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How exciting, you’re engaged! Congratulationsfrom all the team at The Wedding Guide andwelcome to this latest edition which is packedwith lots of advice, articles, fabulousrecommended suppliers, real wedding featuresand pages of pretty things to inspire you!

The guide is designed to help you find everythingyou need to plan your dream wedding. Ourrecommended suppliers will assist you every stepof the way, making sure your special day is oneyou’ll cherish forever.

Don’t forget to check out our handy WeddingFayre Diary which you’ll find on pages 110-112 –great for planning your weekends around!

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The Wedding Guide Autumn/Winter 2012Published and distributed by Weddings by Jayne, Highfields,31 The Settlement, Ockbrook, Derbyshire DE72 3RJ Email: [email protected]: www.theweddingguideuk.comDesign & Production: Neil Rees for SunriseDP

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A-Z of Wedding Suppliers 4-11

Helping with your arrangementsCars and Carriages 86Finishing Touches 68Flowers 90Hen & Stag Parties 100Mother of the Bride 26Photography 52Rings 65Timetable 104Videographer 60

HisThe Groom 40Jobs for the boys 38

HersBeauty 30Fashion Pages 14Hair 37The Dress 12

The ReceptionChoosing the Venue 44Music & Entertainment 98Venue Decoration 70The Cake 94

Wedding Fayre Diary 110-112Real Weddings 50, 54, 58, 62Plus lots more….

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BEAUTY, HAIR & MAKEUP

Chess Hair and Beauty see p 37144 Wollaton Road,Beeston,NottinghamNG9 2PETel: 0115 925 7500 www.chesshairandbeauty.co.uk

Clumber Park Hotel and Spa see p 48Clumber ParkNr WorksopNottinghamS80 3PATel: 01623 835333www.clumberparkhotel.com

Complexions Beauty12 High StreetClaycrossChesterfieldDerbsyhrieS45 9DYTel: 01246 866550

Hair by Lauren Liz Foukes12 High StreetClaycrossChesterfieldDerbsyhrieS45 9DYTel: 01246 866550

Laura Ward Bridal Hair see p 3317, Church StreetRipleyDerbyshire DE5 3BUTel: 01773 742093www.laurawardripley.com

Organic Healthcare Company see p 31NottinghamTel: 07899 695667www.flp2u.co.uk

Steve Boultons Hair Salon see p 3780 Wilson RoadHanfordStoke on Trent StaffordshireTel: 01782 644476


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The Beauty and Tanning Lounge see p 3194 Derby RoadLong EatonNottinghamNG10 4LBTel: 01159 723333www.beautyandtanning.sm4.biz

BRIDAL WEAR

Alisa The Wedding Specialist27 Green LaneDerbyDE1 1RSTel: 01332 204731

Alison Evans Bridalwear37, New Street, Church Gresley, SwadlincoteDE11 9PSTel: 01283 214553

All Things Bride and Beautiful3 Station RoadOllerton VillageNottinghamNG22 9BWTel: 01623 825800

Angela Vickers Hand Made Bridal DesignsStudio 1, 69-73 Lower Parliament StreetNottingham, NG1 3BBTel: 01159 415616

Barbara’s Bridal Wear31 George Street, RiddingsDerbyshire, DE55 4BHTel: 01773 541012

Baroque Couture see p 2134-36 Station StreetDraycottDerby DE72 3QBTel: 01332 873320www.baroqubrides.co.uk

Big and Beautiful Bridal Wear 217 Derby RoadChellestonDerby DE73 5SETel: 01332 7001

Blush Bridalwear see p 173 Market StreetCastle DoningtonDerbyshireDE74 2JBTel: 01332 696813www.blushweddings.co.uk

Bridal Suite (Nottingham)71 Boundary Road, West BridgefordNottingham NG2 7DBTel: 01159 143905

Brides and Gowns26 The StrandDerby DE1 1HZTel: 01332 267000www.bridesandgowns.co.uk

Couture Bridal Designs LtdStudios 8+ 9 Fashion Design Studios69-73 Lower Parliament StreetNottinghamNG1 3BBTel: 01159 414179www.courturebridaldesignsltd.co.uk

Couture of Lilies20-24 Outram StreetSutton – in - AshfieldNottinghamNG17 4FSTel No: 01623 550990www.lilies.gbr.cc

Debra Jane Bridal Wear37 Mill StreetStafford ST16 2AJTel: 01785 242503www.debrajanebridalwear.co.uk

Designs By Marlaine82, High Street, AlfretonDerbyshire, DE55 7BETel: 01773 830787

Elle Louise Bridal4 Berkeley Court, Borough Road, Newcastle, ST5 1TTTel: 01782 630300

Emily Jane Bridalwear3 The Orchard, BelperDerbyshire ,DE56 1DFTel: 01773 822798www.emilyjanebridalwear.co.uk

English Rose Brides217 London Road, West End, Stoke, ST4 5RWTel: 01782 876298

Eternally Yours Bridalwear 64 BaldertongateNewarkNG24 1UNTel: 01636 640057www.eternallyyours.biz



Eves Collection111 High StreetWolstantonNewcastle-under-LymeStaffordshireST5 0EPTel: 01782 626661

Fabulous Wedding Boutique 29 Chapelside, Chapel Street,SpondonDerby DE21 7JQTel: 07967 231369Tel: 07725 674557www.fabulousweddingboutique.co.uk

Fabulous Wedding Boutique see p 174 Church Street, LeekStaffordshireST13 6ABTel: 07725 674557www.fabulousweddingboutique.co.uk

Gracie Bleu Bridal Shop 22 Matlock Green, MatlockDerbyshire, DE4 3BTTel: 01629 580011

House of Capulet54 Babington Lane, DerbyDE1 2SXTel: 01332 208111

James31 Pelham Street,NottinghamNG1 2EATel: 0115 947 2540

Jackie Thompson Couture 7 Burlington CloseBreastonDerbyshireDE72 3UBTel: 01332 874969www.jackiethompsoncouture.co.uk

Karolanne Bridal Wear26 Lower Parliament StreetNottinghamNG1 3DATel: 01159 472089

Kay Hobson Bridal Design77, The Fleet, Belper,Derbyshire DE56 1NWTel: 01773 828268www.kayhobsonbridaldesign.co.uk

Lori G Bridal Studio see p 13125 Blenheim DriveAllestreeDerbyDE22 2LFTel: 01332 550573www.lorigbridal.co.uk

Love Me Again Bridal BoutiqueRaps Building, Netherside, Bradwell, Hope Valley, Derbyshire S33 9JLTel: 07738 568800

Mimi Toko1 Tamworth Street, DuffieldBelper, DerbyshireDE56 4ERTel: 01332 842332

Pearl Boutique SU251, Level 2, East Mall,Westfield,DerbyDE1 2PQTel: 01332 36999

Pretty Panache Bridalwear11 West ParadeLincolnLN1 1NLTel: 01522 845049www.prettypanache.co.uk

Robertas Bridal35 Market Place, Burslem, Staffordshire, ST6 3AGTel: 01782 818321www.robertasbridal.co.uk

Rose Robinson Bridal Design see p 2152 Richmond AvenueBreastonDerbyDE72 3APTel: 0741 1077999www.roserobinsonbridal.co.uk

Serendipity Bridalwear 536 Burton Road,LittleoverDerbyDE23 6FNTel: 01332 362822 www.serendipitybridalwear.com



Shade Bridal and Occasion Wear see p 25Suite 2b,100 Melton Road,West Bridgeford,Nottingham. NG2 6EPTel: 01159 822820www.shade-apparel.co.uk

Stately Brides65b King Street, BelperDerbyshireDE56 1FATel: 01773 826126

Temptations By Design10 Compton Street, AshbourneDerbyshire, DE6 1DATel: 01335 344900

The Bridal Lounge4 The Mall, Brunswick StreetNewcastle, ST5 1TATel: 01782 612922

The Dressing Room 36 Station RoadDraycottDerby DE72 3QBTel: 01332 873320

The Wedding House16 Brighton Road, AlvastonDerby, DE24 8SYTel: 01332 75836

The White Room85a King StreetSouthwellNottinghamNG25 0EHTel: 01636 813967

Treasure the Day Bridal118 Station Road, Rolleston on Dove, Burton, DE13 9ABTel: 07748 680528

Tying The Knot Bridalwear138 Forest Road,Annesley WoodhouseNotts,NG17 9HHTel: 01623 753198

Unveiled by Leanne22 Westgate, Grantham, Lincolnshire, NG31 6LUTel: 01476 568315

CARS

Cloud Nine Classic Weddings see p 8932 Corbiere Avenue,Watnall,NottinghamNG16 1JRTel: 01159 384704www.cloudnineclassicweddings.co.uk

Rimans Wedding Cars see p 877 Berkeley Cres, Upper Saxondale,NottinghamNG12 2NWTel: 01159 120014 or 07801 710229www.rimans.co.uk

CEREMONY VENUES


Holiday Inn Derby – Riverlights see back coverMorledge DerbyDE1 2AYTel: 01332 412644www.holidayinn.com

The Carriage Hall see inside front cover and p 45Station RoadPlumtreeNottinghamNG12 5NATel: 01159 375300www.perkins-family.co.uk

Uttoxeter Racecourse see p 47 Wood LaneUttoxeterStaffordshireST14 8BDTel: 01889 562561www.uttoxeter-racecourse.co.uk

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CHAIR COVERS

Fabulous Chair Covers 29 ChapelsideChapel Street,SpondonDerbyDE21 7JQTel: 07967 231369Tel: 07725 674557www.fabulousweddingboutique.co.uk

Gemini Event Solutions see p 77StaffordshireTel: 07504 713221www.geminieventsolutions.co.uk

DANCE LESSONS

Step Together Dance see p 96AshbourneDerbyshireDE5 4NLTel: 07814 231913

DECORATION VENUE

Butterfly Lane Wedding Styling see p 71NottinghamshireTel: 07789 354780/01158 545894www.butterflylane.co.uk

Fabulous Chair Covers 29 ChapelsideChapel Street,SpondonDerbyDE21 7JQTel: 07967 231369Tel: 07725 674557www.fabulous-chaircovers.co.uk

Marlows Events 64, Ernest RoadCarltonNottinghamNG4 1LZTel: 01159 877210www.marlowsonestopweddingshop.co.ukwww.marlowsevents.co.uk

DISCOS

Magical Nights15 Nottingham RoadSpondon,Derbyshire DE21 7NFTel: 01332 668978 or 07973 371765www.MagicalNights.co.uk

Spreadeagled DiscoTatenhillStaffordshireDE13 9SHTel: 07980 555508

EXHIBITIONS & FAYRES

Exhibition Diary see p 111 - 112

Staffordshire Wedding Shows see p 109

Tied The Bow Wedding Shows see p 106

UK Wedding Shows see p 108

White Media Wedding Fayres see Inside Back Cover

FLORISTS

The Flower Boutique see p 91343 Carlton HillCarltonNottingham, NG4 1JETel: 01159 877152www.theflowerboutiquenottingham.co.uk

