Transform  Your  Destiny  

Why  Live  Your  Purpose    Awareness    The  4  Keys  To  Connection    The  Power  Of  Vision    

HOW  to  connect  to  YOUR  purpose  in  life,  and  how  to  ignite  your  passion  the  easy  way,  for  YOU  to  live  your  life  in  an  extremely  deep  and  

MEANINGFUL  way!    

The  confidence  to  believe  in  yourself  and  take  leaps  of  ACTION  plus  GIGANTIC  STRIDES  

forward  in  your  life!    

Also  POWERFUL  principles  and  simple  concepts  that  instantly  EMPOWER  you  to  create  

change  in  your  life!          

“Tap  into  your  EXTRODINARY    potential  and  learn  

how  BEST  to  use  YOUR  mind,  plus  what  to  do  with  it  if  it  wonders..  Be  prepared  

to  be  blown  away”  ..  

“Ensures  you  have  direction,  clarity  and  of  course  the  SELF  BELEIF  to  shoot  for  the  stars,  shift  your  life  into  

one  EPIC  adventure  or  simply  smile  each  day”  

  Name?  

  Why  you  came  today?    

  What  would  you  LOVE  to  learn?  

  What  you  want  from  life?    

  How  are  you  going  to  get  it?  

  A  funny  story  to  share?    

  Purpose  –  defining  who  you  are  and  what  you  were  born  to  do  will  boost  your  HAPPINESS!  

  Awareness  Awareness  AWARENSS!      

  Connection  –  looking  within  and  truly  connecting  to  your  INNER  UNIVERRSE!    

  Vision  –  dreaming  BIGGER  &  BOLDER  then  ever  before!    

  Has  taught  me  your  happiness  is  already  inside  you  

  The  outside  world  is  not  designed  to  help  you  succeed  

  The  systems  and  our  society  will  only  drag  us  further  down  if  we  let  it  

  CONNECTION  IS  KEY!    

  Un-­‐condition  your  mind  -­‐  unravel  the  programs  and  the  old  patterns  that  steal  your  happiness  

  Open  your  heart  –  to  everyone  and  everything,  and  use  the  power  of  LOVE  to  set  yourself  free  

  Work  hard  and  stretch  yourself  –  whatever  you  seek  it’s  a  journey,  your  happiness  is  the  only  destination          

  Immerse  yourself  in  life  -­‐  never  give  up  even  if  shit  hits  the  fan  because  you  will  reap  the  rewards!    

  Determination  –  never  ever  give  in  no  matter  what  others  say  think  or  do,  even  your  own  judgmental  and  crazy  thoughts!  

   Control  &  Focus  –  you  steer  and  direct  your  ship,  think  about  it,  how  did  you  end  up  hear?    

  Imagination  –  why  can  we  see  into  the  future?  

“One  decision  that  change  my  life  forever”  

  Who  do  you  want  to  become?  –  there  is  nothing  wrong  with  who  you  are,  but  this  is  why  we  all  have  imagination,  to  grow,  to  expand,  to  evolve!    

  Your  mind  creates  your  reality,  this  is  nothing  new  right?    -­‐  so  where  are  you  going?    

  Your  vision  plus  your  dreams  create  your  authentic  success,  your  true  purpose  and  re-­‐builds  the  incredible  and  powerful  connection  to  the  deep  and  inner  happiness  will  all  search  for      

Lets  Take  A  Break  

Purpose  “What's  Yours?”    

  Life  Purpose  ,  what  does  it  mean?  

  Are  you  moving  towards  something  or  away  from  something?      

  What  are  the  motivating  factors  that  currently    drive  your  life?    

  What  are  you  going?    

Focus    Clarity    

Happiness    Egoless    

Connection  Direction      

Fun    Excitement  Adventure      

Strong  Knowing    Deep  Connection    Opportunity's  

Safety    Security  

Incredible  Energy      

“If  the  ladder  is  not  leaning  against  the  right  wall,  every  step  we  take  just  gets  us  to  the  

wrong  place  faster”  

1.   Feeling  lost  –  do  your  have  this  lack  or  emptiness  -­‐  things  just    don’t  feel  right?  –  are  you  frustrated  and  bored  of  the  same  old  patterns?  

