Voorwoord 2

Die 10 gebooie 3

Tronkbediening 4

Botswana uitreik 5

Leo’s Village (Part 2) 6 - 17

Emmers vol Liefde 18

Hoe kan ek die evangelie met

my vriende en familie deel? 19

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So kom ons aan die einde van die jaar en kan ons terug kyk met dankbaarheid na

nog ‘n jaar wat verby is. Baie dankie aan elkeen wat ons hierdie jaar so getrou

ondersteun het op verskillende maniere. Elke mooi woord en gebed word opreg

waardeer. Ek wil ook graag elke sendingbestuurslid bedank vir hulle harde werk en

toewyding. Ons maak ‘n goeie span!!

Gebed is die stuurwiel wat ons op die regte pad stuur. Lees op bl. 3 die uiteensetting

van die 10 gebooie en maak dit deel van jou lewe. Op bl. 4 kan julle meer lees oor die

Nehemia kursus wat in die tronk aangebied gaan word en indien iemand

belangstel om te help met die aanbieding, kan julle die sendingkantoor skakel.

Die Botswana uitreik was ‘n groot sukses en almal het dit werklik baie geniet. Lees

die berig op bl. 5 en bespreek solank jou plek vir volgende jaar. Dit is ‘n belewenis!!

Soos belowe plaas ons die 2de gedeelte van Leo se storie in hierdie uitgawe.

Op bl. 18 kan julle lees oor die ontstaan van die Emmers vol liefde projek. Op bl. 19

deel ds Louw met ons van hoe om die Evangelie met ons vriende en familie te deel.

‘n Baie Geseënde Kerstyd word aan almal toegewens en mag elkeen hierdie vakansie

heerlik uitrus.

Ons 1ste uitgawe volgende jaar sal in Maart 2016 uitgegee word.

Groete uit die Sendingkantoor

1. 'n Gebed is nie soos 'n "spaarwiel" wat 'n mens slegs gebruik wanneer jy in die moeilikheid is nie; dit is jou "stuurwiel" wat jou deur jou lewe in die

rigting op die Regte pad stuur.

2. Het jy al gedink hoekom het 'n voertuig so groot WINDSKERM en slegs 'n klein truspieël? Omdat jou VERLEDE nie so belangrik is as jou TOEKOMS

nie. So kyk vorentoe en beweeg aan.

3. Vriendskap is soos 'n BOEK. Dit neem 'n paar sekondes om 'n boek te

verbrand, maar dit neem jare om dit te skryf.

4. Alle dinge in die lewe is TYDELIK. Wanneer dit goed gaan, geniet dit. Dit gaan nie vir ewig aanhou nie. Wanneer dit sleg gaan, moenie bekommer nie

want dit sal ook nie vir ewig aanhou nie.

5. Ou vriende is soos GOUD! Nuwe vriende is diamante! Wanneer jy 'n diamant

kry, moenie die goud vergeet nie! Diamante het altyd goud nodig om te set.

6. Soms wanneer 'n mens hoop verloor dink jy dit is die einde, GOD glimlag dan daar Bo en sê, "Kalmeer, my geliefde, dis slegs 'n draai in die pad en nie

die einde van die pad nie!"

7. Wanneer GOD jou probleme oplos, het jy geloof in sy bekwame vermoë; wanneer GOD nie jou probleme oplos nie het HY vertroue in jou

bekwaamheid.

8. 'n Blinde vra op 'n dag vir Paulus "Is daar iets erger as om jou sig te

verloor?" Paulus antwoord "Ja, om jou visie in die lewe te verloor."

9. Wanneer jy vir ander bid, luister GOD na jou en seën hulle! Soms wanneer

jy veilig en gelukkig is, onthou dat iemand anders vir jou gebid het.

10. Bekommernisse neem nie die moeilikhede van môre weg nie; dit neem die

vrede van vandag weg.

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Ons Gemeente is bevoorreg om toegelaat te word om die gevangenis met

die Evangelie te bedien in die vorm van die Nehemia Kursus.

Oor die afgelope drie jaar het reeds twee groepe mans en een groep vrouens die kursus voltooi en besondere vehoudings is daar gesmee in die

naam van Jesus.

Dit is ‘n erkende Bybelgerigte kursus wat aspekte van Christenskap aanspreek. Dit gee aan die student die vermoë om met ‘n positiewe

ingesteldheid die res van die gevangenis termyn, en dan ook die

terugkeer na die samelewing, sinvol te benader.

Ons is tans besig om die kursus uit te brei sodat ander aspekte van menswees aangespreek word en sal binne kort met nuwe groepe studente

begin.

Om in die behoefte te voorsien word toegewyde gemeentelede benodig [mans en vroue] wat Engels magtig is, om die lesse aan te bied.

[Sowat 2 uur per maand]

Indien jy belang stel om oorweeg en opgelei te word vir hierdie liefdestaak, kontak asb vir Juanita by die sending kantoor 018 294 6900 of stuur ’n

epos aan sending@ngkmiederpark.co.za

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Die geskiedenis van uitreike na Botswana en Malawi kom al vir jare. Onlangs het die sendingbestuur weer ‘n uitreik na

Botswana gereël.