JK Floral Designs see p 91MapperleyNottinghamshireNG5 4EDTel: 07890 094710www.jkfloraldesigns.com

GIFTS REGISTRY/WEDDING GIFTS

Bennetts Wedding List8 IrongateDerbyDE1 3ALTel: 01332 344261 www.bennettsirongate.co.uk

Butterfly Lane Gift List see p 71NottinghamshireTel: 01158 545894 or 07789 354780www.butterflylane.co.uk

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HEN & STAG PARTIES

Bistro Live Music Restaurant see p 1012 Barker Gate,Lace Market,Nottingham,NG1 1JSTel: 0115 9473666 www.bistrolive.com

I Need Pampering see p 76129 -131 Ducie House, Ducie Street, Manchester, M1 2JWTel: 0845 190 1895www.ineedpampering.com

HONEYMOONS/HOLIDAYS

Travel Bureau69 High StreetGosforthNewcastle upon TyneNE3 4ATTel: 0191 2859321 www.travelbureaugosforth.com

Travelounge see p 859 Derby Road,BorrowashDerbyshireDE72 3JWTel: 01332 677000www.travelounge.co.uk

HOTEL ACCOMMODATION


Holiday Inn Derby – Riverlights see back coverMorledge, Derby DE1 2AYTel: 01332 412644www.holidayinn.com

JEWELLERY

Stuart Thexton Jewelley see p 66 and 6719-21 Exchange ArcadeNottingham NG1 2DDTel: 01159 881821www.stuart-thexton.com

MOTHERS OUTFITS

Shade Bridal and Occasion Wear see p 25Suite 2b,100 Melton Road,West Bridgeford,Nottingham. NG2 6EPTel: 01159 822820www.shade-apparel.co.uk

MENSWEAR

Formal Affair see p 3967, Maid Marion Way,Nottingham,NG1 6AJTel: 01159 598254www.formalaffair.co.uk

Formal Affair see p 3937, Holywell StreetChesterfield,DerbyshireS41 7SHTel: 01246 559511www.formalaffair.co.uk

Formal Affair see p 3912-14 Percy Street, HanleyStoke on TrentST 1 1NETel: 01782 212848www.formalaffair.co.uk

Formal Affair see p 39Tame Park, Off Ninian Way,WilnecoteTamworthB77 5DYTel: 01827 261177www.formalaffair.co.uk

MUSIC, MAGICIANS AND ENTERTAINMENT

Danny Jewell Magic see p 99DerbyshireSK23 9TATel: 07882 [email protected]

Matt JohnsonPO Box 210DeesideCH5 9DJTel: 01244 535803www.ukweddingsinger.com



Step Together Dance see p 96AshbourneDerbyshireDE5 4NLTel: 07814 231913

Tom Wardle see p 97NottinghamshireTel: 0772 5819693www.tomwardle.co.uk

PHOTOGRAPHERS

Briscoe Photography see p 53StaffordshireTel: 07732 875315www.briscoephotography.co.uk

Jakt Photography see p 49Friargate StudiosFord Street, DerbyDE1 1EETel: 01332 258365 or 07811 144016www.jaktphotography.co.uk

Leading Imagery Photography see p 49173 High StreetClaycross, DerbyshireS45 9DZTel: 01246 250014www.leadingimagery.com

Lucabella PhotographyHigh StreetCastle DoningtonDerbyshire DE74 2PPTel: 07947 789566www.lucabellaphotography.com

Mirror Imaging Photography see p 57NottinghamshireTel: 07968 159465www.mirrorimaging.co.uk

Oehlers Photography see p 53ChilwellNottinghamshireNG9 6NETel: 01159 736598 or 07817 657041www.oehlersphotography.co.uk

Philip Gordan PhotographyTatenhillStaffordshireDE13 9SHTel: 07980 555508

Saffron Moon PhotographyUnit C, 69-73 Lower Parliament Street, Nottingham NG1 3BBTel: 0115 988 1816 www.saffronmoon.co.uk

Simon Miller Photography see p 57BestwoodNottinghamNG6 8YUTel: 07986 408024www.simonmillerphotography.com

Steve and Sarah Mills Photography see p 53Carlton,NottinghamshireNG4 1QUTel: 01159 611048www.millsphotography.co.uk

Vintage Image Photography see p 61NottinghamshireTel: 07854 833758www.vintageimagephotography.co.uk

RECEPTION VENUES


Holiday Inn Derby – Riverlights see back coverMorledge DerbyDE1 2AYTel: 01332 412644www.holidayinn.com

Parklands Celebrations see p 1Loughborough RoadRuddingtonNottinghamNG11 6LQTel: 0115 9144407www.parklandsweddings.co.uk

The Carriage Hall see inside front cover and p 45Station RoadPlumtreeNottinghamNG12 5NATel: 01159 375300www.perkins-family.co.uk



Uttoxeter Racecourse see p 47Wood LaneUttoxeterStaffordshireST14 8BDTel: 01889 562561www.uttoxeter-racecourse.co.uk

SHOES

Pure & Precious Bridal Shoes see p 2920 Midland Road, Thrapston, Northants NN14 4JRTel: 01832 735181www.shoesforweddings.com

VIDEOGRAPHY

Ian Dearman Media see p 6111 Green CloseBlidworth MansfieldNottinghamshireNG21 0UDTel: 07841 335284www.iandearman.co.uk

LightfilmsThe Lightfilms Group76 Station RoadChellestonDerbyDE73 5SUTel: 0845 3048646www.lightfilms.co.uk

WEBSITES/APPS

The Wedding Guide Tel: 01332 544369 07515 [email protected]

Wedding UK APP see p 101Oakfield House, 31 Main St, East Kilbride, G74 4JUTel: 0844 504 3701www.myweddingapp.co.uk

WEDDINGS ABROAD

Travel Bureau69 High StreetGosforthNewcastle upon TyneNE3 4ATTel: 0191 2859321 www.travelbureaugosforth.com

Travelounge see p 859 Derby Road,BorrowashDerbyshireDE72 3JWTel: 01332 677000www.travelounge.co.uk

WEDDING PLANNERS

Gemini Event Solutions see p 77StaffordshireTel: 07504713221www.geminieventsolutions.co.uk


Have a price in mind.Before you start visiting bridal boutiques, have arealistic budget in mind. Many brides often findthemselves spending far more than they hadoriginally intended to! A good starting point tothink about would be an amount that is around10% of the overall wedding budget.

Cut and paste.Before you arrange an appointment to try dresseson, you need to start with the basics. Cut outimages of dresses you like the look of from bridaland fashion magazines. You can also mix andmatch tops and skirts from a variety of images atthis stage to start building up a picture of whatyou can see yourself wearing for your wedding.This collection of images will provide a greatstarting point for any consultations you arrangewith your local suppliers.

Create a moodboard.Use the images you have selected so far as astarting point, and add in any pictures of cakes,flowers, accessories, table decorations and otherfinishing touches as this will really help definethe overall theme for your day. You will also needto consider your venue as this may also have abearing on the dress you decide on.

What style will work for you?Are you a contemporary, glamourous, traditional orretro bride? When you understand what lookworks best for you, it is easier for bridal stylists tohelp find the perfect dress for you. It is vitallyimportant to choose a style that you are

comfortable in, and also one that suits your figure.Have a look at our style guide to find the perfectstyle for your figure. Trust your instincts, but do letthe professionals guide you if necessary!

Many shades of white.When it comes to choosing your wedding dress,you will find that the traditional white can comein many different shades! Speak to the shopassistants as they will help you choose the perfecttone for your skin. Pure white looks amazing onbrides with an olive skin tone or choose an ivoryshade to complement the classic English rose skintones.

‘The One’.You will know when you have found the perfectdress to compliment the wedding of your dreams,and when you have found it, stop searching!perfection is impossible to beat! ♥

FindingThe One

Follow our step-by-step guide to findingyour dream wedding dress.

Important questions to ask whenbuying your dress:Can the style I have chosen be made tomeasure?Can I make any alterations to the style if Iwant to change the length of the train orstyle of sleeves for example?What is included in the price? Will I have topay extra for any alterations? How many fittings will I need to arrange?How far in advance do I need to order mychosen dress?How long will my dress take to arrive?



Throughdecades

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If this is your second time as abride, it may present you with theperfect opportunity to break awayfrom traditional wedding customs.

There is often a very real sense of freedom for abride and groom to be as creative as they want intheir planning in order to celebrate their weddingin a unique and personal way.

Your wedding outfit.There are a number of different possibilities tochoose from when it comes to deciding on youroutfit for your second wedding. It may be theopportunity to wear the fabulous fairytalewedding dress that you just couldn't afford firsttime around, or you might decide to opt for astunning white dinner suit. You could wear almostanything you like, but make sure you arecomfortable in your final choice as you will bewearing it for a long time! There are a number ofspecialist shops which could offer you a range ofspectacular outfits, or take advantage of thepersonal shoppers offered by a number ofdesigner and department stores.

Your wedding ceremony.If you are divorced from your previous husbandand would like a Church of England weddingservice, you need to contact your local parish. Insome circumstances a divorced person may notbe allowed to remarry in a church so you maydecide to choose to have your wedding in alicensed venue instead.

Your venue..There are all sorts of unusual venues where youmay decide to hold your wedding, includingtaking advantage of the opportunity to getmarried on the London Eye! You might decide touse your favourite restaurant to host yourreception, or there might be a different placewhich holds a special meaning for you which youwould like to share with your guests.

Very often, with a second wedding, anything goes!Remember to take the time to unleash yourcreative side and let your imagination run wild!




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Do you want to be stylish yet different onyour wedding day? Then why not visit aCouture Bridal Dress Designer who willdesign a gown exclusively for you. Thepossibilities are endless and whateveryour fashion taste and personal style, aCouture wedding dress will enable you tochoose a design that will match your tasteand personality.

A Couture wedding dress will be made from thefinest fabrics, sewn with great craftsmanship andwith extreme attention to detail. The first step inthe Couture process will be to book anappointment for an initial consultation. This willallow you to share your dreams with the designer.Bring to the consultation all your ideas —photographs, magazines, or simply a verbaldescription of what you envision. Together youwill explore various options, including necklines,skirt shapes and fabrics. The designer will thenwork their magic, translating your ideas into arough sketch.

Once the sketch has been approved and yourmeasurements taken, the proper work begins.The sketch becomes the pattern for the calicotoile garment which is made out of a roughcotton fabric. The toile can be cut and pinnedallowing all the fitting problems to be ironed outand your personal blueprint emerges. The workdone at this stage reaps many benefits later on,reducing the number of alterations done on theactual fabric.Once work on the fabric begins you can expect anumber of fittings as the garment evolves. You

will be asked at this point to wear your bridallingerie to ensure the fit is just right. Beautifullinings make sure it feels as good as it looks. Andall the little details which make it uniquely yours– embroidery or beading, are gradually added.

