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Reverse Your Break Up – 15 Ways to Win Your Ex BackBy Tigress Luv, the Breakup Guru

(http://tigressluv.com)

(NOTE: this pdf report is meant to be FREE and given out as a courtesy gift available ONLY from Tigress

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Breaking up is such a difficult thing to go through because it always feels as if no one

understands what you are going through. Ironically – and sadly - there are plenty of

people out there who do know exactly what you are feeling. Especially me! And one of

those feelings is the intense desire to get back together. Fortunately, there are several

ways that this reunion can happen because the act of reversing a break up actually

happens quite often.

One such way for this to happen is to avoid the begging and crying to ‘take you

back’. All this does is ‘devalue’ you in their eyes. The more you beg and plead the less

worth you appear to have.

The second thing you will want to do to win back your ex is to minimize one-

on-one contact. Your ex obviously wants some time away, so give it to him or her.

By having time apart you are giving them something to ‘miss’. Your absence can create

a sense of ‘loss’ to them, making them place a higher value on YOU and tricking their



heart into wanting you back to fill this void. Absence truly does make the heart grow

fonder. ‘Out-of-sight, out-of-mind’ only applies when you know you WILL be with

someone again at a later time.

Number three on the list of how to win your ex back is to get out of the house.

Even if you feel like staying home and being alone, it is important to get out there and

appear strong and have fun.

The more you sit around and mope the less appealing you are. Also, just the thought of

you moving on with your life will make you seem more appealing to your ex. They may

‘think’ that they don’t want you anymore, but the odds are in your favor that they don’t

want anybody else to have you, either.

For number four, it is important to be yourself. There was a reason the two of

you were attracted to each other in the first place; so changing your personality is not

the way to go to reverse a break up. Of course, if you have changed over the course of

the relationship in a negative way , then by all means it would be in your advantage to

find that old, happy self you once were. Women, for more help with that please read my

report on how to ‘Make Him Love You Again’. You can find it at:

http://makehimloveyou.com.



Number five should include accepting why the break up happened. You’ll be

closer to reversing a break up if you know why it happened to begin with. Perhaps there

were specific problems that really should be addressed and a mutual remedy can be

reached? Things are not hopeless! Men, there are excellent resources for this at ‘Win

My Girl Back’. You can find it at: http://winmygirlback.com.

For six, if you have been good and have had NO contact with your ex, you

could now try setting up a meeting with your ex just to talk. It could lead to you trying to

win your ex back, but do not bring this up at the meeting. Be sure to be cheerful and not

clingy. Keep the conversation light and casual. Do not talk about the bad stuff, and don’t

point fingers or try to deny any wrongdoing on your part.

Your attitude, the way you carry yourself, and your physical appearance are all very

crucial in this step. You must SHINE, baby, SHINE!

The next thing to do to reverse a break up is to apologize. You can then work

on your flaws that eventually led to the break up. By apologizing and taking the blame

you eliminate your ex’s need to ‘flee’ from you, and you release the NUMBER ONE

UGLY that turns them off – the ‘UGLY’ of trying to defend yourself or your actions. It



only makes them want to be away from you even more. This is explained in more detail

in my report ‘Break Repair ’. Point your browser to http://endingrelationships.com to visit

the website and read the report.

For number eight to win your ex back, you must be as nice as possible

anytime you see them. Do not start fights. Do not glare. Do not accuse. Keep your chin

up and grin and bear it…no matter how difficult it may be your dignity must remain

intact. You also can act polite yet still somewhat disinterested; nothing drives an ex

crazier than thinking he/she really wasn’t all that important to you after all! And some

times nothing makes them want you back more than thinking this way.

Number nine calls for you to be strong and to know yourself. It amazes me

how little in touch with themselves people can really be. Most people who do not know

‘themselves’ latch on to other people and then fall apart should that other person leave

them. When you identify yourself through another you lose your identity should the

relationship end. Take this time apart to get to ‘know thyself’.

Number ten on the get back together list is to be flexible. You were a part of

the break up, so you will have to change a little bit. Compromise on things; learn to be a



little less demanding and a lot more appreciative. When you stand firmly on your side of

the fence, refusing to budge, you will most likely remain just ‘neighbors’ and nothing

more.

Number eleven on the win your ex back list is to move on with your life. By

remaining stagnant and caught in the ‘yesterdays’ you lose your ability to be seen as a

revived and revamped person – and thus losing any real possibility of restarting the

relationship. Your ex wants to see a side of you that is more desirable than the one he

or she has ‘left’.

A great resource for recovering from a relation loss can be found in my report ‘How to

Get Over a Breakup’. To reach this report, please point your browser to

http://overabreakup.com.

Show them reasons why they should be with you. Make yourself and your life

fantastic! Show them what a catch they lost! And of course this entails knowing how to

regain your attraction, because when someone breaks up with you it means that

somewhere along the way they lost their attraction to you. I can tell you all about

regaining your attraction at http://winbacktheirattraction.com. In fact, most people who

‘dump’ someone will then focus all their energy concentrating on that person’s flaws and

faults, and the loss of their attraction to them then just escalates and escalates.



In other words, if they left you that means that (to them) you are becoming increasingly

‘less’ attractive to them each and every day. It is very important that you learn how to

stop this loss of attractiveness in order to gain them back.

If you want to get back together, you’ll also want to find a new hobby, career,

or lifestyle that makes YOU happy. They’ll see a new and HAPPY person and may want

to reverse the break up. Study after study shows that people rarely break up with happy,

cheerful partners. So do something that makes you happy and cheerful.