2.   Uncertain  –  not  clear  about  your  decisions  or  the  choices  in  front  of  you  so  you  worry  and  think  you  will  get  it  wrong?  

3.   No  Direction  –  do  you  feel  like  you  wonder,  going  from  one  event  to  the  next  but  never  really  getting  anyway?  -­‐  in  fact  it  makes  things  worse  and  you  lose  your  focus  

4.   Disconnection  –  your  crazy  mind  controls  your  life,  it  wonders  and  you  constantly  judge  yourself  critically  too!  Plus  your  emotions  are  all  over  the  place,  you  find  yourself  reacting  and  feeling  exhausted      

• Life  Lacks  Meaning  • Disconnection      • Feeling  Frustrated    • Thinking  Negatively    • Controlled  By  Ego  • Stuck  In  Old  Patterns    • Unwanted  Habits  • Negative    Behaviors    

“Finding  your  life  purpose  means  doing  something  you  truly  love”  

“It's  an  area  that  just  seems  natural  to  you  and  things  just  seem  to  flow  and  fall  into  place”  

“Your  ultimate  purpose  in  life  is  to  fall  in  LOVE  with  life  itself”    

 What  are  you  here  to  do?  

 What  do  you  plan  to  do?  

  How  do  you  choose  to  be?  

  How  can  you  create  it?  

 What’s  the  first  step?    

 Write  down  your  passions  

  10  things  you  love  and  are  passionate  about  

  10  things  you  would  love  to  bring  into  your  life  and  the  world?    

What  Is  Your  Mission  Statement?    

1.   Awareness  -­‐  is  the  first  step  to  the  resolution  of  any  problem  or  creating  success    

2.   Abundance  -­‐  we  live  in  a  world  of  abundance.  There  are  unlimited  wealth  and  unlimited  opportunities  for  everyone.  So  don’t  worry  about  whether  you  can  succeed  in  something,  focus  on  how  to  succeed!    

3.   Beliefs  -­‐  Your  beliefs  affect  your  life  more  than  you  think  they  do.  If  you  want  to  have  the  best  life  experience  you  can  ever  have,  eliminate  your  disempowering  beliefs  with  empowering  ones  

4.   Action  -­‐  is  a  necessary  part  for  any  success!  

5.   Ability  -­‐  is  more  of  a  function  of  the  time  you  spend  honing  your  craft,  rather  than  a  result  of  what  you  were  born  with  

6.   Connection  –  your  connection  to  self,  spirit,  nature  and  other  people  is  crucial!  

7.   Being  yourself  –  it’s  better  to  be  a  first  rate  version  of  yourself  than  a  second  rate  version  of  someone  else  

1.  In  order  to  connect  with  your  life  purpose  it  is  so  important  that  you  follow  your  heart  and  your  passion  in  life!    

2.  By  getting  crystal  clear  and  taking  action  with  your  first  steps  you  eliminate  the  fears  and  the  process  of  transformation  and  your  purpose  erupts!    

3.  Creating  authentic  goals  that  you  value  and  living  by  your  moral  code  will  empower  you  to  make  the  right  choices  and  live  the  life  you  envision!      

“How  we  ought  to  live”  

  A  moral  code  is  a  set  of  standards,  laws,  or  rules  that  we  hold  ourselves  to  

  By  holding  yourself  accountable  and  living  by  your  personal  code  you  empower  yourself  to  take  action  and  make  better  choices  in  life      

  Condition  your  inner  code  and  your  behaviors  will  become  an  automatic  response!    

  The  best  moral  codes  are  constantly  being  re-­‐evaluated  and  evolving,  just  as  the  best  people  are  constantly  growing  

10  values  you  choose  to  live  by  (moral  code)  

Lets  Take  A  Break  

Awareness  “Thoughts  &  Emotions”      

  Self  Awareness  is  having  a  clear  perception  of  your  personality  

  Recognising  your  strengths,  weaknesses,  thoughts,  beliefs,  behaviors,  motivation,  and  emotions  

  Self  Awareness  allows  you  to  understand  yourself  a  whole  lot  better  and  other  people,  plus  how  they  perceive  you  and  how  you  perceive  yourself    

  It  helps  you  understand  your  attitude  and  your  responses  to  triggers,  why  you  act  in  certain  ways  

  But  more  importantly  self  awareness  will  set  you  free  from  the  unwanted  patterns  you  maybe    trapped  in!      

