1. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse I have always consideredmarriage as the most interestingevent of ones life, thefoundation of happiness ormisery. GEORGE WASHINGTON

2. Unit 8. Finding a Spousebackground past experience, includingb (, ) family life and educationspouseI () a husband or wifespecial features orcharacteristics qualities that make eachh ( person or thing different)from othersrelated to strong feelingsromanticg (, ) of love between a manand a womanproducej ()to make or create 3. Unit 8. Finding a Spouseleadership the ability to direct otherf (, ) people having a baby that has notpregnanta () been born yet growing in your bodyfertilitye (, ) the ability to have childrenraiseto take care of andc ()educatepolygamy the custom of having mored () than one wife at a time 4. Unit 8. Finding a SpouseIntroduction Different cultural background -> different forms of marriageWho Decide? by parents :Traditional Chineseculture of marriage by the young : The Hopi(kiva) Bavarian people(windowingDifferent Style of Marriage Oneida Community : group marriage The early Mormons : PolygamyConclusion Finding a spouse = important concerns in our lives 5. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 1st spouse : join together : (unite) right and wrong : a match maker : 6. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 1st All societies have theirown form of marriage. 7. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 2ndcharacteristic : no matter when or where = whenever or wherever no matter when or where they have lived : [no matter + ] [ + ever] . 8. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 2nd In traditional Chineseculture, marriagedecisions were made byparents for their children. 9. Unit 8. Findign a Spouse 3rd be impressed that ~ : ~ make : () ~ / He willmake an excellent scholar. . as a consequence (of A) : (A) 10. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 3rd Aspart of our culturalbackground, beliefs aboutmarriage can be asdifferent as the cultures ofthe world. 11. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 4thBavarian people of southern Germany : ; barbarian() leave A open : A so that could : ~ enter A : A fertility : , requirement : view : , marriage practices : 12. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 4th The Hopi culture is not theonly one that allowedyoung people to visit eachother at night. 13. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 5th hold : ( ) / He holdsthe same view with me. started = established group marriage : (2 1() 1 ) 14. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 5th Oneview of marriage thatsurprises most of us todaywas held by John Noyes, areligious man who startedthe Oneida Community inthe state of New York in1831. 15. Unit 8. Findign a Spouse 6th sect : polygamy : ; monogamy : ; bigamy : ; exogamy : ;endogamy : ; polyandry : the Mormon Church = the Church ofJesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints : ban : 16. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 6thAmore famous exampleof a different style ofmarriage is found amongthe early Mormons 17. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 7th commit : finding a spouse with whom we cancommit to spending a lifetime : concern : 18. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse 7th Marriageis a basic andimportant part of humanlife. 19. Unit 8. Findign a Spouse Read for Details1. A matchmaker helped by finding someone of the right age and background.2. A successful marriage was one that produced sons.3. Thirteen4. They stopped night visits if they thought a boy might not be a good husband.5. She would get pregnant. 20. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse Read for Details6. She wouldnt be able to get married.7. They believed unmarried women should not get pregnant.8. It didnt continue to exist because John Noyes had left the community.9. In 1890, polygamy was officially banned in the Mormon church. 21. Unit 8. Finding a SpouseREADING TWO : Whats Wrong with Tradition? 22. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse1~2 a business degree : business leadership : the questions that people ask me : 3 a happy one = a happy marriage for the first time : arranged marriage : as time passes : as time goes by( ), with the passages of time, inthe process of time everlasting : 23. Unit 8. Finding a SpousePaul Nguyen thinks dating romantically isF the best way to find a marriage partner.Paul thinks a happy marriage includesT deep friendship, love, and trust.His parents were in love with each otherF before the marriage.F Paul wants a different life than his parents.Paul thinks his parents can help find him aT good wife. 24. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse1. Parents choose the spouse because young peoplearent able to make a good decision by themselves. 25. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse1. Parents choose the spouse because young peoplearent able to make a good decision by themselves. Traditional Chinese, Vietnamese2. Family background is important in choosing aspouse. 26. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse1. Parents choose the spouse because young peoplearent able to make a good decision by themselves. Traditional Chinese, Vietnamese2. Family background is important in choosing aspouse. Traditional Chinese, Vietnamese3. Educational background is important in choosinga spouse. 27. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse1. Parents choose the spouse because young peoplearent able to make a good decision by themselves. Traditional Chinese, Vietnamese2. Family background is important in choosing aspouse. Traditional Chinese, Vietnamese3. Educational background is important in choosinga spouse.Traditional Chinese, Vietnamese 28. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse4. A girl must become pregnant to demonstrate herfertility before she can marry. 29. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse4. A girl must become pregnant to demonstrate herfertility before she can marry. Old Bavarian5. Marrying young is an important factor in choosinga spouse. 30. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse4. A girl must become pregnant to demonstrate herfertility before she can marry.Old Bavarian5. Marrying young is an important factor in choosinga spouse. Traditional Hopi, Early Mormons6. The boy and girl had a relationship before theymarried. 31. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse4. A girl must become pregnant to demonstrate herfertility before she can marry.Old Bavarian5. Marrying young is an important factor in choosinga spouse. Traditional Hopi, Early Mormons6. The boy and girl had a relationship before theymarried.Traditional Hopi, Old Bavarian 32. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse7. The goal of marriage is to produce sons who willbecome leaders in the family. 33. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse7. The goal of marriage is to produce sons who willbecome leaders in the family.Traditional Chinese8. If the girl becomes pregnant, she can shoose theboy she likes best to marry. 34. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse7. The goal of marriage is to produce sons who willbecome leaders in the family.Traditional Chinese8. If the girl becomes pregnant, she can shoose theboy she likes best to marry.Traditional Hopi9. If the girl becomes pregnant, the boy will ask herto marry him. 35. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse7. The goal of marriage is to produce sons who willbecome leaders in the family.Traditional Chinese8. If the girl becomes pregnant, she can shoose theboy she likes best to marry.Traditional Hopi9. If the girl becomes pregnant, the boy will ask herto marry him. Old Bavarian 36. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse10. Men and women practice group marriage inwhich they change partners frequently. 37. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse10. Men and women practice group marriage inwhich they change partners frequently. Oneida Community11. This group used to practice group polygamy, acustom in which the man can have more than onewife at a time. 38. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse10. Men and women practice group marriage inwhich they change partners frequently. Oneida Community11. This group used to practice group polygamy, acustom in which the man can have more than onewife at a time.Early Mormons12. If a woman cant get pregnant, she probablycant marry. 39. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse10. Men and women practice group marriage inwhich they change partners frequently. Oneida Community11. This group used to practice group polygamy, acustom in which the man can have more than onewife at a time.Early Mormons12. If a woman cant get pregnant, she probablycant marry.Traditional Hopi, Old Bavarian, Early Mormons 40. Unit 8. Finding a Spousep. 152 Arranged Traditional Chinese Marriage ( )Vietnamese Fertility-BasedTraditional HopiMarriage( )Old Bavarian Plural MarriageOneida Community()(group marriage)Polygamy, polyandry, group Early Mormons marriage (polygamy) 41. Unit 8. Finding a Spousep.153 love faithfully and lastingly : W a surprise : / romantic : ,C b , M c raise : , (grow, bring up)W d fertility : , broken heart : , ()C e syn. heartbreak 42. Unit 8. Finding a Spousep.153M f produce : characteristics : / looks : C g background : , leadership : , W h in a position of ~ : M I pregnant : C j spouse : M k be proud of A : A 43. Unit 8. Finding a Spousep.153 Smake : produce Rromantic : attracted to Apregnancy : infertility C/E romance : love marriageD enduring : everlasting Rmarriage : partner 44. Unit 8. Finding a Spousep.153D hurt : brokenhearted C/E fertility : pregnancy Ssociety : culture Ahard-working : lazy Rsupport : take care of Abride : groom 45. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse1. Did you know? + Who likes her most? Did you know who likes her most?2.Do you guess?+ Whom did she discuss? Whom do you guess she discussed?3.Do you think?+Who is the man? Who do you think the man is?4.Can you tell?+When did she buy it? Can you tell when she bought it? 46. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse5.When did she meet him?(Do you think) When do you think she met him?6.Do you believe?+What did he say? What do you believe he said?7. What can I do for you?(Do you imagine) What do you imagine I can do for you?8.Why is the baby crying?(Please tell me) Please tell me why the baby is crying. 47. Unit 8. Finding a Spouse9.Where was it made?(Did you say) Did you say where it was made? or Where did you say it was made?10. I ask him. Is she from Canada? I ask him if(whether) she is from Canada.11.Do you Know? Is it yours? Do you Know if(whether) it is yours?