Remember, when you come to the hem fittingyou will need to wear the shoes that you will bewearing on the day. It is also a good idea to takealong your tiara and jewellery so you get to seethe complete look.

Following your final fitting, your truly uniquegown will be pressed for collection – this is thelast step in the wonderful Couture process beforeyou wow your guests, leaving everyonespellbound on your special day! ♥

What is

Attention to detail with a couture dress

Couture?



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The magic continues with dresses in mini-bridalsizes designed for our youngest princesses.

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Whether you have two or twenty bridesmaids,their look is an important part of the day andchoosing the right dresses will help you all to feelfabulous and ooze confidence.

Know your styleIt may seem obvious, but you should always findyour dress before you even start thinking aboutyour bridesmaids. Once you know the style of yourdress and the theme of your wedding, it is mucheasier to start getting ideas of how you want yourbridesmaids to look and be confident that theirlook will fit in on the day.

Know your crowdAsk yourself this: Are my bridesmaids similar toeach other? What would they be mostcomfortable in? You must also consider size, age,shape, style and their colouring. You want to

flatter your bridesmaids and keep them happy onthe day. It is important to not give them free reignbut to let them know that they do have someinput into what they will be wearing. If you haveyoung bridesmaids make sure that they will becomfortable in what you have chosen for them asa wedding can be a tiring day for the little ones.

Fabulous fabricAnother important aspect of the bridesmaids’dresses is choosing the right sort of fabric for thetime of year. If you are having a summer wedding,try and opt for dresses made from lighter fabricssuch as silk georgette or crepe. If your wedding istaking place in the winter, bridesmaids canexperiment with layering and fabrics such assatin, organza and taffeta.

Accessorise!Don’t leave the accessories as an after thought, asthese will either make or break the look. Makesure you have enough time to get the right styleof headdress, shoes, earrings, necklaces etc to suiteach bridesmaid. ♥

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But what better excuse is there forbuying a fabulous new outfit? Before youstart looking for your outfit, take sometime to discuss with the bride suitablecolour schemes. You are part of thebridal party and it can be nice for thephotographs if you all tone in with thegeneral colour theme of the day.

The choice of styles for mothers isvery varied - you may decide on thesubtle sophistication of a smarttailored suit or the sheer elegance ofa soft flowing dress.

Hats, shoes and handbags shouldall be chosen to complement youroutfit, and work in harmony with it,along with any jewellery you chooseto wear.

There are a wide range ofboutique shops which specialise indressing the mother of the brideso it is well worth visiting them asthey will provide invaluable helpand advice. ♥

wants to look fabulous too!As the mother of the bride or bridegroom, youhave a long and exciting day ahead of you.Whilst the bride is the centre of attention, therole of the Mums is very important too and alleyes will be on you as well – just look at thepress coverage Kate Middleton’s Mum got!



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Remember,it is better to wearthe style that suits yourather than what you

think others expect you to wear, as you will feel far more comfortable and relaxed onthe day



UniqueFootwearThe obvious choices are usuallypretty courts or sky-high heels, so why not try something a bit different...

Weddington Boots – Catherine: Getting married on a farm? We havefound some unique wedding wellies

to keep you mud free in unpredictableweather! £49.99. Available at

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Canvas Shoes: Why not go for a rock chick look with these Converseinspired canvas lace-ups. Youcould also add a personal touchwith some self embellishment. Available soon. Primark

Lola: Go ultra vintage with these beautifulribbon tie shoes. These would look greatwith a 20s inspired gown. £150. Availableat www.rachelsimpsonshoes.co.uk



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4 months to goFind a skincare regime you can do at home – Fourmonths before is a great time to start to clear upany skin problems and begin a new beautyroutine. This would be a great time to seek advicefrom beauty experts to see which products suityou best.

3 months to goChoose a reputable hairdresser – If you areconsidering changing the colour of your hair, nowis the time to do it. This gives you the chance toeither get used to the colour and if you don’t likeit you have time to go back to your previouscolour.

This is also the time to start deciding on styles.With so many to choose from choosing the rightstyle is crucial. A top tip would be to go to thehairdresser wearing a top similar to the style ofyour dress (you can do this simply bymanipulating a top you already have or buyingone to chop and change). This will help youvisualise your hair as it will be when you arewearing your dress.You may already have a good idea of how youwant your hair to look, but remember how it willlook on your photos too, as this will be somethingyou will look at forever.

2 months to goFind a beautician – This is also the best time tobook a course of facials. Facials will help to deepcleanse your skin and give you that little bit ofextra confidence.

This is also a great time to test your fake tanand trial your makeup. A test run tan will enableyou to see how the tan develops and if you arehappy with the colour. You can also adapt yourmakeup to suit your newly tanned skin tone. It isa good idea to take a camera along and takepictures of your desired look so that it can beexactly recreated on the day.

1 month to goNow that everything is booked, start to relax –Get plenty of sleep on the weeks leading up toyour wedding as well as cutting down on alcoholand drinking plenty of water. This will give you anextra boost on the day and ensure that your skinis beautiful and glowing. ♥

Other than the dress, bridal hair and makeup isone of the most important things to get righton your big day. You want to look the best youpossibly can and the right hair style andmakeup finishes the fabulous look and trulymakes you feel amazing. Book your makeupartist and hairdresser early (at least 6 monthsbefore) to make sure they have your date free.

Here’s a guide to make sure you look and feel amillion dollars on the day.

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1. Take The Day Off Cleansing Milk – This residuefree formula will gently melt away any after henparty make up and leave your skin soft andcomfortable, ready for your big day. £17.50 www.clinique.co.uk

2. Turn Around Body Smoothing Cream’s fabformula will leave your skin beautifully hydratedand luminously revived. £25 www.clinique.co.uk

3. This Works Deep Sleep Pillow Spray – Toensure you get a full 40 winks before thebig day, spray a little pillow spray ontoyour pillow just before bed. You’ll wakeup fresh and energised for theexcitement ahead. £15 for 75mlavailable at www.asos.com

4. Figs & Rouge Pomegranate 100%Organic Balm provides light, non-greasymoisture to the face, lips and body in agreat compact tin. £5 available atwww.asos.com

5. This Works Award Winning – Features three oftheir fab products to hydrate, tone and beautify your skin ready for the day ahead. £29 available at www.asos.com

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DIYLook perfectly polished onyour Wedding day with someof these great products.

1. Lipstick/Blusher/Lipliner – NARSLove Thrill Set – This fab set containsblusher, lipstick and lip liner in somegorgeous subtle pink shades. A bitpricey at £45, so why not get it as acheeky gift! Available at ASOS.www.asos.co.uk

2. Foundation – CliniqueSuperbalanced Make Up – Thisliquid formula foundationgives just the right amount ofmoisture and absorbs excessoil where needed, whichmakes it perfect for all skintypes. Plus its long-wearingnature will keep you lookingflawless throughout yourspecial day. £21.50www.clinique.co.uk or HighStreet Department stores.

3. Concealer – YvesSaintLau-rent – Touche Éclat – Try theUK’s no1 beauty product forfool-proof concealing. £25Debenhams.

4. Highlighter – Benefit HighBeam – Dot on some of thisfab formula to your cheekand brow bones or combinewith your foundation for anall over gorgeous glow.£18.50 www.benefitcos-metics.co.uk or HighStreet Department stores.

5. Brows – Clinique Superfine Liner forBrows – The finest tip carefully fillsin the smallest gaps for naturaldefinition and long wear. £12www.clinique.co.uk or High StreetDepartment stores.

6. Mascara – The Body Shop – Big &Curvy Waterproof Mascara –Volumising, tearproof, waterproof &smudgeproof – it’s wedding-proof!£10 The Body Shop.

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Jobs for the boys6 - 12 Months Beforeq Decide on a budget, and how you are going to

divide your financial obligationsq Make appointment with clergyman/registrarsq Choose your best man and ushersq Plan your honeymoon (check passports, visas,

insurance etc)q Reserve cars or arrange other transportation for

members of the wedding party

3 - 6 Months Beforeq Select formalwearq Make reservations for honeymoonq Check immunisations are up to dateq Arrange with your fianceé to give Notice of

Marriage

2 Monthsq Buy wedding ringsq Select gifts for your bride and attendantsq Check all legal, medical and church documentsq Confirm honeymoon details and reservationsq Order foreign currency/travellers chequesq Plan stag night

1 Monthq Start preparing your speech

2 Weeksq Book haircut

1 Weekq Confirm time and place of wedding rehearsal

with attendantsq Give final wedding guest count to caterersq Pick up wedding ringsq Any fees payable on the day should be given to

the best man to deal withq Pack for honeymoon

There are a number of ways youcan help your bride in the runup to your wedding, especiallywith some of the planning. Usethis timetable to see what youcould be doing, and when!



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Charcoal Slim Fit Suit: Look sharp andsophisticated in Charcoal. £110. Next

Morning Suit: Or why not keep totradition with an oh so stylishMorning Suit. From £99. Austin Reed



ReligiousChurch of England A Church wedding stillproves to be a popular choice amongst couples,with a third of all weddings in England takingplace in Church, and three quarters of this takingplace within the Church of England. As well asyour local church, you can choose any churchoutside your parish that either you, your parents,or your grandparents have a connection with. Youcan also establish a new connection if you attendregularly over a six month period well before thebanns are published. Instead of going to theSuperintendent Registrar before the ceremony,banns (a notice of the proposed marriage) can beread in the parish church of both of the partnersor in the church where it has been agreed themarriage can take place. Banns must be read onthree Sundays before the ceremony.www.churchofengland.org

Roman Catholic Arrangements for a weddingin a Catholic Church are always made through thepriest in the parish in which you are living. Threemonths notice must be given to the priest. Bothyou and your groom must be free to marry,and one of you must have been baptised aCatholic in order to marry in aCatholic church. You will

also need to visit yourlocal superintendentregistrar at your localcouncil office to givenotice of your intentionto marry, and obtainyour licence.www.catholicchurch.org.uk

Jewish Weddings Jewish weddings fulfil botha religious and civil purpose, but you will stillneed two applications - one for your local registeroffice and one for the religious authority underwhich the ceremony will take place. Marriages cantake place in any synagogue, private house orother place as long as you and your partner areJewish and the ceremony is held under theauspices of a synagogue. The marriage must beregistered by the Secretary of the husband’ssynagogue. www.jmc-uk.org

Other Denominations In all other religions,religious marriage ceremonies can take place butyou must first give notice to the SuperintendentRegistrar, at your local Register Office. They willknow whether the building in which the ceremony

is to take place hasbeen registered.

Civil ceremonies can take place at anyapproved venue, which can include hotels,stately homes and castles!