  Having  self  awareness  allows  you  to  see  where  your  thoughts  and  your  emotions  are  taking  you  

  It  also  allows  you  to  see  the  controls  of  your  emotions,  behavior,  and  personality  so  you  can  then  make  changes  where  you  want,  if  its  not  working  for  you  take  control  and  shift  through  it!      

  Until  you  are  aware  of  your  thoughts,  emotions  and  behaviors,  they  simply  control  you,  plus  you  will  have  difficulty  making  changes  in  the  direction  of  your  life  you  choose  to  go!    

“Awareness  in  itself  is  healing”  

  As  you  develop  self  awareness  you  are  able  to  make  changes  in  the  thoughts  and  interpretations  you  make  in  your  mind  

  Changing  the  interpretations  in  your  mind  allows  you  to  change  your  emotions  

  Self  awareness  is  one  of  the  attributes  of  Emotional  Intelligence  and  an  important  factor  in  achieving  success  

  Self  awareness  is  the  first  step  in  creating  success  and  what  you  want,  more  importantly  mastering  your  life  

  Always  always  remember  -­‐  where  you  focus  your  attention  and  the  emotions  you  encounter  and  the  reactions  that  are  triggerd,  create  your  habits  and  behaviors,  thus  creating  your  personality,  which  ultimately  determines  where  you  are  destined  to  end  up  in  life!  

  Your  life  is  currently  pre  destined  by  the  script  you  have  in  your  head!    

  Where  are  your  thoughts,  behaviors,  emotions,  habits  and  reactions  taking  you?      

  What  you  thought  10  years  ago  got  you  to  where  you  are  now,  how  is  it  working  for  you?    

  What  you  think  now  creates  the  rest  of  your  life!  

  So,  what  story  will  you  choose  to  play  out?    

  What  train  of  thoughts  are  you  consistently    trapped  in?  

  What  do  you  worry  about,  think  about,  over  and  over  again?    

  Your  patterns  of  thought  create  your  struggles  or  success,  what  are  you  creating  in  your  life  right  NOW  and  how  are  they  effecting  your  emotions  and  behaviors?  

  Think  about  it  and  please  write  down  the  nonsense  that  goes  on  within  your  head!      

 “The  story  your  ego  creates  designs  your  identity,  you  play  out  that  story  until  you  

redesign  the  paradigm”      

  If  your  feelings  control  your  actions,  or  reactions,  then  it  is  because  you  have  empowered  them  to  do  s0  (consciously  or  subconsciously)    

  Think  about  someone  who  last  triggered  the  hell  out  of  you  or  an  event  that  makes  you  feel  uncomfortable      

  Now  think  about  how  YOU  react  to  them,  and  the  story  in  YOU  play  in  your  head    

  Relationships  are  easy  until  there  is  emotional  turmoil  

  This  is  the  same  at  work  or  in  your  personal  life  

  When  you  can  change  the  interpretation  in  your  mind  of  what  you  think,  or  change  the  story,  you  can  change  your  reactions  and  control  your  emotions  

  When  you  can  change  the  emotions  in  your  relationships  you  open  up  entirely  new  possibilities  in  your  life  

  Having  a  clear  understanding  of  your  thoughts,  behaviors  and  patterns  helps  you  to  understand  other  people.  This  ability  to  empathize  facilitates  better  personal  and  professional  relationships  

  Self  awareness  is  developed  through  practices  in  focusing  your  attention  on  the  details  of  your  personality  and  behavior  

  It  isn’t  learned  from  reading  a  book.  When  you  read  a  book  you  are  focusing  your  attention  on  the  conceptual  ideas  in  the  book  

   With  your  attention  in  a  book  you  are  practicing  not  paying  attention  to  your  own  behavior,  emotions  and  personality  

