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Love is three quarters curiosity.

Why are you talking yourself out of this? What you are doing is letting fear control your life, and even worse, it isnt even a fear for your own safety but fearof rejection a made up word that has absolutely no reflection on who you are oryour worth as a man.

Choose to be curious!

Dont let fear dictate your life. Live instead like a child. Children are always curious, always looking around passionately and excitedly at the world, always asking the great questions that pop into their heads.

Children dont overthink, dont overanalyze and dont ever stop to ask themselves if they are worthy.

Hi, I just had to come over. Im curious about you

Every great love story begins with curiosity.

Curiosity has no judgments

Curiosity is absolutely free of judgment.

The next time you find yourself thinking Shes probably busy or She doesnt want to disturbed or She has a boyfriend for sure! or She looks like she might be bitchy, erstand: that is only your own judgment.

That is the projection of your mind and not an ultimately reality.

If you think that any true great seducer lacks feelings, then youre dead wrong. If you want a genuine connection with someone, in other words, if you want to start a conversation authentically, you must first open yourself up.Yes, that means allowing yourself to be vulnerable. If you want someone to openup to you, you must first open up to them. If you want someone to connect with you, you must first learn to connect with them. Theres no way around it.

Lead, lead, lead!

How do I not run out of things to say?Im not going to answer that question.Im not going to answer it because the question implies something deeper and frankly more dangerous: Your focus is on yourself. If you want to know what YOU should say, then you are not curious about her. If you worry about what she thinks of YOU, then you are not vulnerable and open to her. If you are wondering about how to make YOU seem better in her eyes, then you are not free of judgments and opinions.That was an important realization for me. The moment I shifted my attention from myself to her, everything changed. They say the most interesting man in the world is the best listener.

So listen, but lead the conversation where you want it to go. About a year ago,I decided that I no longer wanted to make small talk. I just wasnt interested inmental masturbation conversations anymore. I wanted to dig out what is profound and real about the woman standing in front of me. And so, just like that, I skipped right to the questions that mattered to me.Are you languishing in a purgatory of mediocrity? Or is your conversation fueled by passion, mystery, fun and sensuality?



Men fall in love with their eyes, women with their ears. An important skill forany man to learn is the ability to take her on a trip in her mind, through the pictures you paint with your words.

If you want to learn how to start a conversation authentically with women, or really with anyone, you must learn to remain fully engaged with the person standing in front of you.You must learn to give your undivided, fullest attention at all times. In otherwords, you must learn to remain present.

While women talk, men are preparing the next clever thing they are going to say. They are running through their arsenal and making inventory of every quip, joke, response or cocky sound-bite they have at their disposal, hoping to see which will best hit the target. The funniest thing is that women will always tell you exactly how to seduce them.

You're coming at it from the mind state of tryna impress the girl. Rather, frame yourself in your mind as someone who women obviously love being around; when you possess this demeanor, the girl is curious and interested within the first 3 seconds of the interaction; all you have to do at this point is to not fuck it up.

This game is so strange; If ***********I*********** am not carrying an adequatevibration, in general the girl isn't as interested. If ***************I*************** am in state and/or in a great vibe, THAT VERY SAME GIRL is swooning. It ALL depends on you. ALL.

This vvvvv is how you'll get a strong sense of entitlement. There's more to it than just the way you look but you've gotta be the guy that makes pussies wet. If you know you make them wet, the strong entitlement comes with it.

It's better to have one good connection (note I'm not talking about taking a lot of time for that connection to happen) than to spam approach and end up with 10 #s that lead no where.

Additionally, if you go up to every girl and tell her she looks so cute etc. not only is it socially uncalibrated, it can land you right back where it did the first time.

Avoid having a demeanor that implicitly states you are tryna 'get' something from the girl.

Bringing genuine energy is more important than trying to force high energy. After all, after a couple of successful convos your energy should naturally rise and generate more interest.

What's more attractive to a woman, a guy who is bouncing around trying to talk to (and possibly trying to impress) every girl he sees,

or the suave playboy who sees someone who fits his criteria but he wants to goin and see in a non-arrogant fashion if she's cool enough to hang with him.

What's more attractive to a woman, a guy who is going to every girl and tellingher she is gorgeous (I believe this is a form of supplication, putting her beauty on a pedestal like that) or the guy who goes up to the girl and starts talking about a ceiling tile but through his demeanor, his penetrating eye contact and his tonality has the girl completely swooning in the first 5 seconds.



Focus on being authentic and stand how you want to stand, approach at whatever angle you want to approach. Blank your mind and say what pops in your head. This made a massive differenceto my approaches.She REALLY wants to talk about herself. Even when she is trying to control the conversation with her questions.

Feeling comfortable is better than than being fake alpha.

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