Die uitreik onder leiding van Ds. Willem is meegemaak deur Willie en Freda Esterhuizen (Willie was ons penningmeester!)

Sannie van Niekerk, Ettienne Pretorius (kamp kommendant!), Grobbie Grobler (Hoof hoof Chef!), Andrie de Beer

(voertuigbestuurder), Sonja Bartlett en Annemie Esterhuizen.

Die doel van die uitreik was om Jerry en Magda persoonlik te ondersteun, voorrade saam te neem en enkele

bedieningspunte waar Jerry die evangelie bring, met die Jesusfilm te bedien. Annemie het saamgegaan om die

moontlikheid van onderwys in die gebied te ondersoek.

Die groep het met die sendingbediening se Quantum bussie gery asook ‘n 4x4 bakkie van Andrie de Beer. Die uitreik was

geseënd en sonder teenspoed.

Wat ons opgeval het is die greep van die droogte waarin die gebied verkeer en die primitiewe lewensomstandighede van

die plaaslike bevolking. Olifante stroom uit Afrika na die waterryke delta gebied in Botswana. Die gevolg is dat plaaslike

inwoners se eiendom en plaaaslike weiding erg beskadig word. Terwyl ons by Jerry onder die koeltebome in tente geslaap

het, moes ons kort-kort die Olifante probeer verwilder. Dit is niks vreemd om snags te hoor hoe die seekoeie hier by jou in

die water baljaar en agter jou tent die takke in die bos kraak soos Olifante bome verwoes nie. Ons het dan ook ‘n paar keer

die Olifante weggejaag. Jerry vertel dat Olifante die draadheining rondom die erf van hul beplande nuwe kerkgeboutjie ook

verwoes het.

‘n Hoogtepunt was die persoonlike stiltetyd en groepsBybelstudie wat van vroeg in die oggend tot so 11:00 gehou is. Ons

het die omgewing waarin Jerry bedien aan die groep gwys sodat hulle kon treugkeer met ‘n goeie idee van sy arbeidsveld

wat voorbidding makliker maak. Die groep het ook geleentheid gekry om die naturskoon van die omgewing te geniet deur

een oggend ‘n vinnige draai by ‘n wildsreservaat in Namibië te maak (net oorkant die grens) en ‘n vinnige bootrit op die

Okavango Delta (Andrie en jerry kan elk spog met ‘n tiervis tydens die rit). (Die ontspanning bring balans vir die tye van

opoffering en uitputting!)

Sannie van Niekerk beskryf haar belewenis op die uitreik soos volg: “In ‘n paar woorde: asome, amasing en baie geseënd.

Vir die eerste keer beleef ek dat ons ‘n lewendige God dien. Hy bowl my uit en slaan my vir ‘n ses. Die stiltetyd was net wat

ek nodig gehad het. God praat met my en wys my duidelik in waar ek gebruik moet word. En as ek nog getwyfel het, kom

gee hy my antwoorde uit sy natuur. Ek spandeer meer tyd as ooit om God se woord te lees en te oordink. My hele siening

oor alles verander ten goede. Die tye waar ons ook op die water was, was baie lekker, het ook die mooiste sonsondergang

beleef toe oom Andrie die tiervis gevang het. Natuurlik was die Olifante jaag ook lekker, maar ook skrikkerig – veral as jy

alleen in die donkerte is en almal skielik rondom jou verdwyn het. Dit was

so lekker met die wys van die Jesusfilm, - 80 kilos gery net sodat ‘n paar

mensies dit kon sien, dan besef jy dat jy regtig baie goed het om voor

dankbaar te wees. Opsomming: sielsverandering, ons dien waarlik ‘n lew-

ende God. Dankie dat ek deel was van die trippie!”

NS. Die volgende uitreik vind in Julie 2016 na Malawi plaas.

Boek nou jou plek!

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A severely burned boy from Africa and the community that took him in.

THE PHONE RANG AT 9:23 a.m. Darrell Minnich ordinarily wouldn’t have answered. It was

Sunday. In seven minutes, he’d be leading the service at Good Shepherd Christian Fellowship, his evangelical church in Needham. But on this morning, July 27, 2014, Minnich

had brought the church’s cordless handset with him into a prayer room, where he and his wife, June, were praying with a small group. The caller’s voice was polite and accented. When

Darrell heard the name, Alexis, he thought it was an African woman.

We’d like to come to church, the caller said. Is there anyone who could pick us up?

Darrell’s first thought was: Couldn’t you have planned this the night before? He spoke to June. She was willing to do the pickup. The address, also in Needham, was only a few miles away. When June pulled up on Central Avenue, she didn’t find a woman. She saw a man and a boy

in a baseball cap standing outside, smiling. She noticed the boy’s disfigured face right away

as they climbed into her minivan.

In his lilting voice, Alexis Gitungano, then 25, introduced himself and his 4-year-old

companion, Leo Ikoribitangaza. He told of their trip from Burundi to Boston so Leo could get treatment for severe burns he’d suffered as a 2-year-old. They’d arrived only a month before and were anticipating multiple surgeries at Shriners Hospital to rebuild Leo’s nose, lips, and

right eyelid. Shriners would do it all for free.

