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What do you
say when
you’re talking
to yourself?
Dr. Wade M. Larson
“Success is a
personal
standard,
reaching for the
highest that is
in us, becoming
all that we can
be.” -Zig Ziglar
INTRA-Personal Communication
Attitudes
Empathy
Self-Esteem
Commitments Decision Making
Interpersonal Awareness
Motivation
INTRA-Personal Communication
“What we can or cannot do,
what we consider possible or
impossible, is rarely a
function of our true
capacity. It is more likely a
function of our beliefs about
who we are.” -Tony Robbins
External Influence
Outside Pressure
Media and Society
Family and Friends
External Perception
Others’ Realities
Other Demands
REALITY
What influences
“REALITY”?
“Between
stimulus and
response is
our greatest
power – the
freedom to
choose…” -Stephen Covey
“The 7 Habits of Highly
Effective People”
Look for PROOF Confirm? Or Deny?
Beliefs create the filter through which “TRUTH” is defined
ACTION
ACTION
“By changing
the internal
state of mind,
people can
change the
outer aspects
of their
lives…” -William James
“As a Man Thinketh”
SELF CONFIDENCE
VISION OF WHAT IS POSSIBLE
CLARITY OF PURPOSE
PASSION
“Everything can be
taken from a man but
one thing; the last of
the human
freedoms…to choose
one’s attitude in any
given set of
circumstances. To
choose one’s own way.” -Victor Frankl
“Man’s Search for Meaning”
Does Self-Talk Work?
Study: Talking to yourself can boost your job
performance… ~Fast Company
What we say to ourselves has a
direct impact on our success – or failure…
~Psychology Today
Self regulated self-talk interventions positively
affect bench press performance…
~Univ. of Northampton
Study of 50 college students showed higher testing
outcomes after use of positive affirmations.
~Psychological Science
There is a large number of studies that confirm the positive effects of self-talk,
and relate to improving athletic performance, improvement of self-
confidence, as well as reducing anxiety…
~Facta Universitatis
Stress
Overwhelm
Self-Doubt
Pressures
Time Demands
Despair
“No one can
make you feel
inferior
without your
consent.” -Eleanor Roosevelt
Writing Your Success Script
PURPOSE
PASSION
PATH
(what)
(why)
(how)
BEGIN WITH
PURPOSE
What is
YOUR Story?
CONTINUE WITH
PASSION
Have a Big
Enough
WHY
FOLLOW YOUR
PATH
“It’s not who
you are
underneath,
it’s what you
do that
defines you” -Rachel
5 WAYS TO BEGIN
• Ready, Set Go
• CHOOSE your Dialogue
• Align Yourself
• Be Judicious
• Create Your Network
IT BEGINS WITH…
