一個我們堂區家庭聚會的好地方。這項工程，要 2450 萬，我們尚欠 700 萬。我堅

決相信，我們基督聖體聖血堂，可以揹負這個債務。但是我們要負起這一份管家的心態，和達到目標的

承諾。請求你們購買，晚宴餐券，出席晚宴。餐券在每台彌撒之後發售。亦可到我們堂區辦事處購買。

我相信再重複我對領聖體的關注是十分重要的。我們天主教徒，要極度小心領聖體的方法。他把我們的

主人、耶穌基督，迎接到我們心裏。祇有實踐責任的教友，才可以領受聖體。就是說你每星期日參與彌

撒，而且沒有大罪，才可領受聖體。當你領聖體的時候，你可能是站，是跪在，祭壇內，聖體欄旁。領

聖體的準則是口領聖體。但教會亦准許手領聖體。無論你是站著，或跪下領受聖體，你應該，不是可以

，是絕對的應該，將聖體先放口內，然後站起來，或轉身離去。沒有任何理由，或藉口你可以把聖體，

放在手中，然後由聖體欄，離去，返回座位。因為聖體是我們，信仰的核心，我會，不停，提醒，教導

，和督促，正確領受聖體的方法。我提出此點，是因為過去，幾個月，我聽到有不少不應領受聖體的，

卻領受了聖體。我也看見不少的教友，在步向座位的回程中，才把手中的聖體放進口裏。另一些從聖體

欄站起來的時候，才把聖體放口裏。這是絕對沒有理由的。所以請你在領受聖體的時候，對我們的主人

耶穌，拿出最高的的尊敬，和最大的愛慕。

上星期我提及，我們身為天主的子女，要為天主的一切一切賞賜，送上感恩，是最為重要的。所以在領

聖體後，我們要專心和聚焦，讓這一段時間成為，多謝我們主耶穌不可相信的一切恩賜的一段時間。

我們有不少口禱的經文，也可在心內作自己的祈禱，多謝我們君王，來臨我們的靈魂，肉體和心中。

很高興看見不少的教友，在星期日佩戴他們的名牌。我想，我也希望，這名牌，讓我們的堂區變得細小

一點，因為，最低限度我們都能夠知道每一個人的名字。這名牌，幫了我不少，但我都希望，他也能幫

到你們。可是還有一些交友，沒有佩戴他們的名牌。我鼓勵你們去找一個，並開始佩戴它。佩戴名牌的

教友們，請多加小心，因為名牌很容易反過來，變得一片空白。

明天請記得投票。這是相當重要的，我們要行使我們民主的權力，去投票。如果你不忘投票，你就沒有

權力，去投訴我們國家的種種狀態。投選那些你認為，會保護我們的價值，尊重生命，由受孕到自然的

終結，尊重婚姻，為一男一女的婚姻。請記得，現今的政府，在暑期工啲贊助方面，拒絕贊助那些不

贊成墮胎的機構。我們的總理，是那般的高傲，可惡去推行這政策，並清楚表明，這不是一個政治的

聲明，正正是不多不少，一個道德的聲明。我認為，這並不重要，是看誰在掌舵政府。

在玫瑰經的力量下結合適一起的

Hamilton 神父

Policy on Requests for Mass Intentions for Corpus Christi

The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass is the center and root of the Christian life. It is offered for the living and the dead as the supreme way of giving worship to God and also asking for His grace and favour for some matter in this world or for the soul of departed loved ones. Here at Corpus Christi there is a great devotion for the Mass and many requests for the Mass to be offered for a specific intention with a stipend. Church Law specifies that only 1 Mass stipend can be accepted per Mass; the Priest prays in a special way for the intention as well as for the Universal Church. He may also include other intentions in his prayer though he may not name them. (For example, someone may come to the sacristy at the last moment asking the priest to offer the Mass for a family who has been in an accident or is about to have surgery that day. The priest does not change the original intention of the Mass, but, he can include this new emergency intention in his Mass).

Inasmuch as the request for Mass Intentions have considerably increased over the years since the implementation of this policy in 2013 and in order to be fair about the booking of Masses for anniversaries and special dates etc., I want to establish the following revised policies. The intention here is to be as fair as possible to the many parishioners who request Mass.

1) Requests for Mass Intentions will now be on a month to month basis – meaning, beginning January 2020, we will only accept requests for January; intentions for February will be accepted in February, and so on. As in the past, ALL MASS REQUESTS WILL BE ON A FIRST COME – FIRST SERVED BASIS.