Alex, who now goes by his nickname, had found Good Shepherd by typing “church” and “Needham” — the town where they were staying — into Google. He’d called because their ride

had fallen through. Darrell was confused when Alex and Leo got there — where was the woman on the phone? But he wasn’t able to meet them yet. Before the service ended, he left

to preach at a Chinese church in downtown Boston.

June invited Alex and Leo to the house afterward for grilled cheese sandwiches, hot dogs, and

salad. She was immediately struck by Alex’s tenderness with Leo. Alex was not his father, not even a relative — just a faithful volunteer chaperoning Leo to America. “It’s not been easy,” he told June. “But God has spoken to me that I must treat him as my son.” Darrell finally met

them when he returned home after lunch. He noticed Leo’s damaged face for the first time. “I

was totally unprepared for what I saw,” he says.

Recognizing Alex as a kindred spirit, Darrell and June, who are both 60, raised the possibility

of him and Leo staying at their house — particularly after Darrell began probing their plan for room and board while in Boston. The truth was they didn’t really have one. The arrangements

they’d made back in Burundi hadn’t worked out as expected. After two weeks in a Charlestown hotel room, they were now staying temporarily with a Needham family. That was

an improvement. Meeting Darrell and June would turn out to be an even bigger blessing.

Here, finally, were pillars Alex and Leo could build a community around — the kind of

community Alex had craved since leaving the hospitality of East Africa. And build it they would, thanks to a motley group of New Englanders who would take them in, feed them, clothe them, buy them cellphones, toys, books, sneakers, and an iPad, take them to

appointments at Shriners, and provide love and encouragement when they needed it most.

These relationships, some born out of random encounters, would change the course of Alex and Leo’s lives. So, too, would they shape the lives of their patrons and new friends. Out of

nothing, a village would grow.

WHEN THEY LEFT the Charlestown hotel, in mid-July of last year, Alex and Leo moved into a guest room at Shriners. They had nowhere else to go. It was OK for a couple of days, but it

wasn’t designed for long stays. They had little privacy. A nurse once told Alex that Leo

shouldn’t play with another patient because the child had an infection.

Out of the blue, Shriners received a phone call from Nadeem Afridi, a Needham cardiologist. Afridi had a friend in Minnesota, a fellow doctor, who had somehow learned of Alex and Leo’s

trip to Boston. The friend asked Afridi to check up on them. Afridi and his wife, Fauzia Wali Khan, a psychiatrist, invited Alex and Leo to their home for lunch. They decided to keep them. “I just said, ‘No, you can’t be locked up for days in a little place,’ ” Khan says. Afridi and Khan

helped out when Leo’s scar started bleeding and when his hand swelled up from a bee sting.

As Afridi and Khan fasted for Ramadan, Alex made lunches for himself and Leo.

On Friday, July 18, Afridi came home from work and took Alex and Leo to the playground at

nearby Newman Elementary School. Janet Waters happened to be there. She was watching a 3-year-old boy, Cameron, while his parents, who lived across the street, were at dinner. Waters went over to pet Afridi’s black Labradoodle, Pasha. Leo and Cameron began playing

together.

Waters assumed Leo was Alex’s son. She started asking Alex questions. Alex shared their story — the voyage from Burundi, the expected procedures at Shriners, how down they’d felt

in Charlestown. It wasn’t the idle sideline chatter one typically hears at a playground. “I was getting a little bit worked up,” says Waters, who is 58. When Alex began talking about his

faith, she felt a deeper connection. His vision of Christianity mirrored hers.

Alex played guitar during a Sunday service at a Lutheran church in Hingham. 7

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Then Waters had a thought: What if this is some kind of con? What if none of it’s true? She

excused herself and approached Afridi, asking him if Alex’s story checked out. Afridi assured her it did. Waters went back to Alex. Leo and Cameron ran together with Pasha. When it

started to get dark, Waters and Alex exchanged phone numbers. She wanted to help but

didn’t know how. She invited them to her Hingham church.

Not long after, Alex texted her to say Afridi could bring them the next Sunday. It’s a safe bet that nowhere else in Greater Boston that morning was a Muslim doctor from Pakistan

bringing a Burundian evangelical Christian to a predominantly white Lutheran church. Waters took Alex and Leo to Panera for lunch afterward, then back to Afridi and Khan’s

house. Waters soon sat down and composed an e-mail to friends and family. “My head is spinning with ideas about how I can help make Alex and Leo more at home during their stay in this country,” she wrote. The following Sunday, Waters went out of town to visit her sister.

That was the day Alex found Darrell Minnich’s church.

And on it went. Day by day, new people entered Alex and Leo’s orbit, each with a unique means to help. Gradually, over the coming months, a magical network emerged. It was a

nomadic, exhausting way to live — bouncing from house to house, not knowing whom they could rely on next. But it proved tenable enough. Alex and Leo stayed briefly with Dina Chu, the woman who had picked them up at Logan Airport and paid for their room in Charlestown.

Cameron’s parents took them in for a few days. They went to stay in New Hampshire with

relatives of people Alex had met in Rwanda.