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If the building has not been registered, you canstill have a religious ceremony, but you will alsoneed to have a separate civil ceremony for themarriage to be valid under United Kingdom Law.If the building is registered, an authorised personmust be present at the ceremony to register themarriage. They will give you a marriage certificateon receipt of the fee. If there is no authorisedperson, the attendance of a Registrar is necessaryand this should be arranged with theSuperintendent Registrar.www.adviceguide.org.uk

CivilRegister Office In order to marry in a registeroffice, both you and your fiancé must give noticein person to the superintendent registrar at yourlocal council office. They will then issue you witha certificate of common notice. You will need thiscertificate to make a booking with the registeroffice to get the date you want. Weddings can bebooked no more than 12 months in advance, orwith no less than 17 days before the event.

Approved Premises Civil ceremonies can takeplace at any venue that has been approved for thepurpose. The venue must be regularly open to thepublic, and open-air premises will usually need apermanently built structure in order to beapproved. Visit www.direct.gov.uk to search for anapproved premise in the area you wish to marry.You will need to give notice of your intention tomarry to your local superintendent registrar, and

contact the local register office closest to thevenue you have chosen to book a registrar toconduct the ceremony.www.direct.gov.uk

OverseasOverseas WeddingsWeddings abroad are recognised as legal as longas they do not contravene UK laws. You shouldcontact the country's embassy or consulate foradvice to make sure you have the right documentsand find out when you will need to provide them.A number of countries require a minimumresidency period of between one and seven daysbefore you are free to marry there. It can often beeasier to have a civil ceremony in the UK followedby a blessing abroad due to the complicationssometimes involved in marrying in a differentcountry . www.fco.gov.uk

Legal Advice• You and your fiancé must both be at least

16 years of age. (In England and Wales, ifeither of you is under 18 you will need tohave permission from your parents orguardian).

• You must both be eligible to marry.• You must not be closely related.• The marriage must take place in legally

approved premises.• The marriage must take place in front of

an authorised person.• The ceremony must take place between

8am and 6pm.• Two witnesses must be present.

www.adviceguide.org.uk




There are likely to be two parts to your weddingto organise, the wedding ceremony and thewedding reception. You may have your heart seton a traditional Church ceremony which is still afavourite choice for couples. If this is the casethen the reception should be planned around theChurch location. You will need to consider ease oftransport for yourguests from theceremony to thereception venue. Thesecond option is a civilwedding where yourceremony andreception will be held at a licensed venue. When you have decided on a Church or Civil

Ceremony there are certain factors to consider.Firstly, the venue must look and feel right to you.You may have a particular style of venue in mindfor example, a Castle, a Manor House orsomewhere dramatic or chic. The choices are

endlessand whereyou choosewill help you todictate the styleand theme of your wedding.The venue must be able to accommodate the

number of guests youare inviting so youshould have a good ideaof numbers before youstart looking around.

Importantly the cost ofthe venue must suit your

budget. Castles, country houses and stately homesare among the locations many dream of for theirbig day but consider your budget carefully.

Properly planned, your wedding reception willbecome one of the most joyous parties you willever host, so remember to savour every minuteand enjoy it! ♥

Choosing yourreception venue

Properly planned, yourreception will become oneof the most joyous partiesyou will ever host

You may already have a dream wedding locationin mind or you may be starting with a blankpage. Either way, choosing your weddingvenue is one of the first and most importantdecisions you will make.

Thechoices areendless and whereyou choose to holdyour weddingreception will help youto dictate the styleand theme of thewhole day


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It’s traditional!There are a number of different weddingtraditions have been kept alive throughgenerations which are more focussed onthe wedding ceremony and reception.These traditions are thought to bringhappiness and good luck to the bride andgroom and their future life together.

Confetti Throwing confetti is thought to havedescended from ancient times, when guestswould throw grain over the newlyweds topromote fertility. These days confetti has evolvedinto coloured paper shapes bought to match thewedding theme. However, an increasing number ofvenues are deciding to ban confetti as it makestoo much mess. Blowing bubbles or laying downrose petals are environmentally friendly welcomealternatives.

The Cake The wedding cake was traditionallymade up of lots of little wheat cakes that werebroken over the brides head in order to bestowgood luck and fertility. The popular three-tier cakethat we tend to see now actually takes it'sunusual shape from the spire of Saint Bride'sChurch in London. The bride and groom shouldmake the first cut to signify sharing the rest oftheir life together. To ensure good luck follows thebride and groom throughout their life, every guestshould eat at least a crumb of the cake. If a singlewoman sleeps with a piece of wedding cake underher pillow, tradition suggests that she will dreamof her future groom that night.

Omens of good luck Walking was traditionallyseen as the best way of getting to the Church ontime, and there was also the possiblity that thebride would have more chance of spotting a luckyomen, or having the sun shine on her. Somecultures believe that rainbows, spiders, black cats,lambs and toads are thought to bring good luck ifthey are seen on the way to the wedding. Anotherpopular good luck omen is seeing a chimneysweep after the ceremony. This has become such apopular tradition, that it is possible to hire achimney sweep to attend your wedding.

When you return home for the first time ashusband and wife, tradition dictates that a newwife must enter her home through the front door,without tripping or falling, to ward off bad luck.This is why it has become customary for thegroom to carry his bride over the threshold.

The Bouquet Traditionally, the bride throws herbouquet backwards over her head and whoevercatches it is the next to get married. Similarly, insome countries the groom removes the bridesgarter and throws it over his head to the singlemales. Again the one who catches it is the next tomarry.

Buttonholes In Medieval times a Knight wouldwear his lady's colours as a symbol of his love.This has evolved to the present tradition of agroom wearing a flower that matches his bride'sbouquet to declare his love and represent unity. ♥




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The Seating PlanThere are many different factors toconsider when it comes to the seatingplan, including whether or not you wantto assign seating in the first place.

When it comes to assigned seating, there are lotsof options to consider. Here are our top tips:

• Traditionally, the bride and groom sit at a longtop table with their parents, the chiefbridesmaid and the best man. However, manycouples are now opting for a round table, oreven a ‘sweetheart’ table for two. The weddingparty table should be placed where the brideand groom can see, and be seen by, as manyguests as possible.

• If parents are divorced, sit them close to theirnew partners, or ask them to host their owntables.

• You might want to put people next to othersthey know, or you might want to split them upa bit so that they meet new people. Generally,you should try and put families and work

colleagues together. However, if you knowthere are going to people attending who donot get on, then it is worth breaking withtradition to have a stress-free day.

• In order to keep a lively atmosphere throughout your weddingbreakfast, try to keep to an equal mix of bothsexes on each table.

• Avoid mixing age groups too much. Youngchildren should be seated with their parents.Older children should be seated either withtheir parents, or at a separate children’s table.

• Resist the temptation to have a 'leftovers' tableof all the people who didn't fit on the othertables. They will be aware of this and it couldmake them quite uncomfortable during thereception.

• Try to place pregnant, elderly and disabledguests and guests with small children wherethey have easy access to toilet facilities, or canescape if they need to (especially if a child hasstarted crying just as the speeches are aboutto start!)

• It might be worth showing a draft of yourseating plan to a few key members of thewedding party, so they can help you with anytricky decisions you may have to make.



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WeddingsJAYNE & STEVE

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This wedding is very important to me (Jayne CookPublisher of The Wedding Guide) as it is mybrother Steve’s wedding to my new sister in LawJayne. It was a real pleasure to be on hand tohelp with advice, choosing wedding suppliers andto be part of their fantastic day. I spend all yearmeeting Brides and Grooms at Wedding fayresand speaking to wedding specialist and don’tactually get to go to any weddings.

Jayne and Steve were married on 31st March2012 at The Queens Restaurant in Freehay,Staffordshire. They meet through mutual friendsas their local pub!

So, here is Jayne to tell you more about thisspecial wedding, the planning and the day:“Steve proposed to me over a meal in a localrestaurant, 8 months before we got married, sowe did not have too long to plan our special day!We choose a church wedding at my local villagechurch, which held fond memories for my family.Our reception was held at The Queens, which wasthe perfect venue for us, a good friend owns it,

great food and relaxed atmosphere. The colourtheme for the day was Cappuccino and brown. The special moments of the day were being withour friends and family.”

A few final notes from Jayne: “Don’t forget toenjoy the day, every minute, as it goes so quicklyand choose a photographer wisely as they areyour memories forever.”


SuppliersDress: Bridal Lounge, Newcastle

Bridesmaids: Bridal Lounge, NewcastleMenswear: Ascot, Newcastle

Hair: Steve Boulton Hair SpecialistFlowers: Forget Me Know, CheadleCake: Cake Station, Blythe Bridge

Invitations: Ross InvitesTiara: Bridal Lounge, Newcastle

Photographer: Brisco Photography, StaffordshireRings: Stuart Thexton Jewellery, Nottingham


Choosing the right weddingphotographer can seem daunting.There are a few key things to look outfor that will help you make the rightchoice. You need to feel personallycomfortable with your weddingphotographer – they’ll be capturingyour emotions and working closelywith your family and friends on yourspecial day.Some wedding photographers favour atraditional approach with others offering morecontemporary images. Some photographerswill be able to provide you with a combinationof styles. Make sure you see examples of theirrelevant work to get a good feel whether theyare the right choice for you.

It’s important that you understand exactly what you’ll begetting from your photographer. Although many now offerstraight-forward packages do not be afraid to clarifyexactly what your photographer will do on the day itselfand provide you with after the event. Do check you knowwhat’s included in the price and what will cost extra.

It’s worth arranging your photographer early in yourplanning as good photographers often get booked well inadvance.To form an idea of the types of photographs you want

captured take a look at as many examples as you can.Discuss this with your photographer and any friends whohave recently got married.Often friends or relatives who are keen amateurs offertheir services for free. Whilst it may be tempting totake them up for reasons of politeness or economy,you do not want to take risks with your preciousphotographs! If you want to guarantee highquality wedding photographs then you’reprobably best to leave the task to theprofessionals. To avoid causing offence to Uncle Bob,maybe you could offer him the important role of capturingcandid images of the guests through the day? ♥

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WeddingsCLAIRE & DARREN

Photography by www.millsphotography.co.uk



Claire and Darren were married on 21stSeptember 2011 at Stubton Hall Nr Newark.They met through a mutual friend and have beeninseparable ever since. Here is Claire to tell youmore about their planning and special day:

“The proposal was very romantic, we werestaying overnight at Harts Hotel in Nottinghamand Darren had secretly organized a Caricaturistto be there, we had our picture drawn and whenhe turned it around for us to look at it was ofDarren kneeling down on one knee with ‘Will youmarry me’ written on it, I thought it was a jokeuntil Darren actually got down on one knee andgave me a heart shaped diamond ring and askedme to marry him, of course I said yes. It took usexactly one year to the day to plan our weddingand we choose to get married and have ourReception at Stubton Hall near Newark. Therewere many reasons for the choice, exclusivity,separate ceremony and reception rooms,accommodation for overnight guests and ofcourse the WOW factor which Stubton Hall hasbags of. The theme of the day was classic andelegant, white and green. What I remember mostabout the day, was the moment I was told it wastime to go, my heart was beating so fast, I wasjust so excited to be marring the man of mydreams. Our honeymoon was fantastic a trip of a

life time in America, we visited San Francisco, LasVegas, Niagara Falls and finally New York City.”A few final notes from Claire: “Make sure you havea good skin regime at least 6-9 months beforethe big day and also ensure you order yourbridesmaids dresses early as they can take up to16 weeks to arrive.”