2) We will accept three (3) intentions per family per year (1 Sunday or Saturday evening Mass and 2 weekday Masses) to be celebrated in Corpus Christ Church. This will also apply to any parish group wishing to offer a Mass for their specific intention. If a larger number of Masses are requested, we will send them to priests in need here in the Archdiocese or to priests in the Missions. Our retired priests as well as poor missionaries are very grateful for a daily Mass stipend.

3) In order to be fair and to take information accurately, all requests for Masses must be done in person at the parish office and the stipend for the Mass should be given at that time. There will be no more phone-in or email requests. Alternatively – if you wish to request a Mass without a specific date you may write your request with the intention and the stipend and place it in a separate envelope (not your weekly donation envelope) and drop it off in the Sunday collection marked clearly Mass Request. The ordinary offering for a Mass is $10. Mass cards are available at $1.00 each.

4) Due to the large number of requests received for Sunday Masses, it has become necessary to limit 1 Sunday or Saturday evening Mass request per family per year. This is to give a fair and equal opportunity to others also wishing to have a Sunday Mass offered for their loved one. We will also try to accommodate your requested Sunday Mass time, however, please note that the Pastor is obligated to offer 1 Sunday Mass for all the people of his parish (Missa Pro Populo). Due to this, scheduling of Sunday Masses will depend on the time of the Pro Populo Mass.

5) Special Mass requests on the occasion or at the time of the death of a family member who did not live here will need to be worked out with one of the priests and will only be done at the Friday evening Mass. If there are no such special Mass requests on a particular Friday, then the evening’s Mass will not be booked but will be left open for the intentions of the priest or for fulfilling the Holy Souls Masses.

We hope that this policy will give you, our dear parishioners, a fair opportunity to have Masses offered for your intentions in this Church or by other priests as speedily as possible.

Sincerely in Christ,

Fr. Hamilton October 8, 2019

8 Ways to grow closer to your family this fall

“Make the most of those shorter days with these family-oriented activities. Little ones love crunching all those fallen leaves, while older children can gather a huge collection for many possi-ble craft ideas. From painting leaves to making leaf collages, this is an activity that will keep you all busy, while providing your home with a bit if homemade autumnal decoration. Here are 8 things to do with big and little ones to make this season a blessing for all the family.

1) Leaves,...and more leaves Little ones love crunching all those fallen leaves, while older chil-dren can gather a huge collection for many possible craft ideas. From painting leaves to making leaf collages, this is an activity that will keep you all busy, while also providing your home with a bit of homemade autumnal decoration.

2) Gardening With all the leaves lying around, you might want to spend a day in the yard encouraging kids to gather them while you clear away all those dying plants. It’s an ideal moment to talk to your children about the life cycles as they gather up the dead foliage—but be sure to bring the hope of new life by planting a few bulbs for spring.

3) Build a bonfire There’s something so comforting about sitting around a bonfire with family members. Take this special moment to sing, chat, and of course, make the occasional smore! For those with children who like all things gory, you could even talk about those brave saints who were burned at the stake for their faith.

4) Prepare for the holidays Fall is about anticipation, the excitement of preparing for Thanksgiving and the beginning of Advent. Arrange a holiday family conference, where every-body offers up their ideas as to how to make these occasions special for you all. From making up gratitude books, to creating holiday menus, it’s a time to talk about the true blessing of family life.

5) Family Fun Run There are often a few fun runs at this time of the year. For those who like to be active, sign up for a joint family fun run that will not only help keep you all fit, but will encourage you to inspire and mo-tivate each other. For any future Olympians, you might even get to bring a trophy home!

6) The indoor tent If it’s pouring with rain and the kids are stuck at home, get some bed sheets—the bigger, the better—and build yourselves a lounge tent. Fill it with cushions and books, climb in and enjoy an afternoon of sto-ries, cuddles and laughter.

7) Get Cooking Again, if you’re more housebound than usual, take the time with your kids to make cookies, cupcakes, or other tasty treats and de-liver them to elderly neighbours. It’s a time of year that can be depressing for seniors, so a friendly visit is something that will surely lift their spirits.

8) Get Hiking Although it’s an activity for every time of year, there’s something reas-suring about wrapping up in warm clothes and stepping outside to-gether. Encourage your children to marvel at God’s creation as you examine the beautiful russets and shapes of the changing nature around you

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