They met Paul Chernoff, a semi-retired Superior Court judge, one day on the Green Line after

Chernoff offered up his seat. Chernoff had just read the novel Wonder, about a boy with a facial deformity, and was moved to talk to them. “I took one look at Leo and I wanted to hug him,” he said. They remained in touch. Chernoff later raised some money for Alex and Leo

and gave Alex a driving lesson. He also took them to the New Balance outlet to buy Alex running shoes and Leo blue and green sneakers. The staff was so taken with their story that

they gave Chernoff a steep discount.

Leo’s zest for life, despite all he’s been through, is infectious. His cackle seems to carry for miles. But it is Alex’s magnetism, too, that attracts people. His sweet disposition and big heart are immediately apparent. He exudes a kind of saintly propriety. He often appears

happy, though one gets the sense he sometimes puts on a good face for others’ benefit.

Alex and Leo took a break from schoolwork to play together at the Needham house

of Darrell and June Minnich.

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It was Alex’s beatific nature that first drew in Nate Criser. A 39-year-old from West Yarmouth,

Criser is a part-time pastor and director of maintenance at a seasonal resort. One Sunday last August, he was the guest preacher at Heart Change Fellowship, a Jamaica Plain church. Alex

had a friend he’d met in Burundi whose sister went there. On this Sunday, Alex and Leo came

to church with her. They found seats near the front.

When Criser arrived, he sat down nearby. He turned around, said hello, and inquired about their story. Alex gave a brief summary. Criser told Alex he wanted to talk more after the

service. It was Alex’s first time at the church and Criser’s first time preaching there. His sermon drew from a passage in the Book of Luke, which tells of Jesus in the time of his

resurrection.

After the service, Alex and Criser talked for an hour. “Our hearts were really connected,” Alex says. Criser asked Alex if he knew where they’d be staying over the long term. Alex said he didn’t know, but that every day they’d been in America they’d had enough to eat and beds to

sleep in. He was fearful at times, but he trusted that God would continue providing. “If you ever need a place to stay, that answer is always yes,” Criser told Alex. They exchanged phone

numbers, prayed together, and said goodbye.

Soon after, Alex learned that he and Leo would have to leave the home where they were staying because the family had guests coming. Alex called Criser, who picked them up and moved them into the home he shares with his wife, Susannah, and their two teenage

daughters, Abbey and Noel. The girls took to Alex and Leo, who became regulars at their volleyball and basketball games. “They have brought so much richness and fullness to our

life,” Criser says.

Between Shriners appointments, Alex and Leo have also spent time in Colorado and Idaho,

flown out by missionary friends they’d known in Burundi — including Ladd and Carley Serwat, the young couple who had helped engineer their trip to the United States; Ladd and

Carley had since moved back to Idaho. But mostly, over the 10 months Alex and Leo have been in America, they have stayed with Criser and his family on the Cape, and with Darrell and June Minnich — “Mama June” to Leo — in Needham. “We feel at home,” Alex says. “We

feel loved.”

Nate Criser (at right) and his family opened their West Yarmouth home to Leo and Alex

after a chance meeting.

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Alex has tried not to take the generosity for granted. This past winter, he overcame his shock

at the epic snowfall and cleared roofs, chipped ice from driveways, and shoveled out cars. He does the dishes. He’s conscientious to a fault. “Their personalities help us want to help,”

Darrell says. June adds: “We feel we are part of this amazing story. It’s a privilege.” Janet Waters, who has remained close with Alex and Leo since that evening at the playground, still marvels at how it’s all unfolded. As she wrote to her friends and family last year, “What funny

twists and turns life takes.”

LEO IS RECLINING ON an exam table, one leg propped on the other. He’s come to Shriners for a checkup in mid-March, but he looks like he’s watching a football game at a friend’s

house.

“Can I just stay like this?” he asks the nurse.

“If you like,” she says. “It’s your world. We’re just a part of it.”

Leo then lies flat on his back. He’s studying two whales painted on the ceiling tiles.

“I don’t like the whale,” he says to no one in particular, as if he’s been speaking English for

years. Leo’s doctor, Richard Ehrlichman, comes into the exam room.

“Hey, how are you, buddy?” he says.

“What are you doing?” Leo asks him.

“I’m waiting to see you!” Ehrlichman says.

Ehrlichman, 58, is one of the staff plastic surgeons at Shriners and Massachusetts General Hospital. He has performed all of Leo’s procedures in Boston. He’s also deputy commander of the Massachusetts National Guard’s medical command, deploying as a battalion surgeon to

Afghanistan for several months in 2011 and 2012.

Leo playfully climbed onto an exam table at Shriners Hospital in Boston.

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When Leo first came to Shriners last summer, a serious infection in his right eye delayed his

initial surgery. Once it was gone — after Alex spent a couple weeks applying eyedrops three times daily — Ehrlichman repaired, over the course of several months, the upper and lower

eyelids of Leo’s right eye, and then fashioned new lips. In both areas, Ehrlichman eased tension caused by scar tissue and rebuilt Leo’s features using skin grafts from elsewhere on

his body. Leo’s progress, even to an untrained eye, is plain.