SuppliersDress: Francesca, Stoke-on-Trent

Bdress: Choola, SheffieldMenswear: William Hunt, Savile Row, London

Flowers: Chilli Petals, TuxfordCake: Beth Rushton, Rushtons in Newark

Invitations: Figtree, QuarndonPhotographer: Steve & Sarah Mills

Photography, NottinghamTransport: American Pie, South Yorkshire

Wedding Rings: Marlows, Jewellery Quarter,Birmingham



...the Photographer?q Can I see examples of your work?q Do you use digital cameras or shoot on film?q What style of photography do you specialise in?q How many pictures will you take?q Will you visit the venue before the day?q How long will you stay for?q Should I pay for meals and travel expenses?q Who will edit the photographs?q Will you retain the copyright of the images?q Is someone available to take your place if you are ill?q When will I receive my photographs?q How can my family and friends view and order photos?q Can your services be adapted to suit my budget?q Does the cost include any additional charges and VAT?

Rule #1:Don’t beafraid toask!

What questionsshould I be asking...



WeddingsZOE & ANTHONY

Photography by www.mirrorimaging.co.uk



Zoe and Anthony were married in 22 October2011 at The Carriage Hall In Plumtree. They metat school 14 years ago, childhood sweethearts.Here is Zoe to tell you more about her fabulouswedding planning and day:“We sort of fell into getting married after 14 yearstogether and a 3 year old, we just decided it wasthe right time! We took 18 months to plan theday, which was exactly 15 years to the day whichwe met!”

“We choose a church wedding at the localvillage church were we both grow up, which heldfond memories for Anthony’s parents who werealso married there. Our reception was held atThe Carriage Hall, which was the perfect location,style, lighting and space we were looking for. Thecolour theme we chose was rust and mink with asplash of spots and a hint of tweed, greatAutumnal colours for our October Wedding.A family friend conducted the Wedding Ceremony,it was perfect and one of our favorite moments ofthe day, along with the speeches and just seeingeveryone mingling and enjoying themselves.”A few final notes from Zoe: “Take a few minutesduring the day for each other or you will get tomidnight and realize you have barley spoken all

day. I had my hair and makeup on the morning,which was fantastic just to sit and be pampered –much needed relaxation for the day ahead!”

SuppliersDress: Bespoke from Caroline Chamberlain

Bridal Couture Bridesmaids Dress: Monsoon

Menswear: Vintage Whistles - Now Tweedmans Vintage

Hair: Melanie Rhodes Makeup: Susan at Pretty Flamingo

Flowers: The Arbour Lincoln Cake: Bailey’s The Butchers at Upper Broughton

(Pork Pie!!) Invitations: Spotty N Stripy

Tiara: Tweed Headpiece, bespoke by Beetlebum by Design

Photographer: Mirror ImagingWedding Rings: Bespoke – Excel Jewellery,

Nottingham



Wedding videos and DVD productions arean excellent way of capturing your specialday. Many couples will rank weddingvideography much lower on their liststhan other wedding day essentials -however, failing to find the cash to fundone may be a decision you regret later.

Modern wedding videos have moved on frombeing basic documentaries of weddings. Cameras,production software and the creativity of

videographers are continually improving meaningyou now have many more options when it comesto capturing your wedding day. Video guestbook kiosks or booths are becoming

more and more popular too, as guests can takepictures and record individual messages to fullycapture the ambience of the day in a fun andunique way.

So if you want to make sure the sights andsounds of your wedding day are just how youremembered, get it captured on video... . ♥

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WeddingsMARTIN & VICKY

Photography by www.vintageimagephotography.co.uk


Vicky and Martin were married on 21st October2011 at Sutton Bonnington Hall. They meet on ablind date which had been set up by friends.Here is Vicky to tell you more about her fantasticwedding and the planning, which went into it:“The proposal took place in Las Vegas where wewere on holiday for Martin’s 30th Birthday, wherehe went down on one knee and proposed with afabulous ring, in our hotel room, of course I saidyes. It took 18 months to plan the wedding whichtook place at Sutton Bonnington Hall , we heldthe ceremony and reception there.”

“The were many reasons we choose SuttonBonnington, it felt very personal, the conservatorywas very light for a Autumn wedding, thefantastic team and of course the beauty of thegardens around the house for the photographs.The colour theme for the wedding waschampagne and Vegas!”

“A few of my favorite moments of the day were,receiving a beautiful bouquet of flowers from

Martin with a Tiffany Bracelet, wow, and seeingMartin’s face as I walked down the aisle. We wentaway on a Caribbean Cruise for our honeymoon 7weeks after the wedding, which was fab as wehad something else to look forward too!”A final note from Vicky: “The most importantthing is to relax and enjoy your day as there is somuch effort gone into planning the wedding andit was a reflection of our personalities.”

SuppliersDress: Ian Stuart at Margot Raybould

Bridesmaids dress: Beaumont Brides Tamworth Menswear: Moss Bros Leicester

Makeup: Make Up Victoria Kendrick Flowers: Just Flowers

Tiara: Polly Edwards at La Mariee Bridal Photographer: Vintage Image

Wedding Rings: Michael Grundy Jewellers,Leicester



On your birthday, which best describes yourpartners attitude? • Do they forget it? • Ask you what you want? • Give you a surprise?

When things go wrong, which is your partner most likely to do? • Laugh? • Go quiet? • Get upset?

Which word best describes you? • Reserved • Sociable • Assertive

4. Which of you will...• Send Christmas and birthday cards? • Pay bills? • Make arrangements for holidays?

Time for each other Working out how we spend our time togetherleads to surprising results. It can sometimes helpus to sit down and rethink our priorities. Duringlast week - or a recent week - how did you spendthe 168 hours? Make your best estimate for eachitem listed.

• Meals and sleeping, inc. getting ready for bed • Housework, preparing meals and cleaning up • Going to friends or having friends over • Work, training or studying, including travel time • Making time to talk to each other • Reading, television or social activities outside

the house

Now, discuss these questions with your partner: • How much of your activity is for you because

you enjoy it and how much do you do for otherreasons.

• How much time do you spend with otherpeople - enough, too much, far too much?

• Which are the times you are at your best? • Would you want to spend this 'quality time' in

another way? • How will being married make a difference to

your attitude to your work? • Or your attitude to your leisure? • What are your feelings about your partners

work and prospects?

Children What do you think is the ideal number of childrenfor you?

How many children will you be able to afford?

Have you discussed how you will bring up yourchildren?• Who should feed baby? • Bath and dress the baby? • Stay up late when they are ill? • Take them to school?

What sort of discipline should you have? • Strict but fair • Fairly strict • fairly relaxed • Relaxed but in control

Do you see children as: • Time consuming • A financial burden? • Demanding? • Not for me? • Enjoyable? • A big responsibility? • A completion of our family? • Not important? • A sign of our love?

What are your feelings when you think of yourselfas a parent?

Have you discussed when the best times to havechildren are?

Have a go at the following questions. Answer them on your own, and then discuss youranswers with your partner. Try to be as open and specific as possible and concentrate onthe questions that matter the most to both of you.



Your wedding ring is a public symbol of youreverlasting love and commitment to each other,yet many couples will leave buying them untilthe very last minute. Start thinking about yourwedding rings as soon as you start yourplanning as there are a few points to consider.Remember, they will be worn for the rest ofyour lives together.

Choosing the style, metal and colourYour style of wedding ring should reflect yourown personal style; it should also complimentyour engagement ring and can also be chosen tomatch your groom's ring if you wish. Weddingrings come in a variety of metals, colours andstyles. When choosing rings it’s best to go for acolour or style you’re not likely to get bored with,so it’s best not to follow high fashion. Consideryour personality and your engagement ring style –if your engagement ring is classic, vintage,unusual or even bespoke, then your wedding ringwill probably need to match. The Ancient Egyptian belief is that a circular ring was a sign of undying, never ending love, a love without a beginning or an end. Whatever you and your groom choose, it’s nice to have rings thatmatch in some way, either in their metal or pattern.

Choosing your ringsIt’s best to decide on a design at least two tothree months before the big day, although youwill need to allow longer for a bespoke design.This should give you plenty of time for choosing, measuring, sizing and resizing if need be. Agree on your budget and then spendsome time looking at what is available.

Specialist wedding ring makers allow you todesign your own rings and have them made – theultimate in wearing your own individual style. Aspecialist ring designer and maker will be able totranslate your style requirements into a uniquewedding ring or rings just for you. An alternativecould be personalising your rings with anengraving of the date of your wedding or apersonal message.

Make sure it fits!If you are buying your wedding rings from ajewellers then they will measure your fingers in-store to size the rings. If you choose to buy yourrings online, many companies will now send out aring measurer before you place your order so youcan be sure to order the correct size. Whenmeasuring, it’s worth remembering that yourfingers will swell up in the heat, shrink in the coldand get bigger as the day goes on. Most jewellersrecommend measuring in the afternoon when youare warm for a snug fit and then re-measuringagain in the morning when you are cool to ensurethe ring size is perfect. Achieving the correct fit isvital, as nothing else you own will compete withthe number of hours you will wear your wedding ring. ♥

The Circle of Love

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When you visit a potential wedding venue there may be certainaspects that you absolutely love and some that you don’t lovequite so much! If you are concerned about the decor then thereis no need to worry, there are companies that can provideyou with services that can transform a typical functionroom into a breathtaking vision that you and your guestswill never forget.

If you are after a dreamy, romanticatmosphere why not go for swagsof tulle, clusters of white balloonsand twinkling fairy lights. You cancreate a sophisticated, timelesslook by using the same items butadd in sumptuous floralarrangements and candles.

Whatever look you want to create,there will be someone who can createit for you. But be mindful of thecanvas you are working with. If yourvenue is a historic building then youdon’t want to cover beautiful plushwalls with 12 ft banners. So don’tfight against what you have to workwith but consider yoursurroundings carefullyand work with them.

Places you may wish to decorate:• Doorways, entrances and exits (including

the driveway leading to the venue)• Walls and windows• The ceiling (particularly in a marquee)• Lighting on the dance floor• Fireplaces• Door handles and staircases• The Top Table• Guests’ tables & chairs

How to give your reception the

Wow Factor



You should also consider the lighting of the room.Subtle Lighting defines the mood of a space, itcan create warmth, intimacy, romance and style.

Tables at your reception can be brought to lifewith the addition of simple tea lights or tallcandles mixed in with your floral arrangements.Up-lighting around a marquee or room willallow you to take control of the lighting, evenduring the day, transforming the atmosphereof your venue. You could even choose tomatch the colour of the lights to the overallcolour scheme of your day.