  Think  of  learning  to  be  mindful  and  self  aware  as  learning  to  dance.  When  learning  to  dance  we  have  to  pay  attention  to  how  and  where  our  feet  move,  our  hands  and  body  motion,  what  our  partner  is  doing,  music,  beat,  floor  -­‐  space,  and  other  dancers  

  Self  awareness  isn’t  learned  from  books  and  the  Tango  isn’t  either  

Lets  Take  A  Break  

Connection  “The  4  Keys  To  Connection”    

1.   Connection  To  Self  –  discover  who  you  truly  are  go  beyond  the  mind  and  connect  to  the  freedom  we  all  desire      

2.   Connection  To  Spirit  –  the  stuff  that  keeps  every  cell  together,  that  makes  you  feel  alive  in  moments  of  beauty  

3.   Connection  To  Others  –  we  all  want,  need  and  crave  this  connection,  the  more  you  give  the  more  you  feel  

4.   Connection  Nature  –  the  more  you  see  the  beauty  in  nature  the  more  you  see  and  feel  the  beauty  in  yourself  

  How  often  do  you  listen  to  your  own  language?  

  Your  inner  language  is  a  very  clear  indicator  of  the  degree  to  which  you  struggle  or  succeed  in  life  

  Your  emotions  and  feelings  are  trying  to  guide  you  into  the  place  of  new  beginnings!      

“Close  your  eyes  and  lets  feel  the  life  force  flow  

through  you”  

  In  order  to  truly  connect  to  others  ………..  and………….  makes  that  connection  far  deeper  and  …………  shifts  between  to  souls!  

  Like  a  community  of  cells  inside  your  inner  universe,  we  are  all  connected  on  the  outer  world  

  Find  a  stranger,  who  is  a  friend  you  haven't  met  yet,  and  connect!    

“Nature  has  a  deep  message  to  share  with  us  you.  If  you  listen  closely  it  will  guide  you  

through  your  connection  to  it  and  the  moments  of  beauty  that  blow  your  breath  away  will  take  

on  further  on  your  journey”      

Lets  Take  A  Break  

Vision  “Quantum  Leaping”    

  Begin  with  the  end  in  mind!  –  based  on  the  principle  that  all  things  are  created  twice  

  There’s  your  mental  creation,  then  you  must  design  the  physical  creation  

  Imagine  how  a  new  house  is  built,  plans,  blueprints,  then  bricks!    

  You  already  started  with  your  mission  statement  

  Gives  your  life  direction  and  meaning.  It  gives  you  something  to  get  out  of  bed  for  and  guides  you  along  the  way  

  Helps  you  focus  on  the  things  that  are  important  in  your  life  and  allows  the  negative  stuff  to  disperse  

  Shows  you  the  signs  along  the  way!        

  It’s  a  cliché  but  if  we  stop  and  think  about  it  for  a  second,  it’s  really  true  

  If  you  want  to  become  a  millionaire  and  you’re  starting  at  £0,  you  don’t  expect  to  reach  that  goal  overnight  

   You  understand  that  it  will  take  time.  Each  and  every  day,  you  must  do  small  things  that,  over  time,  will  move  you  closer  to  that  goal  

  The  same  is  true  for  all  areas  of  your  life.  In  order  for  you  to  make  decisions  about  things  such  as  which  job  to  take,  who  to  marry,  and  where  to  live,  you  must  first  understand  where  we  are  trying  to  end  up  

1.  Personal  Development    2.  Wife,  Husband  or    Lover  3.  Parent    4.  Fun  &  Passion    5.  Work  6.  Purpose      

At  least  some  of  these  goals  should  reflect  what  you  have  learnt  today,  plus  what  you  

desire  in  your  authentic  future  

  Sadly,  only  8%  of  the  world’s  population  have  goals  

  Even  more  tragic  is  that  only  3%  of  the  world’s  population  have  written  goals  

  It’s  been  repeatedly  studied  and  proven  that  people  who  write  down  their  goals  are  far  more  likely  to  achieve  them  

  We  know  this  and,  yet,  we  find  goal-­‐setting  immensely  difficult.  Why?  