Grafts are critical to burn treatment, because doctors need new tissue when they release

contractures. It’s like the opposite of getting stitches: Ehrlichman pulls apart a damaged area and uses fresh skin to patch the holes. In taking grafts, he can remove skin layers as thin as twelve-1,000ths of an inch. The harvested tissue adapts and thrives in its new environment,

and skin regenerates where the graft was taken.

Overall, Leo has handled his procedures well. “Nothing really fazed him,” says his care

coordinator at Shriners, Taya Zbell Cloonan. But after Ehrlichman worked on Leo’s lips, a couple days before Christmas, the recovery was hard. They were staying with the Crisers on

the Cape. Leo, his face obscured by a mask, could only eat soft foods like yogurt, mashed potatoes, and soup. Sometimes Alex fed him by putting dabs in Leo’s mouth. Leo’s favorites,

like pizza, were off limits. He couldn’t run around.

“Alex, can I do that?” he would ask when he saw other kids playing.

“No,” Alex told him, which made Leo angry.

One day soon after the surgery, Criser and his family went to church while Alex stayed with

Leo in their basement room. Leo was in pain. He wouldn’t stop crying. He didn’t want to watch cartoons or really do anything. Alex felt helpless and tired. He lay down next to Leo on

the bed and prayed. Criser’s wife, Susannah, came home and found them. She told Alex that as a mom, she understood how Alex was feeling. She said she would stay with Leo for a while, so Alex could get a break. Alex went to walk the beach. He felt guilty, as if he should be giving

Leo better care. “What do I need to do?” he wondered. “Where can I improve?”

“God, help me,” he prayed.

Dr. Richard Ehrlichman, who has performed all of Leo’s surgeries in Boston, pointed to a

picture taken during one of Leo’s appointments.

Susannah’s warmth felt like a gift. Alex needed the encouragement. “I’m the kind of person,

when I’m going through a hard time, I don’t want to keep things in my heart,” he says.

Shriners, too, has been a source of support. The staff taught him how to care for Leo — how to clean him, apply cream on his scars, and massage his skin. The hospital’s partnership with

Massachusetts Eye and Ear Infirmary afforded them expert care for Leo’s damaged eye. Early

on, Cloonan showed Alex how to use voice mail. They practiced at her desk.

Once Shriners accepts a child for treatment, the hospital fully commits. With burns, doctors often have to space out surgeries, because children’s bodies grow and change. Some patients will come back to Shriners year after year into early adulthood. The blueprint for Leo, such as

it’s known, is that he’ll go home to Burundi within a few months and return to Shriners a year later. His progress and his growth would dictate future surgeries. Ehrlichman’s hope is that 25 years from now Leo can walk down the street without most people noticing the skin

grafts. “I’d like his face to represent who he is inside, which is just this amazing kid,”

Ehrlichman says.

At the March appointment, Ehrlichman shares with Alex his plan for an April surgery, detail-

ing how he will release contracted tissue on the right side of Leo’s face and reposition and rebuild his nose. Alex cannot hide his nervousness, not with December’s difficult recuperation in mind. “It’s going to be a big one,” Alex says. Leo, meanwhile, notches a small victory. For

now, his medical team tells him, he can stop wearing the mask that protects his grafts.

Afterward, Alex and Leo walk from the exam room to visit Cloonan, who keeps one of Leo’s drawings, a constellation of circles in rainbow colors, taped to a file cabinet. Leaving her of-

fice, newly liberated from the mask, Leo is running in the hallway, putting his face into the

wind.

“I’M SMART. I’m wonderful. I’m handsome.”

Every morning or night, Alex makes Leo recite these words in the mirror. Even before Leo

knew English, Alex made him say it.

Just as he did with Freddy Uwizeyimana, the burn victim he helped back in Africa, Alex sees

Leo’s self-esteem as his project. He wants Leo, who’s otherwise built like a typical 4-year-old, to accept how he looks, to play freely like other kids, to proudly inherit everything he has

coming to him. “Sometimes the world will tell us, ‘You’re not good’ because of what happened — you get burned, your nose is gone, or you have one leg,” Alex says. “So I

was like, ‘I need to do something.’ ”

Every morning following Leo’s December 2014 surgery, Alex gently removed Leo’s

mask to wash his face and apply ointment to his skin.

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The two of them spend nearly every waking hour together. Most days, Alex home-schools Leo,

teaching him math and how to read, write, and speak English using Sesame Street stories, workbooks, and an electronic spelling machine. Leo’s command of the language floors people

who knew him when he first arrived. Nate Criser remembers when the word “gentle” prompted

Leo to wrestle harder.

Alex puts straws in Leo’s Capri Suns. He brushes Leo’s teeth. He reads to him before bed and teaches him Bible verses. He scolds him when Leo isn’t carrying scissors safely. “Ah-LIXXX!”

Leo says when he needs something.

“He loves me so much, and I love him so much,” Alex says. He even makes corny parent

jokes, which Leo does his best to tolerate.

“Are you Baby Leo?” Alex asks him one morning at the Minniches’ house in Needham, shortly

after Leo wakes up.

“No! Big!” Leo says.

“You’re Big Daddy? You are Leo Banana?”

“Nooo.”