Specialist lighting can have a huge impacton your first dance, creating a truly romanticfeel to capture on video. Lighting can alsobe used to create a simple "chill out" areawhere people can relax and unwind awayfrom the disco. For even more ideas, speakto a lighting designer or your weddingplanner.

Be careful not to clutter the venue withtoo much decoration, less is usuallymore! A good venue decorator andlighting specialist will help and guideyou make the right choices to create astunning look so that when your guestsarrive, they think WOW. ♥



Your Wedding Gift Wish List!What a great opportunity tocreate a wish list of all yourmost favourite things!What shall you ask for? Well the gifts you choosewill depend on what stage of your life you are at.If you are a young couple just setting up hometogether for the first time you will need all thebasics: china, pots and pans, bed linen, towels andglassware etc.

For couples getting married in their thirties it ismore likely that you own a home or have livedtogether, so you probably already have most ofthe basic household items. If this is the case youmay wish to consider asking for more luxuriousitems like garden furniture, or state-of-the-artkitchen equipment. You could suggest a group offriends or relatives club together to buy the moreexpensive gifts between them.

Gift List Top Tips• Create your gift list at least three months

before the wedding day to take account oforder and delivery lead times.

• You should allow at least a monthto compile your list, and it’sunlikely that you will choose allyour items in one session.

• Cater for all budgets whenchoosing items for your list. Youdon’t want anyone to feelpressured into buying a gift theycannot afford.

• Include a wide variety of gifts soyour guests have plenty tochoose from.

• Try and think ahead – you maynot be interested in a fancydinner service now but itcould come in useful later on.

• If you choose to compile alist at a large departmentstore, make sure you signup as early as possible.

• Keep a note of all thepeople who bought you agift and what they boughtyou – this will help withyour Thank You notes.

• Consider taking outwedding insurance tocover all your gifts.




The average bride spends 250 hoursplanning her dream wedding, theequivalent of six weeks full time work,trying to put together the most magicaland memorable day of her life. There isreal skill involved in turning that fantasyinto reality and an experienced weddingco-ordinator will be able to help yourealise your dreams, whether on a small orgrand scale, traditional or contemporary,in a city or countryside setting.

A wedding co-ordinator can save you valuabletime searching for the right venue or supplier.They can reduce stress, save you money and helpprovide professional event co-ordination on theday. Some of the key elements of what a weddingco-ordinator can do for you are:

♥ Help you set a realistic budget and stick to it!♥ Help you find a venue and secure the booking;♥ Deal with the suppliers including the florist, caterers, photographers, entertainment etc.;♥ Develop a schedule and work plan and ensure you keep track of progress;♥ Send out invitations for you and collate the

replies;♥ Advise on wedding etiquette and help diffuse

stressful situations, such as dealing with seating plans without offending relatives;

♥ Deal with the hire of any outfits and ensure they are returned on time;

♥ Advise on any new trends, suggesting creative ways to make your wedding unique;

♥ Manage the invoices from suppliers and adviseyou of the final costs;

♥ Negotiate preferential rates with suppliers;♥ Keep you fully informed throughout the whole

process;♥ Supervise the wedding day to ensure

everything runs to the timetable and manage the bridal party and ushers, reminding them of their responsibilities.

An increasingly popular choice for those brideswho have planned their own wedding day is tohire an 'on-the-day' co-ordinator who can takecare of the day behind the scenes. They can helpwith common concerns such as:

♥ What happens on the big day?♥ Do I have to keep my mobile phone close by in

case of an emergency?♥ What do I do if there are any late minute

emergencies, such as the florist hasn't turned up or the venue has been dressed incorrectly?

An 'on-the-day' co-ordinator can solve anyproblems quickly and quietly to ensure everythingruns smoothly in exactly the way you want,leaving you free to enjoy your special day. ♥

Making life easier with a

Wedding Co-ordinator


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...stunning Ice sculptures, a yummy chocolatefountain, a candy buffet or, for a romantic touch, release white doves?

For an alternative to flowers as table centrepieces, why notconsider an ice sculpture? Ice sculptures, crystal clear and handcarved, which may include engraved names and dates, are afantastic and unique way to introduce a real wow at any wedding.

Or why not include a chocolate fountain at your reception? Yourguests are sure to enjoy the indulgence offered as an extra treat.Speak to suppliers about the type of chocolate they use - is it pureBelgian chocolate or is it mixed with oil? Can it be supplied indifferent colours or flavours? What items for dipping are included?

Why not wow your guests with the latest trend in candy buffetsor pick ‘n’ mix display stands. Packed full of delicious sweeties, theynot only add fun and colour to the wedding reception but are awonderful way to take people back to their childhood days and area fantastic talking point.A gorgeous spread of candy will be set up at the reception whereguests can browse and indulge their sweet tooths. The sweets willbe displayed in elegant glass jars and can be used as part of thedessert or set out as a "make your own" party favour table withdecorative bags that guests can take home with them.

For that extra romantic touch, what better way is there tocelebrate your love than releasing white doves? The dove has longbeen a symbol of Freedom, Love, and Peace, and is viewedworldwide as a messenger of serenity. ♥

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Yourdream honeymoonAfter all the planning and preparation thathas gone into your wedding day, yourhoneymoon can provide the perfectopportunity for to relax and enjoy yourfirst days together as husband and wife.

Many of the major travel operators offer luxurybreaks for honeymooners with little extra touchesadded to make your holiday even more perfect. Youcould benefit from a wide range of special offerssuch as airline discounts, upgrades, special suites orrooms, and finishing touches such as a bottle ofchampagne, fruit basket or flowers in the room.

One thing to remember when planning yourhoneymoon or travelling as Mr. and Mrs. is thatthe brides passport will usually still have hermaiden name recorded. You might find it worthtaking your marriage certificate with you to proveyou are newly-weds!

Before booking your honeymoon, consider whatthe season will be at your chosen destination. Asummer wedding is still the most popular choicein the UK but it is worth remembering that manytropical locations often experience heavy rain andhurricanes, and it will be winter in Australia! For afull list of our recommended destinations forwhatever month you are planning your weddingfor, have a look at our website www.thewedding-guideuk.com.

All-inclusive destinations offer great value formoney and can provide complete peace of mindwhen it comes to indulging yourselves as youknow the bill won't hold any surprises. There are anumber of resorts that cater for adults only whichwill really give you the freedom to get away fromit all and relax in a child free environment.

If you are planning your honeymoon on abudget, there are some great choices a littlecloser to home. A long weekend in a European citysuch as Paris or Rome can be a great alternative,or you could plan a tour to visit some of thebreathtaking scenery we have on our own shores.Don't forget that many travel companies offer theopportunity for your guests to buy travel vouchersas a wedding present which can help if thebudget is really restricted!

It used to be the tradition that the Bride andGroom would depart for their honeymoon on theevening of the wedding, but with the advent ofthe evening reception all that has changed. It isnow far more common to spend the day after thewedding with close family and friends and set offfor your honeymoon a day or two later.

Whatever you decide, a little planning will go along way. It is important to relax after all theplanning and organising so make sure you useyour honeymoon to rest, have a fantastic time, andreturn with some amazing memories of the startof your married life together.



The CarIt is important to book your transport about 6 months aheadand visit car companies that are local so that they are familiarwith the route and have a good idea of traffic conditions.Cars usually have white ribbons running along the front but

these can be changed to match the theme of the day if you wish.The price usually includes a complementary bottle ofchampagne; however there may be extras, such as requestedmusic, for an extra charge. You also need to know how many carsyou will need: Which car will take you, which car will take thebridesmaids. As the bridesmaids usually arrive before the bride itis advisable to have separate cars that leave at different times.

The CarriageIf you really want to go for the Wow factor on your wedding day,then a horse drawn carriage is for you. The carriages themselvescan range from the classic Landau to fairytale replicas. Again, it isvery important to visit the carriage company well in advance soyou can view the carriages and decide what you want for the day. You must remember that the horses will have to stand still for

long periods of time and traffic on the road can prove stressfulfor them so choose a reputable company that has goodexperience with horses. Finally, don’t forget that horses movemuch slower than cars, so make sure you leave enough time toget to the church and that the roads are suitable for the ride. ♥

Wedding cars have beengetting brides to the church instyle for years. It’s one aspectthat usually stays true totradition, with brides optingfor vintage or classical carssuch as a Rolls Royce, Daimler,Bentley or Limousine fortransport. However, for themore adventurous bride thereare other alternatives that aresure to make an impression asyou pull up to the church.Other options include: Horsedrawn carriage, VW Vans,Mustangs, Lamborghinis andeven Beetles or Minis.

Your carriage awaits



Hiring a period vintage coach as partof the ambience you are creating foryour wedding can introduce anenjoyable dimension to theproceedings as well as being a costeffective solution to the transportationrequirements of your big day.

Whilst the vehicles themselves can oozenostalgia, it is important that you check out thelicensing and insurance credentials of theirowners. If you are intending to carry more thaneight passengers and you are paying for theservice, then the provider should have theappropriate Operators Licence issued by theTraffic Commissioner, don't be afraid to ask aboutit. The vehicle should also carry a PassengerCarrying Vehicle MOT Certificate and theappropriate insurances. The driver too should bethe holder of a full Passenger Carrying Vehicle(PCV) driving licence. That said, the operator will usually be willing to

discuss your requirements on a practical basis.Your needs may be to move a large group in onebudget movement or perhaps convey the brideand bridesmaids to the Church first followed by amovement of say close family and friends to thereception afterwards. A vintage double decker busmay be the answer to your needs or perhaps themore defined luxury of a smaller 1950's single

decker touring coach with sumptuous seating forup to 40 and a beautiful art deco interior.

Operator owners are usually very proud of theirperiod icons and as such will often provide thevintage coach for the initial transfers whilst thelate night return journey will be aboard a modernvehicle where the benefits of air suspension andair conditioning will be more sympathetic tothose guests who are by then feeling a littleworse for wear.

One point to remember is that vintage vehiclesdo not have the benefit of power steering andmay in fact require a greater turning area in whichto manoeuvre than that of a much larger modernvehicle, so do bear this in mind when planningyour itinerary and looking at venues. ♥

Travel invintage style

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Your wedding stationery will give yourguests the first hint of the style and colourtheme of your wedding. You may be lookingfor something quite simple andcontemporary, elegant and romantic orelaborate and bold – whatever you decideto go for, you won’t be disappointed withthe choice available. So what items are youlikely to need?

Save the Date Cards – to make sure all your familyand friends keep their diary free on the chosen day.

Invitations – Remember that you will only need oneper family but it’s always wise to order a few extrajust in case.

Reply Cards – these can be included with yourinvitations to encourage a prompt response fromyour guests.

Order of Service – Usually you would give one to

each guest at a church wedding but when thinkingof numbers consider friends coming to watch whomay not be invited to the day time.Table Plan/Place Cards/Menus – can all be designedto match the colour and theme of your weddingand add that bit of luxury and formality to theevent.