  Most  people  struggle  with  creating  goals  because  they  don’t  have  a  vision  or  a  mission  for  their  lives  

  They  may  have  general  and  vague  ideas  of  where  they’d  like  to  “end  up”  such  as:  

  I’d  like  to  have  a  family    I’d  like  to  retire  at  55    I’d  like  to  own  my  own  business  one  day    I’d  like  to  be  healthier  

  The  problem  with  these  is  that  they’re  really  nothing  more  than  wishes  

  They  aren’t  objectives  and  they  aren’t  missions  or  visions  or  goals  

  Most  people  then  proceed  to  live  their  lives  not  doing  much  to  actually  see  them  through,  hence  the  struggle  or  boredom  can  sink  in  

  Instead,  we  need  to  create  a  vision  for  our  lives  and  then  work  backwards  into  what  we  need  to  do  each  day  to  move  ourselves  toward  that  vision.  

  You  may  be  tempted  to  dream  small  

  Don’t.  Most  people  are  tempted  to  set  the  bar  way  too  low  out  of  fear  

  Also,  be  on  guard  against  the  temptation  to  kill  your  dreams  before  you  even  begin  to  act  on  them  

  Ignore  that  voice  in  your  head  that  tells  you  you’re  being  ridiculous  and  that  you’ll  never  accomplish  it.  Don’t  let  it  win!    

  Pick  a  time  frame!  

  Depending  on  where  you  are  in  your  life,  first  pick  a  time  frame  of  5,  10,  or  20  years  

  It  must  be  at  least  5  years  out  and  you  can  go  out  further  than  20  years  if  you’d  really  like  to  

  In  case  you’re  wondering,  I  use  10  years  as  the  starting  point  for  myself,  but  don’t  feel  like  you  need  to  start  there  

  Try  5  years  if  this  seems  overwhelming.  

  Answer  the  question,  “Where  do  I  want  my  life  to  be  in  insert  time  frame  years?  

  What  do  I  want  to  be  doing  for  a  career?    Do  I  want  kids?      Do  I  want  to  be  married?    Do  I  want  to  have  start  a  business?    Do  I  want  to  be  50  pounds  lighter?    Do  I  want  to  be  more  involved  in  the  community?    Do  I  want  deeper  relationships?    How  much  money  would  I  like  to  be  making?  

  Just  write  it  all  down.  Don’t  edit  yourself.  Write  it  in  list  form  or  in  paragraph/story  form  –  whatever  works  for  you!  

 Write  your  gratitude's  for  receiving  your  goals    

  Thanks  the  universe  for  providing  your  dreams  

  Close  your  and  feel  the  LOVE  &  Gratitude    

  Key  1  –  listen  to  and  observe  yourself,  even  your  struggles  and  fears  are  there  to  guide  you!    

  Key  2  –  feel  your  spirit,  move  towards  your  purpose!    

  Key  3  –  everyone  is  an  opportunity  guiding  you  if  you  pay  attention  and  connection  

  Key  4  –  balance,  feel  your  way  through  nature!    

  Having  the  confidence  to  go  for  it  –  LOVING  every  moment  of  what  you  do,    eliminating  the    struggles  form  your  life  and  discovering  who  you  were  truly  born  to  be!  –  This  program  will  teach  you  how  to  do  it!    

  Having  crystal  clear  direction  in  your  life  –  heading  straight  towards  your  goals,  living  with  immense  passion,  purpose  ad  pride,  what  would  that  do  for  your  life?  

  Being  in  control  of  your  emotions  –  snapping    yourself  out  of  your  low  moods  and  directing  your  thoughts  so  your  mind  becomes  so  clear,  focused  and  free  from  all  the  worry  and  stress!  –  This  program  will  fix  it!      

  Creating  a  deeper  knowing  and  connection  -­‐  so  it  leads  you  to  making  a  MASSIVE  difference  in  your  life  an  the  life  of  others!  Your  membership  we  re  wire  you  for  authentic  and  inner  success!    

Climbing  the  mountain    

Facing  some  challenges    

Visiting  the  school    

“Thanks  For  Connecting”