During one of their near-daily home-school sessions, Alex

taught Leo how to add numbers using a marker board and

wooden blocks.

“When he’s happy, I’m happy,” Alex says.

“When Leo is angry, I’m angry.”

A little while later, Alex rests his laptop on the dining room table and plays “My God Is Good,”

a gospel song from the South African group Joyous Celebration. Here in the middle of breakfast — a bowl of Trader Joe’s O’s for Leo, toast and Korean honey citron tea for

Alex — they begin dancing.

“Shake your body!” Alex says. “Shake your body!”

Leo shimmies in front of the radiator, sunlight streaming in the window behind him. “When he’s happy, I’m happy,” Alex says later. “When Leo is angry, I’m angry.” Not only is Alex getting a crash course in parenting, Darrell Minnich notes, but in a foreign country and in

the spotlight, always in the homes of others.

Leo, meanwhile, becomes more Americanized every day. He’s fluent in cartoons and video games. He could work an iPhone in his sleep. He has nice clothes and eats well. He’s

developed a taste for ice cream.

Around New Year’s, Alex called Leo’s parents in Burundi and put Leo on. His mom called him Iko, his nickname back home. “I’m not Iko. I’m Leo,” he said. Alex grabbed the phone to explain. In Kirundi — Leo’s first language — she asked Leo how he was and whether he was

going to celebrate the new year. But Alex and Leo had, over the previous months, been speaking less Kirundi and more English. On the phone, Leo would only speak English, which

his mom didn’t understand. She was happy, though. She recognized the value of what he was

learning.

Alex, too, has grown. He’s improved his own English and picked up local idioms and customs. He’s learned to emulate American pronunciation of names and how to tell their story more

succinctly, to make it easier to grasp. His sense of humor is sharper, his radar for sarcasm more advanced. He’s experienced the charms of Boston, the serenity of the Cape, the awe of

the Rocky Mountains, the big skies of Idaho.

Mostly Alex’s life right now is about sacrifice. But through church performances and borrowed guitars, he’s been able to develop his love of music. More important he’s gained valuable friendships, the one gift — next to his faith — that he cherishes above all else. “I

need,” he says, “to have friends everywhere in the world.”

IT’S A SATURDAY MORNING in February, and Boston is bracing for another blizzard. Alex and Leo escape just in time, boarding a plane for several weeks in Idaho with Ladd and

Carley Serwat. Every time he flies, it seems, Leo is fawned over. This trip is no different. Before long, he’s walking the aisle with the Delta flight attendants collecting trash — a bit fast, but he gets the job done. After landing, he’s invited into the cockpit. He presses every

button and switch he can reach. He is not shy.

“We’re going to have to get you an airplane,” the pilot says.

The next morning, Leo’s star burns brighter. Ladd and Carley have brought him and Alex to Anthem Friends, the church in Hayden, Idaho, that’s been supporting Leo’s treatment and

his and Alex’s journey. Leo is greeted in the lobby with fist bumps and hugs. Having them at Anthem — witnessing their progress and good spirits — validates the congregation’s

involvement. “Oh, you’re here! Wonderful!” a woman says to Alex.

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When the service begins, it begins like a rock show. The sanctuary, filled with several hun-

dred people, goes dark. Red and blue lights illuminate the stage, a cross silhouetted on the back wall. A house band leads worshippers through a set of contemporary gospel songs.

Carley thrusts her hands to the sky.

Leo is high-fiving people behind him. Alex, standing in the front row, here at the intersection of music and faith, looks very much in his element. He pulls his hands toward his body,

letting the spirit inhabit him as he sings:

Your presence is all I need

It’s all I want

It’s all I seek

Without it, there’s no meaning

When Anthem first heard about Leo, the church had already been talking about shifting its outreach toward helping one or two people in a deep way, instead of helping many people marginally. Leo’s case presented a perfect opportunity, says Dave Scammell, the church’s

missionary work coordinator. Anthem’s support for Leo is only beginning, he says. “I kind of foresee the church watching him grow. It’s going to be a secondary family that has a role in

his life on an ongoing basis.”

THE FLUORESCENT LIGHT overhead is harsh, especially for 6 in the morning. But it’s not enough. Leo remains asleep, tucked under a green blanket on a twin bed in their third-floor guest room at Shriners Hospital. When Alex finally rouses him, Leo, wearing red and black

pajamas with the word “AWESOME” on the chest, wipes the sleep from his eyes and sits up.

“God will be with you in the operating room,” Alex says as they pray together.

Today, April 21, a Tuesday, is a big day. In a couple of hours, Leo will undergo his latest procedure, in which Richard Ehrlichman will repair his nose and right cheek. Alex is trying to prepare Leo — and steel himself. “He’s going to make your face better and better and better,”

Alex says. “You’re going to be a more handsome boy.”

After bathing and dressing Leo, Alex leads them out of the guest room toward the elevators. He drops a small neon-green basketball on the carpet and kicks it ahead of him. Leo scampers forward and sends it back, the ball skipping through the empty corridor. He

could be, in this stolen moment, any other soccer-loving boy.

In a small room at Shriners Hospital, Alex woke Leo

before his most recent surgery.