Favours For Your Guests – Bomboniere or weddingfavours have traditionally been given to weddingguests for many years. Way back in historybomboniere were small trinket boxes containingsugar cubes or delicate confections whichsymbolised wealth of the family. Years later thesugar cubes were replaced with 5 almonds whichsymbolised fertility, wealth, longevity, health andhappiness.Today, the choice for wedding favours is endless

from petite boxes of chocolates to alcoholicminiatures. Becoming more popular are charityfavours where you can donate money to a favouritecharity on behalf of your guests. ♥

Announce your wedding in style


An artistic florist will be able to suggest a range of stunning designs foryour wedding bouquet and floralarrangements that complement yourdress, the theme of your wedding andthe ceremony venue.

Make sure you are prepared for your consultation.Try to take with you samples of the fabric that willmake up your dress, and colour swatches for yourgown, the bridesmaids’ dresses and groom'sformalwear, as the florist will need thisinformation to help them prepare ideas ofbeautiful arrangements for you.

The traditional colours for a bridal bouquet areivory and white, but don't be afraid to add a hintof colour for that element of understatedsophistication. The groom's buttonhole should beworn on his left lapel, and should echo the bride'sbouquet. This is to celebrate the tradition of a

Knight wearing his Lady's colours to display hislove.

The ushers and groomsmen should wear a slightlydifferent flower on their lapel, but it should alsofeature in the main bouquet. Bridesmaids’ flowerswill also differ from your bouquet, but should stillcoordinate with the general floral theme, asshould corsages for the mothers and buttonholesfor the fathers.

Flowers could be selected for personal reasons,or because of what they traditionally represent, i.e.Lilies represent majesty, roses symbolise love,freesias symbolise purity, and baby's breathrepresents innocence. Silk flowers are becomingmore popular too, enabling you to chooseexquisite imitators that will last a lifetime. Buyingflowers in season can save you money, so pickflowers according to the time of year and be eco-friendly too!

It is always a good idea to request that yourflorist give you an itemised bill in advance, andmake sure that you in turn supply the florist withthe names, addresses, and times for delivery of yourbouquet, buttonholes, corsages and floralarrangements. You'll need a number of other floralpieces for your wedding, including displays for thealtar, centrepieces for reception tables, sprays for

candelabra, corsages for those who assist withvarious reception duties, andfloral "tokens" for specialguests. Ask your florist forguidance. Their artistry,knowledge of wedding protocol

and ability to listen to yourneeds will ensure that you'll

get good value for yourmoney, and have the

perfect floralaccents toenhanceyourwedding

day. ♥

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An artistic florist will be able tosuggest a range of stunning designsfor your wedding bouquet and floralarrangements that complement yourdress, the theme of your wedding andthe ceremony venue.

But where should you start? Ideally, you shouldbook your florist as soon as possible as they canbe booked up with weddings all summer. This isespecially important if you are planning a largewedding with an abundance of flowers. There aremany ways to go about choosing your florist, fromasking your friends and family forrecommendations, visiting suppliers at weddingfairs or researching them on the internet.

Whatever method suits you best, make sure youarrange a consultation with a shortlist of yourfavourite choices and take it from there!

Inspiration Have a look at wedding photographsfrom friends and family members, and tear outany images you like in bridal magazines andnewspapers. Your florist will also have lots ofportfolios and magazines for you to look throughwhen you visit them. You should also take anysamples of fabric or colour swatches that you areplanning to use, as well as ideas about the overalltheme of the wedding as this will all help yourflorist design the floral decorations you havedreamed about.

What about the budget? Be honest about yourbudget from the start. There is no point being shy

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about it as your florist could end up suggesting allsorts of extravagances that you simply can'tafford. For a limited budget, try to stick toseasonal flowers as these can work outconsiderably cheaper! Make sure you get yourorder confirmed in writing as soon as you can, andlook out for any hidden costs such as deliverycharges or vase and accessories hire as they canreally add to the final costings. It is also importantthat you give your florist a breakdown of youritinerary, timings and addresses for delivery,especially if things are being delivered to anumber of different addresses.

What floral arrangements are required? You willneed to arrange a bridal bouquet, bouquets foryour bridesmaids, buttonholes and corsages. Youwill also need a number of other floral pieces foryour wedding, including displays for the altar,centrepieces for reception tables, sprays forcandelabra, and any floral gifts for special gueststo show your thanks.

Final thoughts. The number of meetings you willhave with your florist will vary depending on youractual requirements, but it is important to have atlest two or three face to face meetings before thebig day. Some florists may be willing to hold oneof these meetings at your intended venue todiscuss exactly where the larger arrangementswill look best and draw the eye. Ask your florist forguidance throughout the planning stages. Theirartistry, knowledge of wedding protocol andability to listen to your needs will ensure that youget good value for your money, and have theperfect floral accents to enhance your weddingday. Just make sure you have your florist's mobilenumber handy in case of floral emergencies onthe day!

Choosing your seasonal bouquets and floralarrangements

AutumnSeptember to early November is a beautifulseason in nature when the colours of flowers andleaves are changing naturally. Choose fromshades of orange, brown and red for a perfectautumnal wedding.

Orange: This is a colour that has moretraditionally been associated with bright, vibrantand exotic Eastern weddings, but it is becoming

more commonplace in Western weddings withshades of orange being chosen. Think Calla Lilieswith their burnished brown-orange tints thatreflect the colours of an autumn sunset.

Brown: While a common colour in nature, brown issurprisingly less common when it comes toflowers. Choose from Alstroemeria, Kangaroo Paw,Chrysanthemum, Cosmos, Hypericum berries andRoses. You could also use brown foliage to accentyour floral arrangements. Far more common thanbrown flowers, but looks truly stunning inautumnal displays.

Red: A great colour for weddings as it symbolisesstrength and passion (think red roses!) Red foliageis also very dramatic and red berries or red leavedPhotinia look fantastic with red flowers or almostblack foliage. Popular red flowers to consider areGerbera, Anthurium, Freesia and Amaryllis.

Other Autumn flowers to consider include Dahlias,Leucospermum, Strelitzia, Crocosmia and Nerine.

WinterWinter flowers are often the most striking, withtheir bold colours and unique shapes. They cancaptivate your celebration with their seasonalmagic. Purples and blacks are very popular at thistime of year, as are reds, greens, and whites.

Purple: Eryngium (also known as Sea Holly) hasbeen around for centuries. It is a very strikingflower like a purple raspberry surrounded by athistle collar. They can look striking in any modernarrangement, are very popular with couples ofScottish descent, or can make an ideal masculinebuttonhole.

Black: There are not many flowers that are trulyblack, they are normally either a very dark red orwine-purple. Most popular are Roses or CallaLilies, or you could consider flowers with a blackcentre like Star of Bethlehem and Anemones.There is also a wide range of black foliage thatcan also look really effective such as darkCordyline leaves or Cotinus.

Other Winter flowers to consider include Amaryllis,Freesias, Phalaenopsis Orchids, Oncidium Orchids,Gerbera, Lisianthus and Heliconia. ♥



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Your first dance together as husband and wife is oneof the most eagerly anticipated parts of your weddingreception. You may have already chosen the musicyou want to dance to, but have you thought abouthow you are going to dance to it? You may decidethat you want to take some dance lessons and haveyour first dance professionally choreographed, butwhat does this involve?

There are a number of things to think about when itcomes to planning your first dance lessons:

• Decide on a song• Think about the style of the routine you would like:

funny, traditional, cheeky, romantic or sophisiticated• Remember to show your choreographer your

wedding dress so the routine can be designed totake into account what you will be wearing

• Plan the timetable for your dance lessons. Youshould aim to start your lessons 5 to 8 weeks priorto your wedding

• Make sure you wear something comfortable foryour lessons, but remember to wear your weddingshoes for at least one of the practices!

Whether you can dance or not, having some lessonscan put you at ease and make you feel morecomfortable and confident when you take your firststeps out on to the dance floor. ♥

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When you start considering what type of music andentertainment you would like at your wedding, youwill realise that the choice is endless. Shouldyou go for a DJ, a live singer, a band or acombination – whatever you decide make surethey are going to hit the right note to ensureyou have the party of a lifetime.

Arranging your wedding music really should be high priority aspopular DJs, bands and singers get booked up well in advance.Ideally you should hear the DJ, singer or band before you book themto make sure they will create the right atmosphere for you andyour guests.Your DJ or band should discuss with you what type of music you

would like for your first dance and a good DJ or bandleader willgather all the guests together to make it a very special time.

Close-up magic can provide the perfect ice breakerfor a wedding reception. A good magician will minglewith your guests performing a range of miracles infront of their eyes. They will move from group togroup engaging guests with their magic and leave themwith something shared to talk about, even if they have justmet.An experienced wedding magician will know how to

approach different groups or single guests, when toentertain a table, and how to work with the serving staffto help you achieve your perfect day.The magician will entertain your guests when they are

For some fun and magic whynot hire a Magician?

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left alone while you are busy with thephotographer. He can provide a show for eachtable during the wedding breakfast, entertain ona larger scale while your reception room is beingtransformed from day to evening, or engage yourevening guests on their arrival. Speak to yourwedding magician about how long you would likethem to stay, some will offer entertainment for acouple of hours, while others will be moreflexible and offer a range of different packagesdesigned to best suit your plans.

Fireworks are becoming an increasingly popularand spectacular finale to the day's events. Whendeciding whether you wish to pursue this uniquespectacle, there are some basic rules to follow.The venue must of course be of a suitable size,and the owner will need to give their permission.The larger the display, the larger the display area

Why not end the eveningwith a magnificent fireworks display?

required, and a site visit with the company isessential. There are many alternative displays available,

ranging from just a firework drawing to a fulldisplay and, ideally your firework company shouldbe offering many variables and clearly setting outall the costs involved. Pictures in fireworks can bedesigned and personalised to the bride andgroom, these can be visually stunning, last forabout a minute and are a novel way to end themain show. If the noise due to large explosions isan issue, speak to the company as they should beable to offer a reduced noise display that is stillcolourful and spectacular.

Firework displays should provide good value formoney. Ask your chosen firework company toshow you references from previous clients, meetwith them to discuss your requirements and askfor a quote. You should also ask them to provide acopy of their insurance documents

Finally, do inform your photographer/videographer in advance about the display sothey can be prepared to capture the spectacle. Ifthey require any specialist knowledge on thefilming of fireworks, the firework company shouldbe able to assist. ♥


It is becoming increasingly popular for thelast night of freedom to last a weekend, oreven longer so make sure you discuss withthe chief bridesmaid or best man whattype of party you really want.

• Draw up list of people to invite.• Select a town/venue that's easily accessible

to everyone.• Decide on what kind of event you think would

be best for the people involved. • Set the itinerary and make inquiries and

provisional bookings.

• Don’t go too overthe top. Youmight like theidea of a weekin Barcelona,but noteveryone willwant to spendthat amount oftime or money. Ifyou want to dosomething big, stick toclose friends only.