Also, show them you have other options. Yes, it’s perfectly okay to date again!

Who knows, a new mate might just show you that your ex really isn’t the ‘be-all’ that you

thought they were.

The final tip on the list is to stop calling. They’ll realize they miss that contact.

Don’t IM (instant message), email, text, write, drive by, leave notes, send cards - or

anything else like that. ‘No contact’ is the ‘best contact’ when it comes to making your

ex miss you and want you back…and wonder what you are up to. Wondering what you



are up to puts YOU first and foremost in their thoughts and their mind…this makes you

appear to have more value.

Of course…

Of course, some relationship breakups have much deeper issues and require

a much bigger, and bolder plan for any chance at re-uniting. I have been writing about

breakups for years and years and years – long before breakups were ‘in’ or people who

knew nothing about them tried to cash in on them at Google! ☺

I write from the heart and from many years of experience. And I’m pretty upfront and

honest! Some times relationships can’t be saved, and sometimes they can. It is the wise

who know the difference – and the foolish who pine away for a ghost … but our hearts

can be very ‘overriding’ when it comes to our brains.

Very, very overriding!

Love is often very lacking in common sense and ‘black-and-white’.

For excellent advice on stopping a breakup and winning your ex back please visit my

website, Stop The Ending of Your Relationship. Point your browser to

http://endingrelationships.com to visit the website. For those of you who know that your

relationship really is over, it is best to accept it as the gift that it was, be thankful for the



time together that you did have, and then let it go and move on. As this is a lot easier

said than done (I know!) you can read my report on getting over a breakup at

http://overabreakup.com. You will be amazed how I can relate to every emotion you are

feeling, and how I can help you understand and deal with it. Remember, I have had my

heart broken a few times, myself!

The saddest thing about a breakup is the absolute ‘aloneness’ that we feel. Even when

family and friends are surrounding us with love and support. Even at a huge party.

Even in the middle of a traffic jam, a crowded mall, or a packed conference room.

This aloneness wakes you up in the middle of the night. It greets you with the morning

light. It escorts you to work, and follows you back home again at the end of the day.

It helps to have a good support group to back you up and help keep you strong when

you feel yourself start to weaken. Many years ago I started the ‘Brokenheartsville’

Breakup Support Community. Some of the posts there are amazing! The insights and

advice found there cannot be compared to anywhere else online or offline. There is a

small price for membership in the community, but it is a very reasonable request

considering the fact that all my ebooks come FREE when you join the community ☺. It

is also offered at a special discount price at: http://brokenheartsville.com to readers of

this report (that means YOU!)… of course, you may visit http://liftedhearts.com to pay

the ‘real’ price without the discount offered here! ☺ ☺ ☺



Breaking up with someone you love can create all kinds of negative feelings, but

breaking up with a narcissist can create its own kind of 'special' pain. The complete

‘cutting’ off of you, as if you never existed, can make you feel crazy. … It's like the

relationship never happened. …. It's like they went from loving you to hating you and to

then not even remembering you at all - almost overnight. They can be mean, heartless,

lack empathy, lack remorse, lack love. And, just like a commitmentphobe, they at first

‘idolize’ you then they ‘devalue’ you, seeing you as an ogre and virtually turning on this

loathing of you practically overnight (or so it seems). Felling this sudden loss of your

appeal can be especially hurtful!

Then, to make matters worse, the narcissistic ex will take you to the cleaners and trash

your good character all around town. They are such expert actors that they can easily

fool people into believing anything they want them to believe - about you . They can turn

even the smartest of people against you, bias judges against you, and even turn your

own children, family and lifelong friends against you.

They can totally dismiss you as if you are not even alive. They can sit right in front of

you and never once look at you.

Yes, breaking up with a narcissist is unlike any typical breakup you will ever go

through...and hopefully unlike any breakup you will ever go through again. It is an

experience that a few unfortunate people go though and barely recover from unless

they know what to expect.



And the people in your life just don't understand. They say well-meaning things like, 'let

it go', 'move on', and my personal, all-time most irrational and irritating favorite, 'get over

it'. Ha! You haven't felt the cold, icy stab of devaluation and rejection until you

experience the end of a relationship with a narcissist. This pain is what prompted me to

write my new ebook on the subject, "The Counterfeit Heart ". You can read the foreword

to the ebook for free by going to http://breakingupwithyournarcissist.com and clicking on

the 'foreword' link on that page.

In parting I want to remind you that losing at love, and losing a partner, is the most

devastating event in most peoples lives, and you should expect it to hurt and hurt and

hurt. Being rejected from someone that we admire and look up to is a very traumatic

and highly emotional event for most of us. But, as the old saying goes, you will get

through it.

So please don’t despair! You will emerge from this a better person, and someday you

will look back and see how wonderfully positive you have grown through this

experience. It is an experience unlike any other; chock full of epiphanies and tears,

enlightenment and regrets, peace and upsets.

And through it all, we grow, we improve, and we become somehow ‘better’.

Experiencing heartbreak is somewhat like cocooning; we emerge from an ugly, barren

space a beautiful, brand-new butterfly. Prettier than ever. More alive. More attractive.

And we end up being thankful for the opportunity to be.



Best wishes, and thank you for reading. Remember, that with hope and faith all things

are possible.

Tigress Luv, the Breakup Guru

http://tigressluv.com

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