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Alex carried Leo into the operating room before his April 21

surgery at Shriners.

Alex’s nerves build in the preop room, where he changes Leo into a sky-blue gown and

sea-foam green hospital socks. As doctors and nurses ready Leo for surgery, Leo laughs at the Disney Junior cartoon on the TV and checks Alex’s ear with a red toy otoscope. “Hola, hola,”

Alex sings along with a pretend laptop Shriners keeps in a bucket of distractions. When it’s time to go, Alex picks Leo up in his arms like a baby, carrying him through the double doors,

past the seascape mural painted on the nursing station, and into the operating room.

An hour and 45 minutes later, Ehrlichman bounds into the parents’ waiting room with good news: The surgery has gone better than expected. Releasing the compression next to Leo’s

nose has opened up his right nostril, making it less likely Leo will need another major

procedure before returning to Burundi.

“It all sort of fell into place,” Ehrlichman, wearing a cap with a military fatigue pattern, tells

Alex. “I’m very, very happy.”

“I’m so excited about that,” Alex says, his relief apparent.

When Leo wakes up, Alex visits him in a recovery room. Leo is wearing a new mask, to

maintain pressure on a skin graft Ehrlichman took from Leo’s left thigh. Alex eases onto the hospital bed next to Leo and gently strokes his head. Leo is quiet. Alex fishes a white straw

into his mouth. Leo sucks down a carton of apple juice. Alex tells him how strong he is, how

brave. “I’m proud of you,” he says softly. “I’m proud of you, Leo.”

EVERY DAY, THE QUESTION looms larger: What happens next?

As of mid-April, Alex, now 26, and Leo, who turns 5 this month, were expecting to return to Burundi this summer. Leo, presumably with Alex, would then come back to Boston some

time next year. But just about everyone helping them in the United States is worried. How can Leo go from a comfortable American life, where he wants for little, back to a rural

existence in Africa, competing with his nine siblings for food? “What is that going to look like,” says Anthem’s Al Willette, a pastor and community groups coach from Post Falls, Idaho. “My

heart has been breaking over this.”

Ehrlichman says he’s not that concerned about Leo’s wounds when he returns, or about him

getting an infection. What worries him is a head injury. Leo’s scarred scalp would not afford

him much protection from trauma, he says.

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Alex has tried, during their time in Boston, to maintain Leo’s connection to his family, and to

Burundi. He will pull out a photograph of Leo’s parents and siblings gathered in the sun outside their house. They’ll go through everyone’s names one by one. But exactly how

attached Leo feels to his village and family is hard to know. He’s all but forgotten Kirundi. Just as Alex buffered Leo’s transition to America, so, too, will he likely have to buffer Leo’s return. “I know it’s going to be a challenge for him,” Alex says. “I don’t have the answer to

that question.”

Alex, Ladd, and Carley have thought hard about easing Leo’s reentry. They’ve asked friends to talk to his parents, to prepare them for the difficulties Leo may face. They’ve considered keeping him a while in Bujumbura, the Burundian capital, before he goes back home. Ladd

and Carley may travel to Burundi this summer to help. “He’s way too brilliant to be like, ‘Have a great life in your village!’ ” Carley says. “He has five parents. That’s what it comes

down to.”

Leo’s mom and dad say through a translator that it’s sad Leo is so far away, but it wouldn’t trouble them if he could somehow remain in America. In Burundi, Leo’s father says, “There’s really no future.” One day, he says, the family would love to follow Leo here. Leo’s mom

wishes she could pick up everyone who has helped Leo and hug them. “What they’ve done is

just incredible,” she says.

It’s hard to see too far ahead. Judge Paul Chernoff, for one, has investigated whether Leo, if

he returns to the States as a 6-year-old, could stay and attend a residential school. For its part, Shriners generally encourages children to spend as much time at home with their families as possible. The uncertainty is unsettling, Carley says, but she has faith that God,

after all he’s done for Leo, has a master plan. “God is not going to be like, ‘Oh, crap! I forgot

about him going back. Now what?’ ”

For Alex, Burundi’s recent political strife complicates his feelings about returning. He would

still likely find some relief being back home, at least for a while. He misses his family. Plus, all the moving around, the constant reliance on others’ generosity, takes a toll. That tug he felt in the beginning — between supporting his mom and going off to help Leo — remains.

Alex’s mother, Rachelle, says she feels his absence and hopes he will contribute to the family.

She recognizes, though, the blessing he is for Leo. “God gave him a good heart,” she says.

“I don’t know where God is taking me,” Alex says. “My desire is to help Leo to the end — until

he looks better, until everything is done.” He adds, “I believe Leo has a great future.”

IN DECEMBER 2013, a few days after Alex returned with Leo from Rwanda — their first trip out of Burundi together, so doctors could evaluate Leo’s eye — Alex was sitting at home talk-ing to his mother. He was reflecting on this strange direction his life had taken. Why was he

helping this little boy he hardly knew? What was motivating him?

That’s when the memory popped in his head. He saw himself more than 20 years earlier, a child a little younger than Leo. He saw the gas lamp in his family’s house. He saw himself

playing with it. He saw himself being scalded. Twice.