• Create and send out invites.• Give out your email address and mobile number

to all the guests and be available to answerqueries about directions, accommodation, etc.

• Pre-book everything you can and confirm inwriting or by email, especially foraccommodation, and reconfirm the day before.

• Make sure everyone knows exactly where you'remeeting eg which bar of the hotel, whichentrance of the station? Give a contact numberfor last-minute changes.

• Make sure everyone knows roughly how muchthe do will cost, and whether they'll be helpingto cover the bride's/groom's costs. Let everyoneknow how and when payment is to be made.

• Have a fall-back meeting place for late arrivalsor people who get lost.

• Think ahead about how everyone will begetting home. Do you need to arrange transport,book taxis, or send younger members of theparty home earlier?

To makeeverything goaccording to plan, be sure you’ve gota plan worthsticking to

Hen & Stag Checklist



Talking about the budget won’t be the most romantic conversation you’regoing to have when it comes to planningyour big day, but overspending isn’t veryromantic either.

One of the first things you need to do when youstart planning your dream wedding is decide who’spaying for what. The most important thing toconsider is to plan the type of wedding you canrealistically afford. It is not ideal to start married lifein debt. Remember, it is how you spend your moneythat counts, not how much you have to spend.

Traditionally, the father of the bride handled themajority of the expenses, with the groom chipping

in for ceremony fees anda suitably fabulous, surprisehoneymoon. But, times arechanging. Manycontemporary couples choose topay for the bulk of their wedding themselves,or even to split the costs three ways – betweenthem and both sets of parents. The question forwho pays for what really comes down to who iswilling and able.

The Bride• Wedding gift for groom• Wedding ring for groom• Bridesmaids’ dresses• Gifts for Attendants• Hen Party

The Groom• Wedding gift for bride• Bride's rings• Banns, Wedding Licence and

Marriage Certificate• Gifts for Best Man and Ushers• Bridal bouquet, buttonholes

and corsages• Formalwear• Fees for officiating personnel

The Bride's Family• Entire reception• Wedding gift for newlyweds• Bride's wedding outfit• Invitations and announcements• Photographs• Venue fees• Flowers • Wedding cars

The Groom’s Family• Honeymoon• Stag Party• Wedding clothes• Travelling expenses/hotel bills• Wedding gift for newlyweds• Shipment of wedding gifts

to new home

A traditional breakdown of the expenses:

WEDDING PLANNER

Who pays?



12 months before:q Choose a wedding dateq Decide on a budgetq Make a list of guests and decide on numbersq Book your Church/Ceremony locationq Book your reception venue/caterers q Send out “Save The Date” cardsq Choose your Bridesmaids, Ushers and Best Manq Start looking for The Dress!q Choose and book your photographerq Choose and book your videographerq Take out insurance coverq Start thinking about the Honeymoonq Confirm bookings in writing

8 months before:q Choose bridesmaids’ dressesq Choose the music, hymns and readings for the ceremonyq Order wedding stationeryq Book entertainmentq Choose and order your wedding cakeq Make an appointment with your chosen floristq Select a Toastmasterq Book your wedding cars

6 months before:q Give Notice of Marriageq Purchase or hire menswearq Order venue decoration/chair coversq Select your wedding ringsq Book a make-up artist/hairdresser and arrange a trial

Don’t panic! There may be ahuge amount to do in the run

up to your big day, but ourhandy checklist is designed

to help you through the nexttwelve months.

WEDDING PLANNER



4 months before:q Send out your wedding invitationsq Check your passport expiry dateq Check if you will need visas or vaccinations for your

honeymoon destinationq Choose attendants’ giftsq Buy shoes, lingerie and accessoriesq Choose a Gift Listq Order favoursq Start thinking about a seating planq Book your wedding night accommodationq Attend initial fitting for your wedding dressq Make arrangements for Hen and Stag partiesq Arrange fittings for the menswearq Buy a going away outfit and honeymoon clothesq Organise a rehearsal and let relevant people know

1 month before:q Arrange a final fitting of your wedding dressq Call guests who have not responded to your invitationq Buy a wedding gift for each otherq Arrange for a final fitting for your bridesmaids, ushers and

best man and arrange when to collect the outfitsq Confirm timings with the venue and all relevant suppliersq Finalise the seating planq Enjoy your hen and stag parties!

2 Weeks Before:q Make a note of wedding gifts as they arriveq Confirm the date and time of the rehearsal to the relevant

peopleq Arrange to change your name if appropriateq Speak to all your suppliers to confirm details

1 week before:q Arrange to collect your wedding dress, bridesmaids’

dresses and the menswearq Arrange for your order of service to be given to the ministerq Pack for your honeymoonq Have all your beauty treatmentsq Book the groom a hair cutq Organise an emergency kit for on the dayq Drink plenty of water and have some early nights

Relax and enjoy this time – all your hard work is about to come to fruition!

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05 July 2012Tee House Bar & RestaurantLeen Valley Golf Club, Wigwan Lane, Hucknall5pm - onwards% Lynne - 01159 633078

22 July 2012Shottle Hall Wedding FayreWhite Lane Shottle, Derbyshire DE56 2EB11am - 4pm% Sue White - 01246 541906

24 July 2012The Queen Elizabeth School Hall150 Chesterfield Road South, Mansfield, NG19 7AP5pm - 9pm% Rachel - 07925 581796

25 July 2012Makeney Hall HotelMilford, Derby, DE56 0RS6pm - 8pm% Liz - 01332 845703

09 August 2012Ladies Evening Wedding FayreBestwood Lodge, Arnold, Notts, NG5 8NE5pm - 9pm% Rachael Matthews - 01159 203011

26 August 2012Pride Park StadiumPride Park, Derby, DE21 5BL11am - 4pm% Sue White - 01246 541906

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29 August 2012Makeney Hall HotelMilford, Derby, DE56 0RS6pm - 8pm% Liz - 01332 845703

02 September 2012The Nottingham RacecourseColwick Park, Colwick Road, Nottingham, NG2 4BE11am - 4pm % Sarah - 07578 638185.

02 September 2012Rolls Royce Wedding FayreGate One, Watnall Road, Hucknall, Nottingham, NG15 6EU11am - 4pm% Create Your Day - 07985 727444or 01623 751907

7 September 2012The Grange Banqueting Suite457 Burton Road, Littleover, Derby, DE23 6XX. 11am - 4pm% Sarah - 07578 638185.

09 September 2012Miraj Hotel and Leisure ClubDerby Road, Ashbourne, Derbyshire, DE6 1XH11am - 3pm% Vicki - 07875 297134

09 September 2012Butterley GrangeRipley, DE5 3QY11am - 4pm% Sue White - 01246 541906

16 September 2012The Aston Court HotelMidland Road, Derby, DE1 2SL (opp Derby Station) 11am - 4pm % Sarah - 07578 6385

16 September 2012The Britannia Stadium Wedding ShowStanley Mathews Way, Stoke on TrentStaffordshire ST4 4EG11am - 4pm% Steve - 01782 740526

16 September 2012Wollaton Hall Wedding FayreWollaton Park Wollaton, Nottingham NG8 2AE11am - 4pm% Penny - 0115 915 3900

23 September 2012Holme Pierrepont Hall Wedding FayreHolme Pierrepont, Nottingham NG12 2LD11am - 4pm% Sarah - 01332 813973

23 September 2012The Derbyshire Hotel Wedding FayreCarter Lane East, South Normanton, Derby, DE55 2EH11am - 4pm% Anne - 07968 495110

30 September 2012Novotel Wedding FayreBostocks Lane, Long Eaton, M1 Junction 25,Nottingham, NG10 4EP11am - 4pm% Lisa - 07533 296604

30 September 2012The Nottingham Gateway Wedding FayreNuthall Road, Nottingham, NG8 6AZ11am - 4pm% 0800 3161009

30 September 2012Leadenham House VIP Open DayLeadenham House, Lincs, LN5 0PX11am - 3pm% Sarah - 01332 813973

07 October 2012Thoresby CourtyardNewark, NG22 9EP11am - 4pm% Sue White - 01246 541906

07 October 2012Makeney Hall HotelMilford, Derby, DE56 0RS11am - 4pm% Liz - 01332 845703

07 October 2012Thrumpton Hall Wedding FayreThrumpton, Nottinghamshire, NG11 0AX11am - 4pm% Sue White - 01246 541906




14 October 2012Branston Golf Club Wedding FayreBranston, Burton on Trent, Staffordshire, DE14 3DP11am - 4pmJoanne - 0151 2279179 [email protected]

14 October 2012Uttoxeter Racecourse Wedding FayreWood Lane Uttoxeter, Staffordshire ST14 8BD11am - 4pmSteve - 01782 740526

14 October 2012Colwick Hall Wedding FayreColwick Hall Hotel, Colwick Park, RacecourseRoad, Nottingham, NG2 4BH11am - 4pmJayne - 01332 544369 or 07515 350313

14 October 2012Tissington Hall Wedding FayreTissington, Ashbourne, Derbyshire, DE6 1RA11am - 4pmSue White - 01246 541906

14 October 2012Park Inn by Radisson Nottingham Mansfield Road Nottingham Nottinghamshire NG5 2BT11am - 4pmLisa - 07533 296604

21 October 2012Clumber Park Hotel and Spa Wedding FayreBlyth Road, Clumber Park, Nottinghamshire S80 3PA10.30am - 3.30pmSarah - 01623 835333

28 October 2012Horsley Lodge Wedding FayreHorsley, Derbyshire, DE21 5BL11am - 4pmSue White - 01246 541906

28 October 2012Osmaston Park Wedding FayreOsmaston Park Estate Marquee, Ashbourne,Derbyshire DE6 1LW11am - 4pmHannah or Ben - 01889 567344

28 October 2012The Venue Wedding FayreWyaston Road, Ashbourne, Derbyshire, DE6 1NB11am -3pmVikki - 07875 297134

31 October 2012Makeney Hall HotelMilford, Derby, DE56 0RS6pm - 8pmLiz - 01332 845703

04 November 2012The Old Vicarage Boutique HotelWesthorpe, Southwell, Nottingham NG25 0NB11am - 4pmSuzanne - 01636 815989

04 November 2012Bestwood Lodge Hotel Wedding FayreBestwood Lodge, Arnold, Notts, NG5 8NE11am -4pmRachael Matthews - 01159 203011

18 November 2012The Priest House HotelCastle Donington, DE74 2RR11am - 4pmSue White - 01246 541906

18 November 2012Birmingham Premier Asian Wedding ShowHoliday Inn, Coventry Road, Birmingham, B26 3QW11am - 5pmAhmer - 0161 6694691

18 November 2012Heanor Miners Welfare Wedding Fayre50 Ilkeston Road, Heanor, DE75 7DT11am - 3pmVikki - 07875 297134

28 November 2012Makeney Hall HotelMilford, Derby, DE56 0RS6pm - 8pmLiz - 01332 845703


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