“Hey, Mom, do you remember that I was burned by a petrol lamp?” he said, lifting up the vest he was wearing, to see if he still had the scars. He did. Maybe there was a deeper reason he was doing this, he thought. Maybe this calling he felt — this chapter of his life — had been

determined long ago.

“You’re right,” his mother answered him. “You were an active boy.”

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Hoe kan ek die evangelie met my vriende en familie deel? Artikel deur: Ds. Willem Louw

Wanneer iemand elke dag saam met jou leef (familie of kollegas), dryf jy hulle dikwels teen die mure uit as jy gedurig vir

hulle “preek” of hulle tereg wys. So, hoe kan ek die evangelie met hulle deel op ʼn wyse wat hulle nie van my af wegdryf

nie?

Die eerste en belangrikste is: Bid vir die persone! Vra dat God hul hart sal verander en hul oë sal open vir die waarheid van die

evangelie (2Kor.4:4). Dat God hul sal oortuig van Sy liefde vir hulle en hul behoefte aan verlossing deur Jesus (Joh.3:16). Vra by

God wysheid hoe om hulle te bedien (Jak.1:5).

Ontwikkel ʼn vertrouensverhouding: Word ʼn vriend van die persoon met wie jy die evangelie wil deel. Luister en luister weer

met die bedoeling om die persoon te verstaan, en nie met die bedoeling om ʼn antwoord te gee of te veroordeel nie. Plaas jouself

in die persoon se omstandighede.

Respekteer die persoon en hanteer die persoon liefdevol. Wanneer jy iemand so hanteer, beteken dit nie jy keer sondige

optrede goed nie en jy hoef ook nie deel te neem aan sulke optrede nie. Inteendeel, leef volgens jou beginsels en waardes.

Mense kry respek vir iemand wat opreg is oor hul waardes.

Kyk uit vir geleenthede waar jy kan oorgaan tot ʼn geestelike gesprek. Sluit in jou gesprek aan by dinge wat vir die persoon

kosbaar is (sport/ stokperdjies/werk/ onderwerpe waarin die persoon belangstel). Wanneer hierdie persoon jou vertrou en as

opreg beleef, sal daar op ʼn natuurlike wyse in die gesprek geleentheid kom om die waarheid van die evangelie met die persoon

te deel. (Jesus stel die voorbeeld in Joh.4 met die Samaritaanse vrou by die put).

Dit is altyd beter om te wag vir geleenthede waar julle in stilte, ongestoord en alleen met mekaar kan kommunikeer. Wanneer

die persoon persoonlike dinge met jou deel, is dit belangrik om dit as vertroulik te hanteer.

Sluit aan by voorbeelde wat die evangelie verstaanbaar maak. Dit is goed om aan die persoon te wys dat jy nie ʼn volmaakte

mens is nie, dat jy ook foute het, maar dat jy genade en verlossing by Jesus Christus gevind het. Voorbeeld uit jou eie lewe kan

die persoon help om te besef dat jy eg en opreg is.

Gebruik Skrifgedeeltes om die waarheid van die Woord oor te dra. Jy kan maar jou Skrifgedeeltes spaarsamig gebruik sodat jy

nie die persoon oorweldig of probeer beïndruk nie. Dit is egter belangrik dat jy ʼn paar waarhede met ʼn Skrifgedeelte

onderstreep. Die heilige Gees praat veral duidelik deur die Skrif.

Voorbeelde:

* Almal het gesondig en is vêr van God – (Rom.3:23)

* Ons word uit genade gered – (Ef.2:8-9)

* God is genadig en vol liefde, maar ook regverdig – (1Joh.4:8b en Eks.34:7b

* Wie Jesus Christus is en wat Hy vir jou gedoen het – (Joh.3:16)

* Geloof is die manier waarop ons verlossing ontvang – (Joh.6:47; Hd.16:31)

* Jesus waarborg dat die wat Hom as Verlosser aanneem, seker van hul redding kan wees

– (Opb.3:20 en Joh.10:27-28)

Wat die persoon moet weet:

* Die ewige lewe is ʼn gratis geskenk. Jy kan dit nie verdien of verwerf nie.

* Die mens is ʼn sondaar en kan homself nie red nie.

* God die Vader is genadig, maar ook regverdig en sal sonde straf.

* Wie is Jesus en hoe het die Vader Hom gestuur om ons te kom verlos?

* Geloof is die manier waarop ons hierdie verlossing in besit neem.

* ʼn Lewe van gehoorsaamheid aan God se Woord, bring blywende vreugde.

Word ʼn mentor:

Wanneer iemand geloofsekerheid ontvang het, is daardie persoon broos en breekbaar, soos ʼn jong plantjie wat in ʼn kwekery

staan. Jy moet bereid wees om as mentor vir daardie persoon op te tree. Stel ʼn voorbeeld met jou eie lewe. Neem daardie

persoon onder jou beskerming en beglei die persoon deur die slaggate van die lewe. Leer die persoon om in te skakel in die

gemeenskap van gelowiges. Leer die persoon hoe om Bybelstudie te doen en te bid. Leer die persoon om te getuig. Om die storie

van die wonder wat God in sy/haar lewe gedoen het met ander te deel.

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